How can I make the other party feel that I care about him

There is an emotion in the world called "like", and the other is called "love" Love is when he is there, and he is the only one in his eyes; When he's gone, everything has his shadow in it. I like to think of him suddenly when I read a book in the middle of the night, imagine what he is doing now, and there is a fluttering warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him **. After a few minutes, the attention was drawn back to the plot of the book!

Love is in the lonely night, thoughts come like a tide, holding a book in his hand but can't read it, thinking about whether he is still working overtime at this time, whether he has eaten dinner, whether he thinks about him as he thinks about himself like to discuss problems with him, and they don't give in, like a hedgehog in front of him and never admit defeat, but in his heart he has already secretly admired his insight and his talent. Love wants him to be in step with himself and connect with his heart, and a joke he unintentionally says can make him feel depressed and even tearful in an instant. In front of him, he was never defenseless.

I like to text him when I'm out and about, tell him it's a nice weather, turn off my phone, go crazy for a week alone, and suddenly appear in front of him and scare him. Love is to want to be with him wherever you go. You can stand on the beach and call him on his mobile phone, let him listen to the sound of the waves; Or because you see a figure that resembles him on the street in a foreign land, and you can stay in place for a long time.

I like that he simply said "safe all the way" before his business trip, looking at the back of his departure, he felt a little reluctant, but he didn't say anything, just silently waiting for the news of his return. Love is what he told him before he went on a business trip, stuffed his backpack with clothes and food, and waited at the station until the train left before leaving.

He doesn't like you, and you can't do anything to him.

It's all in vain not to like you.

You can try to care more about each other in your daily life, and at the same time, you can also do some gestures of booing and asking for warmth.

To put it simply, if a person really cares about the other person, the other person must be able to feel it. The reason why the other party feels that you don't care about him may be because you usually care too much about yourself, so that you don't pay attention to the other person's true feelings at all, so you will let the other person feel this way. I suggest that you get along more with each other and do something that you can do together.

1. You need to care more about each other.

Some people have a strong sense of psychological dependence, and at the same time, they need the care of the other party very much. To some extent, these people have a poor sense of security, so they need each other to express their love at all times. If you usually only care about yourself and rarely pay attention to the other person's real feelings, I suggest that you try to pay more attention to the other person, which will make the other person feel that you care about him.

Second, you can try to do something that you are involved in.

If you don't interact much or don't communicate effectively, I suggest you get to know each other more and you can develop hobbies that both of you enjoy. When you help the two of you do things together, you will feel each other's presence, and you will also feel each other's hearts in the process of doing things. As long as you care about the other person from the bottom of your heart, I believe the other person will be able to feel it.

3. You can imagine the future of two people.

If you don't have the other person in your future at all, the other person will feel that you don't care about him at all. Based on this situation, I think the two of you can imagine your future life together, which can help you deepen your relationship, and at the same time, it can also establish a common goal for the two of you, and your life will have more direction. Also, if the two of you don't have much to do, and it's inevitable that you will have cranky thoughts between the two of you, I suggest you make the most of your life.

In short, if you really care about the other person, the other person will definitely be able to feel it, and you can try to care more about the other person.

Give each other care and warmth in life, if you can't see each other, you must express your thoughts about each other, and at the same time, in the process of getting along, you must give each other enough respect, so that the other party will feel down-to-earth and very secure.

If you want the other party to feel that you care about him very much in love, you need to prove it with practical actions, and prove that you care about the other party by buying gifts and other ways.

If you want a person to feel that you care about him a lot, you can't do it through one or two things, but slowly accumulate from the small things you usually do, so that he can slowly feel that you care about me very much.

First of all, in normal times, you can't always be cold and indifferent to him, although it's a good thing to say that a girl is reserved, but you can't be too reserved, you should take the initiative in front of your own object. If it's a boy, that's not to mention, when it's a relationship, a guy should be more proactive. Whether it's for a guy or a girl, if you want the other party to feel that you care about him, you usually have to contact him more, send a text message when you're free, call **, and let him know that you're thinking about him.

Secondly, when you are on holidays, you don't need to spend money on expensive gifts, or even don't have to buy gifts, but you must prepare gifts, you can do it yourself, which is more memorable and easier to surprise the other party.

Finally, be romantic. Romance is a preservative in love, many people feel that the two people are very fresh and happy when they are first together, but after a period of time, two people will feel bored and bored, and feel that the other party no longer cares about themselves, in fact, they don't care about each other anymore, but they are used to each other, and they feel that it is good to be ordinary, so if you want to make each other feel that they care about him very much, they must be wasted.

I don't care, it's definitely not how beautiful you say it is, but what you can really do and make the other party feel it. Otherwise, your so-called care is just touching you.

Actually, I think it's important to empathize, how you think others can do it to you to make you feel that they care about you, then you can do that. As for me, I feel that in love, I want the other party to feel that I care about him, and it is absolutely mentioned in the little things in life.

For example, if you send him a hundred words of "I miss you", it is better to stand in front of him and give him a warm hug. I have always thought that if you can do it, try not to say it, after all, no matter how beautiful the words are, what's the use, the other party will only think that you are too empty, too fake, and will always only care about it.

