What are the years of danger in marriage?

At the age of 20 we refuse marriage, at the age of 30 we yearn for marriage, at the age of 40 we are tired of marriage, at the age of 50 we tolerate marriage, at the age of 60 we enjoy marriage, but we have to face the ruthlessness of the years. In fact, marriage has never changed, only our ...... have changed

Women – have different feelings about things at different ages. Men, money, careers, ......And, of course, the ...... marriage

Experts from the Marriage and Family Research Office of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences described marital satisfaction as follows: People's satisfaction with marriage changes with the growth of marriage years in the shape of a "U", that is, shortly after marriage and in old age, couples are most satisfied with their marriage, and at a certain stage around the age of 40, their satisfaction with marriage will fall to the bottom.

It is said that there is a seven-year itch, and the seventh year may fade the feeling of life and marriage!

Seven years of itching, so it's 7 years, a dangerous period.

I feel that in the second year, after giving birth, people are easy to change, and after a woman gives birth, the child becomes the first place, and she neglects her husband, and the man will slowly have opinions, and slowly there will be danger.

The first danger period: when the child is born.

The arrival of the child has suddenly increased the pressure on the life of the inexperienced couple, and the original normal life of playfulness and entertainment has been seriously disturbed and interrupted, and the "new triangle" relationship generated after the arrival of the child has greatly changed the original "two-person world", so the couple will suddenly feel nervous, dazed and irritable about the marriage.

The second danger period: four to five years after marriage.

After four to five years of marriage, after the freshness has passed, both of them tend to feel that life is boring. The husband is busy with work that has no possibility of promotion or raise, and he may be more lazy to do housework when he comes home; And the wife has to work and take care of the children to live and study, one person is very busy, both of them are in the same life circle, but they are not as idle as before.

The third danger period: the seven-year itch.

After seven years of marriage, the time of marriage is the lowest time for the couple to be satisfied. Between the sixth and tenth years of marriage, couples are at their least satisfied with each other and feel bored with their married life. In fact, the peak of divorce in society is often in the seventh to tenth year of marriage.

Since human nature is like this, at this time, both husband and wife should help each other to re-enter their hearts with the highest degree of patience and the most care, so as to preserve the marriage.

Fourth danger period: 20 years after marriage.

During this period, the physical condition of both men and women gradually changed. Usually, wives enter menopause and are often irritable and very worried about the loss of their attractiveness in the eyes of their husbands. Dongsui's husband is worried that he will no longer be energetic, his talents will no longer grow, and his social role will be completely hopeless.

If the spouses are unable to make up for each other and help each other, then the breakdown of the marriage is inevitable.

This varies from person to person, depending on the harmony between the husband and wife. From romantic love to real marriage, in the dull day and night together, they are too familiar with each other, and the shortcomings that they hide when they are in love or the differences in concepts between the two parties have been fully exposed at this time. Emotional "exhaustion" or boredom causes the marriage to enter a "bottleneck", and if it is not possible to choose an effective way to pass this "bottleneck", the marriage will end.

Generally speaking, about 3 years from the honeymoon gradually becomes dull, within 7 years can survive, basically the stool will adapt to the current life and the marriage can end well, the highest divorce rate is within these 7 years, called the seven-year itch.

Seven years of marriage is a dangerous period for marriage. Because it is said that marriage has a seven-year itch, the relationship between two people at this time is the most insipid, and it is most likely to have extramarital affairs.

I think that the relationship is the most dangerous time when I have been married for seven years, because both parties feel tired of it and understand each other's skin.

After marriage, there is a sweet period, a cold period, a surprise period, and a cold war period.

Beginning to get married is a sweet period: not seeing each other for a day is like every other autumn is to describe this time.

After the sweetness comes the cold period: we meet every day, and the mood is not so strong when we open every day.

Surprise period: Suddenly one day you say to him or hear her say that she has a baby, and I don't need to say it.

Then there was the Cold War period: the quarrels that accidentally fell and bumped into while taking children; anxiety when there is no money for milk powder; After that, the child's reading and other problems will make you feel physically and mentally exhausted, and slowly many things will not be spoken. In this way, they slowly became familiar strangers.

After the honeymoon, it begins to enter a dangerous period, because at that time, you have to face the life of a two-person family, many tedious things to do, and many family problems to deal with properly, especially during childbirth, which is more likely to have problems.

The seven-year itch after marriage refers to a manifestation of people's status quo in marriage, and some people are accustomed to the world of two people after marriage, even if it is ten or twenty years until a lifetime; But some people may be tired of life after marriage, and when it comes to seven years, it is the limit of the relationship, so the seven years after marriage is the danger zone of the relationship. There is some truth to it, but it also varies from person to person!