Why is it so hard to study? Why is it looked down upon for poor learning? Please, 3Q

No, it won't! I'm also poor at studying, so as long as I perform well, I won't be looked down upon by you.

"If you don't go to school, what will you do in the future? "If you don't study well, what will you be able to do in the future?" The parents said anxiously.

For students with poor academic performance, parents feel very anxious and entangled, feeling that their children have no hope, no future, and even are very disappointed in their children. In fact, parents are completely unnecessary, the idiom says: "I am born to be useful!"

The child must be a useful talent.

If he doesn't study well, it means that he doesn't have the talent to learn, or he is not enlightened at the moment and can't keep up with the progress of the course. Children can only follow the original class to learn, and have been in a bad situation, and there is no way to engage in industries with high knowledge requirements in the future. The child has studied for twelve years and undergone rigorous training in school, which is rewarding, and the important thing is the cultivation of perseverance and character, endurance:

Due to poor learning, the child has to continue to study, and the child has developed perseverance and learning endurance; Often criticized by teachers and ignored by teachers, they have developed a huge ability to accept criticism and frustration; These experiences and exercises have allowed children to develop a resilient character that can withstand long-term setbacks. These are the excellent qualities that businessmen possess, therefore, children who do not study well are very suitable for business, that is, to engage in the business of goods, to engage in the promotion of products.

Everyone has their strengths, and everyone can find the right job. Parents just need to care for and support their children, and your children will become excellent talents.

Grades have nothing to do with this, the main thing is that your ability to deal with the world and the ability to face social setbacks is the key. The one who fights head-on has the most victorious side.

Due to the indoctrination of some parents, children use school and reading as a means - if you don't go through this purgatory-like life, you will never get ahead. They almost told them these wise sayings day and night when the children just had some thoughts, resulting in many children not seeing or understanding what the meaning of learning is, feeling that God is really making people, how to be born for a few days, not enough to play, was sent by parents to a place called school, but also called the teacher to manage, can not do small actions in class can not speak, after class still have to do homework, hey, you have to review at every turn! But adults don't have to study and go to class, but they just talk about studying hard, or they don't grow up and have no way out.

Children are waiting for graduation from the beginning of entering the school, like a firebird waiting for rebirth, they do not understand why there is no way out if they do not study, and their parents only tell them the result, and always say in a vicious tone: "If you can't get into college, go and sweep the road." The educational concept of only letting children know what the consequences of poor learning is unlikely to stimulate children's joy and desire for learning, nor does it help children understand what learning is and how to learn.

But parents can only try their best to induce, or "coax" their children to learn! Although the child also knows that it will not hurt him to learn well! Therefore, when students talk about the meaning of learning and their views on learning, many children think that they are studying for their parents, or that they are studying for the sake of finding a good job in the future.

Therefore, when many students talk about their attitudes towards learning, they are more about their emotional experiences and reactions to learning, and most students do not like to study, regardless of their academic performance. It turns out that from the very beginning, children regard learning as a painful life course, as a torment, just to not sweep the road in the future, they can only endure all kinds of pain brought by learning, for nothing else, but one day the phoenix Nirvana, and learning goodbye. It is with this attitude that learning becomes a passive act, even with a certain irresistible compulsion!!

Passive learning, uncreative learning is dead "learning", and poor grades are due to the lack of real mastery of what they have learned, so they cannot be used correctly and flexibly! The simplest reason is that students don't know and are not interested in their own problems.

Because I don't work hard and I don't realize the importance of learning Learning knowledge to enrich my mind and enrich my heart, now society is not about learning to remember certain knowledge, but about being able to learn. Nowadays, a lot of new knowledge expires in just three years, and mastering the learning method is the most important thing. Learning the corresponding subject knowledge is an over-the-top subject learning method, and it is a necessary stage of learning and development, so I believe that learning is a skill that must be mastered in life.

That's what I think, that's my understanding of learning, I hope it can help you! In order not to fall behind, let's learn! ~

People who say they work hard often don't really make an effort, and you can reply to me and tell me about your situation.