Is marriage really the graveyard of love?

There is no one in this world who can't live without anyone's love, almost all people get it very well, and it doesn't matter if they don't get it, they still should eat and drink. When I was a child, I longed for love, but now I finally understand the sentence in the lyrics "Love is just a fart of life", which seems to be nothing, and it can't be caught or touched.

Life is always helpless, it's just that everyone's ideas are different, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, you have been sad, but it is undeniable that you have been happy and happy, right. Try to understand each other, and you will be able to live together, which is a very fateful and difficult thing. Don't talk about losing confidence in life, losing confidence in love and marriage.

Believe that tomorrow will be better. Believing that God is fair to everyone. Marriage is the grave of love, but there is no saying, I don't go to hell who goes to hell, many people say that marriage is so terrible, there are still many people who are married, and every couple is still a happy couple after quarreling.

Your heart is not good now, so your thoughts are more extreme, think about your happy days, look for the days that have passed, and I believe that you will find your happy times. Although the relationship between husband and wife is as fragile as thin ice, think about it, two people were united several years ago with the mood of yearning for a happy marriage. Think about your own shortcomings and shortcomings, just before you get married, full of enthusiasm for life, life is like a mirror, you laugh, it also smiles ......

Trouble, thanks!

No, it's something wrong with my heart.

Is it necessary for marriage to be open in the circle of friends? Is marriage really the grave of love?

Marriage itself is bland, generally speaking, only real marriage will make people find sustainable happiness in the bland, and people are unwilling to be bland because they always compare with romantic love, men and women always hope to extend the emotions instigated by imagination in love to every moment of married life, even every corner, so that the heart is always ignited for love, sparks are scattered. However, as soon as they enter married life, men and women experience a different scene, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping, taking care of children... All of this could not be more realistic, permeated every moment, even every moment.

Love likes to whisper, and language is a word sifted out of the dictionary, shiny and sweet. And marriage always tells the truth, and it always loses its imagination, even if it is occasional warmth, it can't get back to the longing of the year; Love likes to change scenes, or under the moon before the flowers, or by the lake next to the willows, or anchored in any place between the sea and the universe imagined in my heart. Marriage, on the other hand, has only one final destination, a crowded or uncrowded home, which men and women have to enter every day, whether they want it or not.

Men and women who originally entered marriage because of love often blew their beards and glared at marriage and said bad things about marriage in order to relive the feeling of not being in love or not being able to find love. People always like to say that marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, there is no place to die... If you have to compare love and marriage, in fact, love is like strong wine, and marriage is like boiled water.

But don't forget, strong wine can't be drunk every day, because life can't bear it; And boiled water must be drunk every day, because life is inseparable from it. May everyone in the world have a happy marriage, because that is the destination of love and the station of heaven.

Not necessarily; Because they feel that after two people get along for a long time, they don't have that heart-pounding feeling, and it becomes family affection.

If you guys.

Bai's marriage is because of love, then it's not, because the time when you are really suitable for marriage is when you two feel that there is no difference between getting married and not getting married, and of course two people getting married will change from a two-person world to a big family of two families, so there will always be a little awkwardness, relax and communicate more.

In fact, every woman will be full of expectations for her love and marriage, expecting that she can be immersed in romance, hoping that she will be as sweet as ever with each other and stay with each other for a long time. Don't let the other party start to be discouraged because of some small things, from the beginning of hope to the end to disappointment, even despair, but in the end it becomes indifferent.

Every couple will have their own way of getting along, in short, if two people get along properly and belong to themselves, then marriage is not necessarily the grave of love. Love does not have to be vigorous to be good, firewood, rice, oil, salt and vinegar, and the love of fine water is also a kind of happiness, and it is a kind of love full of fireworks in the world.

It is said that marriage is the grave of love, in fact, this "grave" can also be full of beauty, flowers, and can be immersed in romance, because marriage is not a cage, so there is no need to feel that marriage is the grave of love.

