How do you deal with someone you love but can t?

Then I don't love it, it's just that you don't get it and you're unwilling, and it's good to figure it out! Many times people can't tell whether they are in love or possession, and they want to understand that everything is fine! It's not yours to ask forcibly!

If I meet someone I like but don't like me, then I can only bless silently, there is no other way! People have the right to dislike me, but I also have the right to love unilaterally, but it's a mirage after all! Rationally, I wouldn't unilaterally like someone who is too persistent!

After the struggle has no result, make sure that the person I love does not love me, then don't break the thread, resolutely dispel the psychology of soft grinding and hard bubbles, and resolutely give up. Since he doesn't love me, and I love him, the best love for him is to let go. One part, two wide, each rejoicing.

Stay away from him first, then adjust your mentality, and keep a normal heart to be friends. I can only look at him silently, look at his back, that is the appearance of my youth, persistent thoughts, I hope you are all right, you pass by my world, but your world does not have me. If he finds his own happiness, then bless him generously!

I am a person who only likes to give, and giving makes my existence worthwhile. I don't think there's anything like giving to find a sense of existence. I feel that it's good to be myself, it's better for the other party to love me, and it's good not to love me.

I don't know what kind of standard I can use to judge whether the person I love loves me or not. Maybe I'm really stupid, because I feel very annoyed by the selfishness of thinking only about myself, and I feel at ease when I put aside myself and dedicate myself, so I can't be smart.

I will try to pursue it, and give up if I can't move the other person for a while. Of course, this is just my personal feelings, because my skin is relatively thin, I can't do a dead face, but I feel a pity to give up the person I like, so I will try to pursue it for a while, this time is also limited, I want to use my character for half a month The other party did not respond to me, so I let go.

Zhang Ailing loves Hu Lancheng, but did she get it in the end, no, "If you like someone, you will be humbled to the dust." This sentence sounds very beautiful, most people will easily evolve it into a love sentence, the feeling of love is like this sentence, I will be "powerless" will be "sad" will fall into "humble" infinite times and finally even an independent personality will lose its foothold, Zhang Ailing finally fell in love with Hu Lancheng, during Hu Lancheng's escape, when he was still with another woman, he still sent his manuscript fee to Hu Lancheng, and finally tossed such a big circle She gave up, love is not the normIt is something that almost all people have to face no matter how good they are, what can really be obtained is the relationship that matches you and gets along comfortably, love is not more like a decision that has been decided, and it cannot be changed whether it is struggling or not.

In fact, it is a good way to have a dead face, there is such an example around me, a man has been chasing a woman, and the women are engaged and chasing, chasing for two years, chasing the woman's fiancé, and then no one of the opposite sex around the woman dares to fall in love with this woman, and finally there is no way to marry this man. It's a real thing, they have children now, and their lives are good.

You can allow yourself to be lost for a while, and melancholy for a while. Falling in love is not about a month of fanatical infatuation, a three-month period of passionate love, and from the fifth month onwards is the time to test whether you really love, so ah, dear, after four months of calming down, you will find that in fact, it's just that. And maybe for various reasons you are in this place, you only met this one person, you think he is your favorite in this life, but in fact, he is not!

Believe me, try to do what you like and want to do, distract yourself, and then one day you go out and meet more interesting people, and this slowly fades away.

When I met someone, from the moment she appeared, I began to be heartbeat. Later, I found out that it was a favorite taste. It's from the time you look at her inadvertently, from the time you throw her to eat as if you pretend not to care, from the time you suddenly get nervous and even feel your face burn when you look at each other.

The ripples of love were set off in this way. I don't know when you started to care about being able to meet again. You also asked her birthday boy about her that day. In the days that follow, you look forward to meeting, looking forward to meeting, looking forward to any possibility that you can intersect with her.

On a busy overtime day, you're in a hurry to eat at a nearby restaurant. When I was planning how to rush to work in a trance, I looked up and saw a familiar back. It turned out to be her.

There was a burst of joy in my heart, and I could finally communicate justifiably, and finally had a chance to shorten the distance between each other. When you are happy about the God-given opportunity, and you have even planned how to pursue WeChat and even how to pursue it in the future, another him suddenly appears next to her. It's none other than your rival.

Moreover, he arrived before you.

Your mind is full of thoughts about the desolation of being introduced to your fiancé by your beloved, as if you will never see Gan Lin in despair after a long drought, as if you are surrounded by all the sorrows. At that moment, the pain was unbearable.

You start to hate, if there is no meeting in the world, will you not have to look forward to meeting again? Are you complaining that if she doesn't show up, your dreams won't be shattered? If ......

Unable to love has become a fact that is difficult to accept but must face. If there is an afterlife, you will still be clinging to it, because there are some things that you can't help but can't figure out.

Those who can't love are lovers.

When you meet someone who can't be loved, it's a love disaster. The red dust is vast, and the biggest regret is to fall in love with an impossible person, move the love that should not be moved, and lose the self that should not be lost. Some love may never be fate, but a catastrophe.

In fact, the best choice is to leave, because you can't see the beautiful result, you can't wait for the tenderness you want, and it's destined to be a wrong love.

There is a kind of love called letting go, there is a kind of love called distance, and there is a kind of love that cannot be called regret, which is called unwillingness, love but not forbidden, and forgetfulness. There is also a feeling called blessing, forgotten in the rivers and lakes, cherished by each other. Some things are destined to be powerless, and some love can only be born in the heart for eternity.