Another example is the interaction between the two of you on weekdays. Well, hopefully you can set him up with special care so that you don't miss a single message from him and let him find you at any time. You don't know how great it would feel to receive a response from you to every message he sends without having to wait.

Also, don't write "blank checks" and don't make any promises in advance. Because, if you can't do it then, he will be really disappointed, and he will think that you have never just talked. What about people, it's so strange, no matter how much you tell me, it's really better for you to do it for me.

In short, if you care about someone, you must do it in his way, so that he can feel that you care. It's definitely not that you think you care so much, but the other person thinks you're perfunctory and not distracted at all. In this case, it is really a super failure.

So, I hope we can all learn how to be good to someone, and I hope we can all have a consistent love.

I think one of the most important ways is that you can think about him in a lot of things, and if you go on a trip, you can bring him some small gifts, and you can also bring him some local specialties that you may not be able to buy locally. I think if this is the case, it means that you can think about him and her in many places, and then when he receives a gift, he will feel that you care about him very much, and you will bring him something even when he travels, or you will bring her something he likes when he goes out, so it means that you care about him very much.

The first point is not to get too close to other male friends and your male girlfriends, boys are very jealous, but every time they are jealous, they always hold back and don't say anything, so if he knows that you have a close relationship with some male friends and your male girlfriends, he will feel very uncomfortable and insecure, and he will feel that your male friends are coveting you.

So you don't have too close relationships with friends of the opposite sex, you must keep a certain distance from them and meet them the number of times, if you fall in love, if you have this kind of awareness, your boyfriend will be very happy after finding that you keep a distance from other people for him, although this happiness may not be shown on the face, boys are a little sullen, always secretly rubbing happiness in their hearts, you give him a sense of security, he naturally thinks you care about him very much.

The third point is to give your boyfriend some small gifts, for example, when you go to a place alone, you find some very delicate gadgets or gadgets that are suitable for your boyfriend, you can buy them and give them to him, he will think that my girlfriend remembers me no matter where she goes, and brings me gifts, she must care about me very much.

If you eat something delicious, you can take your boyfriend to eat it in the future, and he will feel that although he is not involved in every minute of your life, you will think of him in everything you do.

If you really care about someone, I think he will feel it, unless he doesn't like you, doesn't want you to be nice to him, doesn't want you to care about him so much.

Because if you care about a person, you will show it consciously or unconsciously, just like coughing and sneezing.

If you want something technical, talk about it.

Dare to be expressive. Most of us are more introverted temperament, so it is really a common phenomenon that love is difficult to open in the heart, but to love someone is to express it, of course, the expression here is not to keep saying I love you and the like, but to speak in a tone that is more acceptable to the lover in everything, to avoid kindness without good returns.

For example, when the weather is cold, you tell your other half to wear more clothes, "Baby must wear more clothes, I will feel distressed if I catch a cold" It is definitely better to talk like this than "You better wear more clothes, don't blame me for not reminding you when you catch a cold". In fact, the meaning of the two sentences is the same, and the mood is the same, but the first sentence makes people feel very loving and warm.

Lots of action. A lot of things are said, they don't have a big effect, the important thing is action. For example, if the other party really has a cold, you say that drinking more hot water is definitely not as effective as being resolute to buy medicine.

If you say that you eat on time, you must not have done it yourself, or you have sent it over to have a good effect.

Be attentive to the details. In fact, especially girls really care about the details, such as the protection when crossing the street and crowding the bus, as well as the careful care of opening the door and throwing garbage. It's the same for boys, although it's bigger, but some small details are noticed by girls, and boys will be very warm.

For example, helping to straighten a tie, bounce off the dust off the shoulders, and tidy up the wrinkles of the clothes will also make the boy feel very happy.

When I was in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend before, he always felt that I didn't care about him, and even felt that I was good to everyone, but he was the most silent. Actually, no, maybe the more I care about him, the more proud and passive I become. So, after the breakup, I also reflected on myself.

Because I know that he loves me, and I want him to show that he loves me, I like the feeling of being cared for and loved, so I always want him to take the initiative. I never take the initiative and never compromise, and I hope that he can prove his love for me with his compromise and initiative. Many times, I don't actually don't care, maybe it is influenced by many people around me, I have always reserved room for myself when I am in love with him, every time I feel that I care about him and need him very much, I deliberately remind myself that he is not all I have, and if he leaves one day, I can let go of it myself.

So, I was always stingy in expressing my love for him, so much so that he felt that I didn't love him much.

In addition to this reason, there is also the reason of my personality, I don't think two people need any sweet words together, and my first time in love, I am not used to saying some kind of words, I feel numb, and there is no need. A lot of care for him is in my heart.

It turned out that what I was doing was wrong. I was still so heartbroken and hysterical when he left, and he held a grudge against me. He was so sad for me, and I felt wronged myself, but I actually really loved him.

So, when you are in love, treat the person you love, don't be stingy in expressing your love for him, your concern. In love, sweet words are also something that should be said in many cases. My ex-boyfriend has always told me that apart from the love of my parents, other love can be said as long as it is deep enough.

I didn't agree with it at the time, but I think a lot of people think so.

When you are in love, I hope you will never forget him no matter where you are, keep in touch with him, and often show your need for him, show his importance, and let him have a sense of presence with you.