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are all rebellious, it is a bit unbelievable to say that they are not rebellious, and students in the rebellious period will be a little rebellious to some extent, but the degree of performance on the outside is different.

Learning well may not be rebellious, maybe they know how to restrain themselves, or maybe they don't say anything on the surface, but they are rebellious in their hearts. Although some students are rebellious, their parents are very strict and strict, which will make students dare not express their dissatisfaction, and they will not dare to go out of line. Although some students have no one to restrain themselves, they can self-restrain themselves, and although they have a lot of rebellious feelings, they can still concentrate on their studies in the end.

To put it simply, whether students can control themselves or not, and whether there are parents or external constraints.

If a child performs well in all aspects of school, it means that the child can consciously abide by the school rules and discipline, especially care about the positive evaluation of the teacher and the opinion of the classmates. All of this suggests that children who do well in school are disproportionately influenced by the school environment.

But why is it so rebellious at home that they don't want to listen to their parents? I am afraid that this is closely related to the lack of family education. Is there strict discipline in school, are there house rules at home?

Obviously, no, it is precisely because there are no family rules that children do not know what kind of rules to abide by at home, and there are no reasonable rewards and punishments to always cooperate with the implementation of family rules, which will naturally make children behave in a hormone.

If you often use accusations, complaints, and nagging to face your child, so that your child has not been affirmed, praised and encouraged, the child will live in a very negative family atmosphere all day long, which can easily lead to the child's negative mood and self-esteem being constantly worn and weakened, and it is easier to face the parent's discipline with negative behavior.

What should I do? It's not complicated in itself, just a few tricks.

The first trick: formulate strict family rules as the basic basis for disciplining and evaluating children.

The second trick: parents should control their mouths, don't hurt people when they open their mouths, less nagging and more affirmation.

The third trick: arrange a good family watchman, let the child participate in the supervision and "law enforcement" of the family rules, and cultivate their sense of responsibility.

The fourth trick: Allocate reasonable household work and let the child participate in family affairs on a weekly rotation.

Trick 5: Hold a family meeting every week and take turns to be the host to comment on the performance of your family.

The sixth trick: embody the good habits and good qualities of the parents, and use the example as a demonstration.

Tip 7: Make a schedule of family life and rest, so that the whole family can establish a rhythm and routine of life.

The above tips are not easy to implement, because it depends on whether the parents' ideological concepts can really be changed, and whether the parents really attach importance to their own self-cultivation. If you help parents who are lazy in their thinking and behavior, and ensure that you cannot get the approval and respect of your children, it will be difficult for your prestige to be enhanced, so how can you convince your children?

Rebellion is an outletting of adolescent emotions, both good and bad. If you study well and are praised and praised by your parents and teachers, your bad mood will change, and your rebellion will not manifest itself.

Fortunately, you are not rebellious, I haven't seen it, generally speaking, if you study well, there are many children who are people with relatively high IQs. They will only play more fiercely, and you are only talking about people who study hard, not people who study well. People who really learn well have a very high IQ, so they have a lot of time to explore the world, so they appear to be more rebellious.

Fortunately, you are not rebellious, I haven't seen it, generally speaking, if you study well, there are many children who are people with relatively high IQs. They will only play more fiercely, and you are only talking about people who study hard, not people who study well. People who really learn well have a very high IQ, so they have a lot of time to explore the world, so they appear to be more rebellious.

Those who study well are generally more obedient and usually praised more by teachers, so they are often very well-behaved. Conversely, poor learners usually receive less attention, and they may be prone to rebellion.