Why are boys nowadays so ungentlemanly?

Don't ask questions so absolutely. There are also many boys in the world who are very gentlemen.

It's because everyone is more open now

Boys don't have to be so elegant, which makes girls hate it even more.

And it's the same with girls now, and it's rude.

No one is perfect, so don't be so extreme.

Why are girls so ungentle nowadays? Ask yourself, what other people's personalities are like is all about your own attitude

It's just that a few are not gentlemen, and not all of them.

Your question is a bit vague and a bit absolute.

Not all boys are like that

Lack of virtue Aren't the upstairs all handsome guys ?

It's all downstairs

As for the middle floor, hehe

That's the most handsome in it

You are replacing the face with a point, taking it out of context!!

Why a gentleman. I've seen too much of the tape.

Should the original boy be a gentleman?

was trained by some old naughty people to be masculine and have no gentlemanly demeanor

1.He pays attention to hygiene, at least his nails, nose hair, and hairstyle are trimmed and neat.

2.He is able to balance career and life, he does not complain about the status quo all the time, he rarely says, "Don't ......."Can't ......"Words like that.

4.He has little interest in online dating, a child's game, and if you meet him because of the Internet, he won't just treat you as a netizen.

5.If he is interested in a woman, he will not wait three days to contact someone, because he does not need to tempt anyone by hanging someone's appetite.

6.If he asks a woman out for dinner and drinks together, he will make sure to bring her home safely.

7.If he wants to see you, wants to associate with you, he will let you know. If he doesn't want to, he'll politely let you know. He doesn't waste his time, but he will definitely pay attention to politeness.

8.To this day, he may still retain the habit of reading paper books. He has his own opinions on social hotspots and world events, but he doesn't need others to agree with him, he doesn't force anyone.

In fact, if you disagree with him, he will be a little happy because he feels that you are interested in his topic and provides him with a different perspective.

9.He will open the door for you and will take off his coat for you to put on. This is not because he feels that the woman is vulnerable, but because he wants to show that he cares about you and make you feel comfortable.

10.He would have loved to go to a woman's bed, but he would have wanted to get into the woman's mind.

The man is a gentleman, I think the most common thing in general social situations is when dating a lady, the man should try not to be late, and should find a little bit, so that when the boy waits for the girl, the girl may feel that the boy is very personable.

In addition, for example, when having dinner or eating, the man takes the initiative to rub the stool for the woman, and let the girl do it after she is ready, or there are some etiquette for entering the door, including letting the girl go in first and enter later, and when getting out of the elevator, these small actions are generally speaking, which will make the woman feel that the man is very gentlemanly.

A boy's life experience is a good quality, but if a boy's life experience covers multiple girls, it violates the definition of a gentleman, and it has become the most hated ** air conditioner for girls. The life experience of a boy should be grasped to a degree and implemented within a normal social range, if it goes beyond the normal social range, it can be defined as dedication. If there are boys who are worried about other girls under the banner of gentlemen, then it is easy to cause ambiguity and cause unnecessary trouble.

Girls hope that boys will give their gentleness and thoughtfulness to girls alone, so there should be no more intimate behavior for other people except for normal intersections.

In real life, we will find that very gentlemanly boys can't find girlfriends, but bad boys can get beautiful people. If a boy is an excessive gentleman and adheres to the traditional dogma that men and women do not kiss, it will give girls a strong sense of distance, so that girls can't find a sense of love and don't want to get close. Brother respect is not applicable to love, in love needs the specific actions of boys to express the love for girls, too gentlemanly boys, will use gentlemen to ignore this aspect.

The biggest disadvantage of gentleman men in relationships is that they are easy to miss good opportunities for further development with girls due to politeness, and many such boys will be used as spare tires by girls.

Or issue a good person card.

It's all due to missing the best time for two people to be together, and their gentlemanly character will lead to being very kind to many people, so that the girls they like don't feel favorited, miss the opportunity for two people to be together, and finally develop love into friendship.

Of course, it does not mean that a gentleman is not good, in fact, a gentleman is a very good character, any boy should have a gentleman, but we also have to master the boundaries, excessive gentleman will lead to people not being able to understand their inner thoughts, and they cannot express their correct thoughts.

The reason why there is such a phenomenon is because for many girls, they feel that men who are too gentlemanly are particularly wooden and do not know how to be romantic.

It's because girls think that such a man is too pretentious and machismo, so girls don't like it.

Because they feel that men who are too gentlemen are not free with them, very restrained, and unhappy, so they don't like men who are very gentlemanly in love.

Hello dear, glad to have your question 1. A gentleman man is courteous, modest, well-dressed, elegant, good self-cultivation, knowledgeable, well-informed, caring, respectful of the old and love for the young, respectful of women, no bad habits, and good interpersonal relationships. It is a man with a good heart and elegant manners.

2。Gentleman, or gentry, used to refer to a powerful landlord or retired bureaucrat in the local area. After the interaction between China and the West, the word was used as one of the paraphrases of English gentleman.

Modern refers to a man who behaves elegantly and politely.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

A polite man is a gentleman.