Have you ever talked to your parents, what do you think?

When I was young, I also talked back to my parents, for example, sometimes my parents may misunderstand their own practices, and they didn't think so. but imposes ideas on oneself. At this time, you must refute it, otherwise the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper.

When you refute, your parents may say that you will actually talk back. Use the identity of an elder to pressure you, but if you don't do anything wrong at this time. I'm going to tell my own point, too.

Of course, it's definitely not good to talk back, but if you are wronged, if you don't say it, you will feel uncomfortable.

As a person who has a sense of independence since childhood, he often comes to this question because he is good at expressing his thoughts, and is often scolded a lot because he is good at expressing his own ideas. In fact, talking back to parents is, in my opinion, the product of two generations of difficult communication. If you feel wronged, you can calm down and communicate, and if you communicate at the head of the conflict, you will only be denied the hat of talking back.

If you don't think it's a big deal, we can just go over with our parents, or listen carefully and never speak, they will definitely be gone. It is difficult to change the personality of parents and the way of education, what we can do is to tolerate our parents, and after calming down, we will communicate well together.

Yes, I regret that I am an elder after all, so we must be sensible and good children in the future. The elders can't talk back to us if they don't talk back. It's good to know for yourself.

Hello, I'm glad about your question, I used to be ignorant, what my parents said was inconsistent with my thoughts, and I couldn't control it and would talk back if I wanted to refute it. But I think it's wrong to talk back to your parents no matter who is right or wrong, after all, our parents gave birth to us and raised us, we should be grateful and grateful, honor them, say good things, and should not contradict them.

I hope mine can be helpful to you, hope.

It's not good, but now that I'm an elder, I know what kind of feeling it is.

Never, quietly listen to the parents and understand the intentions of the family.

Maybe that's what happened to my generation of parents! They always think that children and parents must have rules when they speak, and they can't refute it, they understand "respect for the elderly" too one-sidedly, forgetting that everyone is equal, and some fathers often belong to the strict kind in the family, like to educate their children with majesty, and don't know how to communicate! It's not like today's society advocates parents and children to get along like friends.

If you feel like communicating with your parents, you can tell them that they are too rough and have affected your psychology. If you can't communicate, then you should be cautious at home in the future to avoid mistakes, when you are excellent in all aspects! There's no reason for them to pick on your thorns!

Hello, don't be sad, I can understand your feelings, you must be very aggrieved and sad now, because some parents will think that their children will have a long memory, and they also want their children to develop a good habit of doing things seriously, so don't be sad.

I sometimes do other things while looking at my phone, my family is also disgusted with me doing this, I am middle-aged, my family also hopes that I can do things seriously, don't cook while looking at my phone, so don't be angry with your mother, develop a good habit of doing things seriously is good for your future.

Don't be sad.

It is because parents are very critical to their children's education, parents should be a good role model in ordinary times, if children love to talk back, parents are also responsible for patting, parents should actively guide and discipline at this time. Durable.

That's because the child has such a situation, and asking for help is because of some bad habits of the parents, so Xiangqin Sun Yi will let the child develop, so you should first let yourself change such a situation, and then educate your child well.

Because children love to talk back, it is likely that they have learned from their parents, so they should lead by example.

If you want your child to become an excellent child, then you must start quietly from the parents themselves, learn more knowledge, read more books, and make yourself and the child more connotative.

There must have been.

1. Take the initiative to communicate with parents, communication is the foundation of a good relationship. Usually communicate with your parents more about your own experience, tell your parents about the problems you encounter in study and life, and need your parents' help. You can also share your achievements and share happy things with your parents.

Establish a good communication relationship with your parents.

2. Listen carefully at all times and respect your parents' opinions. Although the two generations get along in different eras, the experience of their parents is also the experience that has been honed by life. Listen to the advice given by your father and mother, and respect the opinions given by your parents.

Even if you oppose your parents' suggestions, it's best not to get angry, control your emotions, talk to your parents calmly, and listen to your parents' reasons.

3. Be more empathetic, be considerate of your parents, and take the initiative to apologize to your parents when you make mistakes. If you really do something wrong and your parents reprimand you, don't talk back to your parents at every turn, think more from your parents' point of view, and be considerate of your parents' feelings and difficulties. Even if there are some things that may not be your fault, the bridge is good or you have been greatly wronged, but don't rush to argue just yet.