Marriage is not necessarily the end of love, the joint efforts of two people can also be a comma of love, and it can be the beginning of love.

For a beautiful but fragile love, marriage is the grave of love, and for a truly firm love, marriage is also the sublimation of love.

I think so.

Bai is especially a person who believes in the fallacy that "love is the foundation of marriage".

Love is the advantages of two versions of people living together in power, and marriage is the advantages and disadvantages of two people living together. Because love has overdrawn its advantages before, the disadvantages will be particularly prominent. Although love requires giving, it does not require much responsibility; Marriage is not only about giving, but also about taking responsibility.

Therefore, fragile love, when it comes to real marriage, is often vulnerable and cannot last long.

Love is not the foundation of marriage, the foundation of marriage is that there is no hate, there is no displeasure, mutual understanding and understanding is the magic weapon to maintain marriage. However, love and hate are twins, and the deeper the love, the deeper the hope; The deeper the hope, the more eager it is; If you want to be responsible, you will hate life. It's hard to love without hating.

Marriage is the grave of love, and love is the gravedigger of marriage.

No, I was with my husband for four years before I got married.

After getting married, I feel very down-to-earth, my husband is better to me, and now I have been married for three years, and I feel better and better It mainly depends on both parties Whether they are like-minded Friends around me are very good when they are in love, but after marriage, the relationship is getting worse and worse, so that there are many reasons for divorce Material foundation, family relationship The most important thing is that both parties have the same values

After marriage, you still have to pay a lot of effort, less hypocrisy, it's okay to quarrel, don't have a cold war overnight, don't say hurtful words when you quarrel, don't just pay, but balance. Women who have given birth should use their spare time to recharge themselves, I think that after marriage, women should be independent in personality rather than financially! Work hard and let people know that even if a woman has no support, she has the ability to make a comeback!

In the end, women are in charge of the house and must keep accounts!! Be clear about where each expenditure goes, and live after marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, remember to remember! When she meets the right one, the woman will be radiant, and if she meets the wrong one, it is the grave you said.

If it's not a grave, Qingming always has to come to commemorate it several times!

Marriage is not only the grave of love, but also the grave of life.

Yes, after getting married, there is no love, only family affection!

I think as long as two people truly love each other, then marriage is not a grave.

Marriage is a further relationship between two people in love, when they are in love, both parties are in love with each other, in fact, there is no guarantee for two people at this time, because the emotional matter is not sure when it will change.

But marriage is different, when two people think that the other party is their companion for the rest of their lives, they will think about how to determine this relationship, confirm the relationship, and everyone can also put their minds elsewhere, because life is not only about feelings, but also about work, family, etc., it is impossible to only keep feelings and not do anything else.

When two people enter the palace of marriage, then both parties can rest assured to fight for each other and for the family, only by working hard to make money and improve the economic conditions of the family, will they not be troubled by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and will not affect the feelings of both parties because of these small things in life and work.

When two people enter the palace of marriage, then they are considered husband and wife in the true sense, protected by the law, and can also do legally permissible things, such as having a baby and so on. Without marriage, there is no guarantee for having a baby, and it is not protected by the law, and the husband and wife cannot enjoy the joy of raising children, nor can they pass on the love between the two parties to the next generation.

Love not only refers to love, in fact, family affection is also a kind of love, as long as both parties are together, they can generate a lot of motivation. Nowadays, people always exaggerate the saying that marriage is the grave of love, but in fact, this is just a fear of the bondage of marriage for some people. In fact, love should be restrained, not presumptuous, many people like the presumptuous of love, so they are so afraid of marriage.

Wrong marriages are indeed the grave of love. Marriage is not the grave of love, lack of faith and patience is. If love is about making you fall in love with someone special, marriage is designed to teach you how to love an ordinary person.

