Have you ever encountered anything that particularly pained you?

I have encountered something that particularly painfully hurts me, I am very attentive to the children in my class, but they don't understand my painstaking efforts, and they go against me every time, so that I can't give them better lessons.

In the third year of high school, when the college entrance examination was about to begin, my boyfriend broke up with me, and there was a warning for a long time, but it was almost time for the college entrance examination, and the double pressure of studying feelings made me desperate.

When I was a freshman, we had a puppy in the dormitory without the dormitory manager, which was particularly cute, and I walked around the dormitory every day, feeling that the whole dormitory was full of joy, but one winter night, because we forgot to pay the electricity bill, there was no air conditioning, and it actually froze to death.

The thing that makes me feel the most heartache is that after the college entrance examination, I just didn't do well in the exam, and then my parents didn't blame me, but comforted me very well, which made me feel a little guilty and a little heartache.

One time my girlfriend and my boyfriend were together, and it made me feel very sad and sad, my heart really hurt, but I couldn't do anything, I really felt blind.

One of the things that hurts me the most is the girlfriend I talked about in high school, because she didn't get into college, she is now working outside the home, and she has married someone else.

I had a crush on a guy in my junior year of high school, and then we got together, at that time he had just broken up with his ex-girlfriend, and after a while together, our relationship became worse and worse, and later I learned that he had long reconciled with his ex-girlfriend, and only I was in the dark.

One day my closest friend accidentally lost something, and then he blamed me, and I finally bought him one, and we haven't spoken since.

When I repeated high school, my boyfriend promised to wait for me to graduate, but when I graduated, I found out that he already had a girlfriend, and my friends around me knew that they had been hiding it from me.

I have a good friend, I trust him very much, and even he knows some of my personal things and precious things, but he stole my things, and his hands and feet are not clean.

I especially remember that when I went back to school during the May Day holiday that year, there were a lot of people on the train, and there were many people who didn't buy tickets and got on the train first and then made up for the tickets. That day, my seat was at the outermost end, next to the platform where the ticket was being made, and when the conductor began to shout, "If you don't buy a ticket, come here to make up the ticket", I was surrounded by water after a while, and I was squeezed into doubt. There was also a lonely train with a backpack to make up the ticket, the backpack squeezed my head and face until it was deformed, and people kept saying that they were embarrassed, but they couldn't do it, and I couldn't help it.

One of the eldest brothers felt embarrassed and asked me directly, "Can you help me get my bag?" "It's true that I feel more comfortable holding them than squeezing my head with their bag, so I agreed. Later, everyone who made up the ticket next to me, I told them, "Don't squeeze me with a bag, I can get you a bag first."

Some people will give it to me, and some people will be embarrassed to keep it for themselves, but they will be more careful not to touch me.

That's it.,I worked as a backpack keeper for 2 hours.,During the period, I also heard the joke "Is there anyone in this seat?,Who is it?,It's too miserable" (because a lot of arms are stretched out of my head to make up for the ticket) At this time, I tried to raise my head, "It's me...

Life always meets a lot of helpless, sad and lovely people on the way, what we can do may be to have fun in the bitterness and have the courage to take responsibility.

The relationship with his parents was strained, and he was scolded in various ways.

It was probably the year I was about to graduate from junior high school, and it was arguably the most painful year I've ever had. That year, his early love was first discovered by his parents, and then he was slapped by his father on the spot, and he went home and knelt on the ground and was beaten and scolded in various ways.

After that, I didn't care at school, and I had a lot of self-esteem and pretended to be a nobody, but in fact, I was extremely miserable and tormented because I was a trash in the eyes of my parents at that time.

Since then, the relationship with my parents has become more and more bad, especially for my father, tomorrow night I will quarrel over some big and small things, I just remember crying every night, going to school during the day to study early, my eyes are all swollen, and I will cry at every turn because of a little thing.

The whole person seems to be in a trance, and I thought it would be the worst, but then the disaster happened again. When I got up on Saturday morning to go to class, my classmates who had agreed to pick me up downstairs from my house on time, she had always been riding an electric car to carry me, but this time I offered to ride.

At the bus stop not far from the school, I spotted my classmate, I turned to say hello to him, and when I turned around, I saw a fellow student on a bicycle in front of me coming towards me, and I didn't realize that I had been hit.

I just remember that after the collision, my classmate and I rubbed on the ground for some distance with the car before stopping. After stopping, I didn't care about myself, so I quickly got up to see if the classmate behind me was injured, my classmate was fine, but the alumnus covered his head and kept crying, and he was bleeding.

Eventually, her parents came, and I accompanied them to the hospital, but I didn't inform my parents for fear. After everything was done, at the request of the other party's parents, I hit ** to my parents, but in exchange for endless scolding.

At that time, I was still young, and I was in the period of the Cold War with my family, and I was in trouble, and I really felt that the most painful thing in life was nothing more than this, and I was crying all the time, and the whole person was so irritable that I couldn't do it, but fortunately, after that, my relationship with my family eased, and I slowly got out of this haze.

I live in a big harmonious family, family members get along with each other happily, for me the death of a family member makes me very sad, although these sad things have happened since the most recent three years, but I still often see them in my dreams, their voices and smiles are still vivid, as if they have not left this world.

Other members of my family often dream of their deceased loved ones, and communicating and interacting with them in my dreams shows how loving and happy I live in a big family.

The first interview was Ms. Xu, she told me that she was most distressed after giving birth to a child, because her husband was working in the field, and her mother-in-law did not have time to take care of herself, so she relied on herself to survive, and after giving birth to a week later, all the work at home fell on herself, and she was still in the village at that time, and sometimes she needed to go to the reservoir outside to fetch water.