The relationship is black and white, either love is parting, and the end of each world is the best ending.

Loving but not being able to change the cultivation is a regret, on the contrary, getting but not loving is also a kind of torture. Therefore, don't wronged yourself, don't force the other party, and if you make compromises, you will only lose yourself. There is no one in this world who cannot live.

First for a living, then for love, without love tortures the soul. So, make yourself strong, and people who like you will naturally be attracted to you.

A good relationship begins with the heartbeat, and is set to accompany each other, which can go on for a long time, and the real love is a kind of happiness.

That person ended up marrying someone else, having a child, and living happily ever after.

The more people grow up, the more they will understand that there is one of the best things in this world called not being able to get it, because it can't be obtained, so it is beautiful, because it can't be obtained, so it is unforgettable, and because it is beautiful, it rejects those who like me.

You are very entangled, you are afraid that he (she) will know you and he (she) will not know, and you are afraid that he (she) will know but pretend not to know.

How many people stay by each other's side as friends, love him (her) in the name of friends, and watch him (her) find (male) girlfriends one after another, but none of them are you.

Why are you so obsessed with him (her), this kind of love is because of deep love, or unwilling, because what you can't get is always the best.

There are too many people who can't be depressed because of love, and it is difficult to accept others, even if the person he (she) loves but can't get married and have children, he (she) doesn't come out, but this is only a few people, most people will not be like this, because the outside world, the family does not allow you to do this.

Between people, pay attention to the word "edge". Some people, you can't understand you if you say it, and some people, if you don't say anything, they can understand you.

People who are not on the same frequency, don't try to please. If you don't love you, don't hold on to it.

No one is worthy of you to be humbled and flattered in the dust, and it is not worth your grievances again and again. The person who needs you to go to great lengths to please is not worth your time wasting.

In this life, it is not long or short, the most important thing is to live for oneself, and the most fun thing is to satisfy oneself, not to please others.

So, stop always thinking about other people's feelings, taking into account other people's emotions, but ignoring yourself. Stop being wronged and suppressing yourself for anyone who is not worthy.

The best view of love: If you love me, I love you more, if you don't love me, I don't love you. People who don't love you, you don't have to be oblivious.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: A person's biggest shortcoming is not selfishness, amorousness, barbarism, and willfulness, but paranoid love for a person who does not love himself.

Many times, our most fatal thing is that we are reluctant and can't let go.

I can't bear a love that has long deteriorated, and I can't let go of an old person who has long been gone.

Perhaps, what you have been thinking about, the other party may have forgotten it cleanly, and what you are thinking about in your heart has no place for you in the other party's heart.

So Shengbi, don't be silently entangled in the dead of night, he will not love you if he hails and laughs, if he loves you, he will tell you that there is no one in his eyes, no matter how active you are, it will not help, and if you don't have you in your heart, no matter how enthusiastic you are, it will not help.

Life comes and goes, whether it is love or not, or it backfires, it is the normal state of life, just look away.

Some love, gone, just let it go, quit the drama without you, and everyone is fine. If you don't get a response, you should stop in moderation, and if you don't cherish your affection, please let it go!

Go for it. It doesn't matter if you don't have a good impression of you at first, work hard to create a good feeling, get along with each other in the way that the other party likes, and empathize with me more The person you like starts to have a bad impression of you, then it doesn't matter, because as long as he doesn't hate you, then you still have a chance.

At this time, you need to work hard to create a good feeling, get along with the other party in the way you like, don't always get along with him in the way you like, learn to empathize with what the other party likes, and only after knowing what the other party likes can you do what she likes, rather than being good to her in your own way.

This will only make people think that you are too macho, because it will make him feel that everything must be done according to your wishes, which will make him very uncomfortable, so if a person starts to have a bad impression of you, then you have to empathize more.

People are like this, the more things they can't get, the more they want to possess them, and the more they think about them. When we go through the years of life, we gradually understand that love is not a normal state of life, and no one's wish can be realized, we slowly learn to compromise, compromise with ourselves, compromise with love, and compromise with life.

But how can people who are in their hearts say that they will forget, but there is no way to be together, and they can only be buried in the bottom of their hearts, in this life, some people may not have met once, and there is only one person who really enters the heart, at most two, there will not be too many.

A life without regrets is not called life, but for love, everyone's way of dealing with it is different, some people like to hide in their hearts, some people will be like friends, they have kept a certain distance, and when the other party is in difficulty, they will help unconditionally, and some people choose to completely disconnect and will not let themselves see it sad again.

No matter what we choose to do, we follow our own inner thoughts, life is like people drinking water cold and warm to know themselves, not necessarily vigorous, they will definitely be together, not silently will forget, everyone has their own way of life, following their own heart is the best way.

It's best to let go early.

Because you can't see the future in your body, it's all "love but can't", even if you are lovesick, there is no result between you, there will still be regrets, let yourself get rid of this love as soon as possible, let yourself go early, and let yourself get true happiness sooner.

Now because of "love and can't" will inevitably be hurt, "he" is now not a person who can bring you hope, but a person who makes your heart ache, so what else is there to worry about, you are self-inflicted from beginning to end, what's the point of wasting your own things?

So give it up! Forget about him and find someone who truly loves you.

Go with the flow. Because I think if it's your true love, then you don't have to force him to come, then if it's not true love, then if you force it, you may not get it.