You have to learn to be considerate of your parents, maybe your parents are too tired or have troubles, so they will get angry. You can change the time and place and communicate with your parents again, and it will have unexpected effects.

1. Parents should control their emotions, parents in the process of educating their children, if the child does something wrong, parents must pay attention to the method of criticizing the child, do not blame the child all the time, otherwise the child will definitely talk back to the parents. If parents see their children talking back, they should first control their emotions, don't hit the children, and don't scold the children all the time, otherwise the child's personality will become more irritable, not only can not play a role in educating the child, but also play a counterproductive role, which will cause great damage to the child's soul. At this time, parents must deal with it calmly, focus on educating their children, communicate with their children calmly, and ask their children why.

2. Learn to understand the child, when parents educate their children, if the child talks back, parents should first keep calm, and then try to communicate with the child to understand why the child is like this. When parents understand why their children behave like this, they should learn to think from the perspective of their children, and don't blindly impose their own ideas on their children, so as to ease the atmosphere between them and their children, and to better educate their children.

3. Parents should lead by example, parents should learn to be an example for their children in the process of educating their children, if the parents' personality is very impulsive and very easy to quarrel with others, the child will also develop a bad habit of talking back. Therefore, parents must be gentle and stable in their usual behavior, not impatient, and must be humble and polite to the elders in the family, so that they will also have an impact on their children in the subtle way, and will make their children become more and more sensible.

For the phenomenon of children's backmouthing, parents should learn to analyze why their children talk back, and also understand the meaning behind their children's backmouth behavior, so that we can more clearly guide children to express themselves reasonably and express themselves in the face of children's backmouthing phenomenon. Let's first see why the child talks back? When the baby is a small baby, his and his mother's words and deeds are in front of the parents, so the baby is the most easily affected by the parents' behavior.

Children in more than a year old language ability has begun to form, sometimes because they want to express their thoughts and requirements more, at this time appropriate some exaggerated language, or exaggerated behavior is conducive to the baby to express their own ideas.

But sometimes because the baby's needs are too strong, and can not refuse the parents' requirements head-on, which will make parents feel guilty, guilty and ashamed, and even use yelling, scolding and other ways to respond to the child's needs, which will stimulate the child's inferiority complex, then parents must know how to stop it in time. Let's see if the way parents respond can have a positive effect. The mother thinks that the baby's thoughts and needs can be expressed through words, so when the baby is crying, the mother often can't help but complain or teach the baby, and then the baby will feel that the parents also care about themselves, and they are more obedient.

But for the baby, this kind of "scolding" response to the parents' words is that the parents are expressing their resistance and boredom to the baby in their own way, so this response will only have a negative effect on the baby.

Under the words and deeds of his parents, the baby finally became sensible and did not talk back, but he did not forget this process, because the parents' attitude towards himself and the response to the event made his heart more sensitive, and the child's psychology will also be affected to a certain extent. "My parents don't buy me good food, I can only study hard, work hard to earn my own money, and I will definitely let my parents live a good life in the future! "Mom and Dad can't buy it for you, so you can only ask Dad if you want to eat anything."

A boy said this to his parents, and the parents seemed to be lost in thought when they looked aggrieved on the boy's face. When the child cannot express his needs positively, parents can try to use the following 4 ways to let the child understand the reasons behind the incident and understand the parents' thoughts, which can alleviate the boy's temper and unreasonable situation to a certain extent.

Mom and Dad didn't buy me anything delicious, so I had to ask Dad what I wanted to eat. Sometimes when the baby gets a new toy, he will immediately tell his parents happily, then the parents will be very surprised, feel that their child is really sensible, he just understands the good intentions of the parents. In fact, this is just because the behavior of the parents is to respond to the child in a positive way, and there is nothing unreasonable about it.

But it is very likely that because of this sentence, he may be disrespectful to his parents, or he may feel that his parents do not love him.

Sometimes the child talks back, but Wu Zheng is filial to the forest to confirm whether the parents' wishes are like this, but the parents may be angry, feeling that the child is challenging their majesty, so they will be even more angry.

The child just discusses his own opinion on this matter with the parents, but the parents can't understand the child's thoughts, so they feel that the child is talking back to themselves, and he guesses that this is the will imposed on the child by the parents.

Because sometimes parents always impose their will on their children, and talking back is a way for children to resist.