Is the relationship to be fateful? Or do you want to strive for your own happiness?

Updated on society 2024-05-06
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Fate is earned through hard work.

    This is true of everything in the world.

    The seeds of the dandelion drift away in the wind and take root.

    People say that if it doesn't produce seeds, waits for the wind to come, and then lets go of those seeds, does fate make sense to it?

    The growth and development of all things depends on hard work, and fate is the bridge to strive to achieve the goal, you always wait, do not do anything, do not contact anyone, how can fate meet you.

    It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to make things happen.

    Heaven is fate.

    God let you meet the two of you and make you fall in love with him, this is fate.

    Why bother to hurt others, if they are fateful, how can you break them up???

    Striving for happiness is to follow fate, sit back and wait, that is to give up fate.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Feelings are still fate, because the more you want to be happy, the more you can't be happy! Haven't you heard that the greater the hope, the greater the disappointment? I feel that most people are troubled for the sake of feelings! It can be seen how important feelings are in people's lives!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do your best, at least don't let yourself regret it.

    I think the biggest sadness is not the loss, but the regret but the regret medicine that I can't find.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is inherently selfish, two people together, destined to hurt one person or even more people, don't be sad, the person who was hurt will eventually get happiness, cheer for yourself, and cheer for the people around you

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Fate can allow you to meet, but how to develop needs to fight for yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Sometimes there is no contradiction between fate and hard work, and if you follow fate, don't you fight for it when you get to someone who is destined? When you are used to it alone, you will know how to live freely.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, we have to work hard. Love is inherently selfish.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think we have to fight for it, but fighting doesn't mean forcing it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The happiness you strive for will be cherished.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Anyone can be sorry, but be worthy of yourself!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    We often say "fate", but in fact, fate is really not without scientific reason.

    Scientifically, we have chaos, randomness, and singularity; However, we cannot deny that there is finitude in infinity and stability in singularity.

    What I mean by this is that in scientific terms, it is necessary for all people, but not necessarily for certain people. So, there's a question of probability, so when is the probability high?

    Then we have to talk about the external environment and the eye, in the vernacular, it is "the right time to meet the right person"!

    You see,"Whatever happens"Isn't it amazing?

    In the vast sea of people, I only glanced at you, but what I thought about for a while was the appearance of "her" in your mind!

    We must have a correct concept of love, love is coming, we should not hide, we must face it. Even if there is no "casual fate", the love of the drop of water and the stone wears the imitation, the love of the sea is dry and rotten, the love of living and dying together, the love of each other, the love of the water and so on, is also as wonderful as "the fate"!

    You must know that as long as there is "fate", there is "love"!

    Love is such a thing, you have her, she has you, only you and her have, can you produce "love and love" and "love", how wonderful!

    To sum up: I think that "casual" is wonderful, but in the end, both parties must have "love", so "with" can be used as the initial point, but after all, it is necessary to keep up with the action, keep up with the thought, and unify the pace, which requires the usual self-quality improvement, self-ability improvement, self-worth realization and so on.

    In a word, wonder is instantaneous and special, and the operation of all things has a general law after all, which is ultimately inseparable: the word "effort"!!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No one knows what kind of person they will be with in the future, we may have had a lot of plans, but the person we finally like and fall in love with is not necessarily the kind of person we planned.

    Feelings don't stand up to planning.

    Fate is a thing, no one can hide from it when it comes inadvertently; But when fate arrives to leave, no one can stop it; So everything should be left to chance.

    There is a lot in this world that can be planned, and we can also follow the planned route; But in the end, what we choose is not necessarily our own planning.

    Maybe sometimes, we can't tell what is true and false, but when we are confused, in fact, as long as we want, we can be sober at any time; But we don't necessarily understand why we like it.

    Why love? Maybe only when you don't dwell on why is it casual and normal.

    If you love, you love, if you don't love, you don't love; If you are single, you will be single, if you are happy, if you are lonely, if you are lonely; Everything is arranged in its own way.

    Fate is the best way to live in life.

    Good night and early refusal.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    What do you think love is?

    A little bit of emotion, a little bit of impulse, a hug and a kiss?

    Naïve people, I have watched too many Japanese and Korean dramas, and I have read too many romantic articles.

    This may be part of love, but definitely not most of it.

    The subject of love is life, living together.

    Can you accompany her to be sad for a while, but can you accompany her to withstand all the pressure?

    Can you give her body temperature, but can you give her direction in life?

    Have you ever imagined that when the enthusiasm fades, hugs no longer have any attraction to you?

    How do you go along?

    Distance is the test of true love, and time is the answer.

    For the sake of the person you love, please make some sacrifices and keep your love, otherwise how can you talk about true love.

    You can forget your previous vows, but remember your true heart.

    Ask yourself, do you love so much?

    Are you willing to hurt both?

    Love is by no means looking for it when it is missing, and it is not changing it when it is tired.

    Life is not a good life for one person.

    It's how two people live well together.

    But for some objective reasons, in reality, you can't be together at the moment, are you just giving up so easily, and you are compromised?

    Can't you keep it for love?

    Do you allow yourself to be so short-sighted and only see the happiness in front of you?

    Is this the end of my life?

    If it's true love, you'll never give up!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's a contradiction, it's two different attitudes to life. The former goes with the flow and is laissez-faire; The latter is based on winning and will do whatever it takes, which can be said to be two extremes.

    Therefore, when we face life and face the unbridled life, we must hold the idea of moderation, that is, everything is compromised, and we do not go to extremes. You have to be clear about what you want to do and who you need to fight for, and you have to think more about the consequences that your decisions may have on the side of the split. It looks like happiness from afar, but after you win it, you may find that it is not actually happy.

    This will be understood as you grow with experience.

    You are a person who is good at thinking about reason, and doing so will help you grow.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love, this eternal topic, no matter how thoroughly you see love and how much you talk about it, but when you are in it, you will always want to say it but never be able to do it.

    Some people say that love can't be forced, strong melons are not sweet, love should go with the flow, everything is according to fate, but if you don't fight for it, can you guarantee that you won't regret it in the future? Some people say that if you have love in your heart, you must speak out boldly, pursue boldly, persevere and never give up, but what your persistence brings to the other party, whether it is trouble, helplessness or the warmth of being loved and spoiled, no one dares to guarantee. Love is a warm and cold self-aware thing, not to be able to meet everyone's minds, but not to bother others and not to hurt yourself!

    You can choose to express your emotions in order not to let yourself have regrets, but when the other party expresses a clear refusal, you must decisively let go, don't stalk, wronged yourself and bothered others, why bother? If you encounter a failed relationship, you have to let yourself come out as soon as possible, life is not only about love, there are many things waiting for you to do, divert your attention, and put your energy into work. I have to think more about it, at least I won't regret my efforts, and leave the rest to God, don't be cocooned.

    May you and I be treated gently by the years.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love has always to be fought for by itself, and it will not take the initiative to find the door. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke expressed that love needs to improve one's self-ability.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Personal thoughts,It's best to fight for it when it's time to fight for it.。。 If you don't have a big chance, just follow it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    When you meet someone you like, you must fight for it yourself, and once you miss it, you really regret it.

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