The second interviewee, Ms. Liu, talked about this topic, although it was light on the surface, but it was very moving, she said that she broke her heart for her children when they were in school.

Once promoted to the fifth grade, the head teacher in the county had promised to arrange the child in the best class, but what was unexpected was that the child did not receive the notice from the school for a long time, which made him anxious, so he went out to find the principal alone, and waited for two days before the principal agreed to meet.

The last interview with a girl who just graduated and got married and had children, she said that the most distressing thing about her is that the child's father is a soldier, because he has to serve in the military, so he rushed back to the army after getting married half a year ago, and everything at home is worrying about himself.

What I've experienced is heartbreaking. When I was a child, the family was patriarchal, my parents went out to work, and our two siblings lived with my grandparents, and my grandmother always secretly left small snacks for my younger brother, sometimes I would share half of them, but there would always be an imbalance, and he would give more to his younger brother. Every time Dad came back, he chatted with his younger brother first, and after chatting for a long time, his younger brother smiled happily.

And when I pick up **, I will only ask me how to study, let me study hard, and hang up without saying a few words. Since I was a child, I quarreled and fought with my younger brother, and my father would only blame me, scold me, and let me let my younger brother go, saying that I was still ignorant when I was so old, but in fact I was only two years older than my brother. My brother can watch TV, play games with his mobile phone, and can lie in bed, but I was scolded as soon as I watched TV, and my brother asked me to play a game I didn't dare, he would come to wake me up every morning, saying that young people always lie in bed for something, my brother slept until lunch and didn't get up, and the family called him to get up and eat many times, and he didn't say anything.

I used to be scolded and cry when I was wronged, but my father said that I would only cry. Later, junior high school had a rebellious period, always against them, didn't like to pick up their **, early love, weekends, holidays don't like to go home, in fact, just take the opportunity to vent the grievances, in fact, it's just that the boy is very good to me, better than them. Growing up sensible, I was just silent when I was wronged, and I just thought that I must stay away from home in the future.

After that, I talked less and less, especially when I was at home, and I didn't talk to them much because I was afraid that I would cry, and they said that I didn't know how to talk to people, but I didn't think about why.

There are many things that have been experienced, such as not studying well when studying, very heartbreaking, failing the college entrance examination, and watching the betrayal of friends around you, falling out of love, and being sick at the same time, well, the death of people around you, etc., it is very heart-wrenching, looking at your own future and so on.

What are some of the ironic things you've experienced in the world of relationships? The first thing that comes to my mind is: love in front of people, desolation in the back.

Many people have experienced such intimate relationships: two people have no violent quarrels, let alone physical conflicts, and often show affection, flirt, and "happiness" in the eyes of outsiders, but in private, one party in the intimate relationship always complains to others that their emotional life is very tiring and hard. In them, it is as if there is some kind of invisible violence, inflicted by one side on the other, and only those who are in it can know how painful it is.

Contrary to what we often call "cold violence", this is actually a less obvious type of emotional violence in intimate relationships: "mental abuse". What is "Mental Abuse" Mental abuse is a type of indirect violence that is more subtle than direct violence, but it is also more common.

In love, it often manifests itself in disrespect for the partner, lying, or simple manipulation. The abuser may not seem to have any abusive behavior, but there will be obvious abusive connotations in words and behaviors, such as verbal aggression, humiliation, sarcasm, and derogation. Mental abuse is also often delicate and unobtrusive, and it is easy for onlookers to misinterpret it as what the two people call "intimate interaction" or "flirting".

For example, someone will joke when they are partying with friends that their girlfriend is not attractive enough; laughed at his partner's privacy and living habits in public, saying that he was dirty and lazy at home; Instead of comforting your partner when she is frustrated at work, she repeatedly tells him or her that "you just can't do these things well."

Even after all these years, I'm still haunted by this matter, and I've always been very mindful. In such an important life occasion, parents did not participate, just for a dispensable meal. It may not be a big deal for a lot of people, but I really mind.

No matter how many things I have experienced in my life in the future, every time I think about it, I still feel very uncomfortable.

I once braved the scorching sun to carry some goods for others, and I could only get paid 15 yuan an hour.

When I was in school, my boyfriend was playing games in the Internet café, I hadn't had lunch in the afternoon, so he asked him to accompany me to dinner, he had been playing games, after playing game after game, he was angry and went downstairs to the Internet café to eat a bowl of Lanzhou ramen, and shed tears while eating, and the tears were late in his mouth along with the ramen, there was no taste of ramen, it was all the salty taste of tears, and now I think about it, and I feel sorry for myself.

After the breakup, I would think of him every night, think of his good or bad, regret that I didn't cherish it at the time, regret it so much that I couldn't sleep, I didn't dare to take the initiative to add him, I didn't dare to disturb, and I didn't know when I could end such a miss.

If there is one more distressing thing, it is the day when I picked up the new car, I hit the railing on the side of the road directly on the way home, and I hung the lottery before I really hit the road.

When I was a child, I was scolded by my mother, because I couldn't get angry, I ran away from home, I was hungry and had nothing to eat, and I didn't have an umbrella when it rained, which was very distressing.

I used to go to him in the middle of the night for the person I liked, but he said why are you so annoying, and you always pester me.

In order to buy a concert ticket for my girlfriend, I got up in the early morning to go to the ticket office and stand in line for 5 hours, and finally grabbed a ticket.

I used to go out on the street to hand out flyers in the cold winter, and my hands were frozen and cracked, which was really distressing.

In order to get up in the morning and go to work in the morning, it is really difficult to get up at 5 o'clock in the morning to make breakfast for yourself.