Impulsive marriage and impulsive divorce are both irresponsible manifestations of marriage, a cautious marriage should be like a pot of braised pork, we need to select suitable ingredients and spices in the early stage, after blanching, boiling, stewing, layer by layer, and finally it can be perfectly presented, which is not something that can be done in two or three minutes. It is precisely because of the prudence and seriousness in the early stage that we can make our later life colorful, flavorful. Many people think that getting married and having children is a natural thing, and when we reach a certain age, we should follow the crowd, get married, have children, like early education classes before marriage, and deal with marriage problems.

It would be foolish to find this practice now. Kotaro Isaka said: The thought of being a parent without having to go through an exam is terrifying.

I would like to say that marriage is the same, getting along before marriage, and all kinds of observations and trainings, is the test of marriage. Because marriage is not a charcoal in the snow, but the icing on the cake. The meaning of marriage is that we are willing to keep a heart for a lifetime, keep the soul that will make the corners of our mouths rise all the time, and cherish the life of loving and being loved.

It's okay in this way, mature people think about themselves, but don't forget the premise of supporting each other and running in with each other. If you really love someone and change for him or her, you don't need to think too much about it, let alone think about the gains and losses. More care, just because we love ourselves more.

It's okay in this way, mature people think about themselves, but don't forget the premise of supporting each other and running in with each other.

Is it necessary for marriage to be open in the circle of friends? Is marriage really the grave of love?

Many friends say that when they are in love, they are sweet and sweet, and they look forward to the future every day, but once they get married, they find that looking forward to the future is a very luxurious thing, and gradually they can't even keep falling in love. So is marriage really the grave of love? In my opinion, marriage is not the grave of love.

1. Marriage is not the same as love.

Under normal circumstances, the spark of love is sudden, and when it is sweet, everyone doesn't care about economic conditions and family background, but when the enthusiasm cools down and the two have become a family, there will be many problems, such as: Some boys will think that your parents and colleagues are not worthy of you because I earn less, and some girls will think that I look average, my husband is very handsome, everyone says that we are not a good match together, and my husband will not dislike me when I get old after a long time? If only he weren't so good-looking......In fact, the root cause of the problem is that both men and women do not realize that since they are married, the two people are a whole.

You can't always suffer from gains and losses like when you fall in love, since you choose to walk hand in hand, you must give each other enough trust.

2. Block the noise interference from the outside world.

In fact, what extinguishes the spark of love between two people is not from the lover in many cases, but from the outside world. Nowadays, people pay more and more attention to the opinions of the people around them, and once there is a bad voice, they will focus their full attention on it, and always think involuntarily: what everyone said is right, I am indeed not as good as my husband, not worthy of him, and even slowly disgusted and afraid of my other half.

In fact, in the final analysis, falling in love is a matter of two people, and it is your lover who spends the rest of your life with you, not someone else, so why care too much about other people's opinions.

Sometimes, caring too much about what other people think can ignore the feelings of the people you love the most.

Marriage is faced with the wealth of life.

Love leads to marriage, and love begins with marriage.

If two people who truly love each other get married together, it is a happy ending, and on the contrary, if two people who do not really love each other get married, it is the grave of love.

No. Those who say that marriage is the grave of love are basically people who have not run a marriage for any purpose.

Many people insist on love before marriage. Immediately afterwards, he entered the marriage, and after that, he did not change his thinking in time, and finally got a chicken feather. In the face of these chicken feathers, some two people grew up together and faced it bravely, but the marriage eventually became the sublimation of love, while some did not grow together, getting worse and worse, and finally, the marriage ended the love, and the two parted ways.

Marriage is not just about love, there are many things involved. Perhaps the most important of these is a contractual relationship. In accordance with the spirit of the contract, two people are honest and trustworthy, sincere cooperation, and finally under the guidance of the soul of love, the marriage can be completed and the whole family can move towards new glory.

Many of the marriage management courses of Huijia Emotion suggest that couples learn together, and having a happy marriage requires two people to work together.