Marriage is really the grave of love, would you choose not to get married?

Updated on society 2024-05-14
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, I think getting married represents the establishment of a new family, and it is a blessing to have someone who can always be by my side, so I will choose to get married.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, I think life is to experience a lot of things, and marriage is a testimony of love for some people, just like Huo Siyan and Du Jiang, Zhang Xinyi and Yuan Hong, these people's marriages are very happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, no one will just fall in love, falling in love is to get married, although there will be various contradictions after marriage, but there are also sweet times, in raising a child, a family of three is sweet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I wouldn't choose not to get married, because getting married means that the relationship between the two people is already very good, so I decided to get up together and go to the end.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At present, this is the choice, after all, the cost of marriage is too high now, and it will be born after marriage, the two are in good condition now, very happy, and it feels good to maintain the status quo.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I could do it all over again, I would definitely choose not to get married. After getting married, it's bland, but it just doesn't feel interesting, and it's not as happy as being alone.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I will choose to get married, but I will see who I marry, whether it is suitable for me? Who does it matter who you marry? Marriage cannot be compromised.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you only fall in love and don't get married, it is irresponsible for both parties. Marriage is the grave of love, but if you don't get married, love dies without a place to bury.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If we are only in love and not married, I think this kind of relationship will not last long, because we need children to tie each other up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is less of a bond, but there is more frankness, and it often ends in a breakup.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People's thoughts and concepts have undergone tremendous changes, causing some people to develop from indifference to marriage, to fear of marriage, and then to a sense of oppression in their psychological escalation. In this way, slowly, many people lost interest in marriage, regardless of men and women, young and old, generally chose to be single, and refused to enter the door of marriage.

    In the past, marriage was happiness and the destination of love, and people needed to have a home. Marriage is the concept of home, which slowly amplifies happiness. Now it's different, many people are married for the sake of getting married, and some people are completely looking for economic partners, or emotional communities.

    And the kind of innocent love and sincere feelings that people yearn for at the beginning have been replaced by the materialistic desires of today's society and people's selfish thoughts.

    With the collapse of patriarchal societies, there was a great deal of emphasis on equality between men and women, and the social structure was based on gender equality. However, due to biological differences, women have higher bargaining chips in marriage and love, and they have higher requirements for men. In a world where women can hold up half the sky, men cannot earn income to support their families through manual work alone, but women can increase their income through intellectual labor.

    So the traditional marital relationship can't be maintained, and many men don't understand this and don't know what role they should play in the marriage, so it doesn't matter who it is, the marriage doesn't make sense.

    In ancient times, marital happiness was based on men, but with the independence of women, this patriarchal ideology collapsed, and if you want to be happy in marriage, at least the concepts of both parties must be highly compatible. In addition to this, there is also a requirement for men and women to have a common life and hobbies, and if not, then people prefer to be single. Just like now, many single men and women are not single because of their own conditions, often because they are "demanding", and they prefer to find a partner who can understand each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because I am afraid that the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not be good, I am afraid that the husband and wife will often have conflicts, and they will have to raise children, and the pressure of life and work is very great, so I resist the marriage breakup.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is because many people are very afraid of marriage, and they also feel that there are many trivial things in marriage, and at the same time, the divorce rate of the social cover brigade is also very high, so they will also be very resistant to marriage.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is because many people have a fear of marriage, and the divorce rate in society is very high, so many people resist getting married.

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