People who still contact their exes after a breakup, are they all because they can t let go?

People who still contact their exes after a breakup, are they all because they can't let go? <>Some people can be friends after a breakup, but some people will be inseparable after a breakup. I think those who contact their exes after a breakup don't necessarily have a deep affection for money, but I think they still have expectations for the relationship between two people.

Because I think that if a person is really dead to the relationship between two people, he will no longer have room for redemption for himself. Maybe when we really die and break up completely, we will all curse our ex silently, and we may all think about it, but don't leave our ex, this is what normal people should think.

In fact, I think that even if you can't let go of the other party's words, you should try to let yourself go. After all, the two of you have broken up, the relationship between the two of you has ended, if you can't get out of this relationship between the two of you, then in the future if you meet someone who likes you, or meet someone you like. When the time comes, you will be particularly embarrassed, if you can't let go of this relationship, you choose to start a new relationship, even if you are irresponsible for your own feelings, it is also irresponsible for the other party's feelings.

Maybe when you contact your ex, your ex will also find you particularly annoying, and even the other party may feel that you are entangled in the relationship between the two of you by doing this, and maybe some good memories of the two of you will also disappear because of your actions. <>

Some people can still be friends with their ex after a breakup, but I think most of the time they didn't love each other when they were together. Because I think that if we really like someone, when there are any contradictions and problems in the relationship between two people, we have no way to reconcile with ourselves, and there is no way to reconcile with each other. Because I think maybe everyone wants to be friends with each other, maybe they just want to be a couple.

If it's not a couple, be a stranger.

If two people still contact their ex after breaking up, then it is definitely because they can't let go, after all, two people have loved each other, and there will be deep feelings between two people.

Yes. Because I miss my ex too much, and I miss the bits and pieces of the two being together before, I will contact my ex again, which is a manifestation of not being able to let go.

After the breakup, I contacted my ex because I couldn't let go of my ex, I felt that my ex was still better and better, and I wanted to get back together with the other party.

Yes, because he can't let go of her yet, he still loves her, and he wants to care for her and listen to her voice.

There's nothing you can't put down, just eat the bowl and look at the pot, so that you can have a good place to go when you have a conflict with the current one.

It's like this, a good ex should be like disappearing. If there is still a connection, it is like a broken thread.

I think that if there is no active contact, it means that it is put down, and if it can't be put down, it will definitely take the initiative to contact.

This is not necessarily, I think that since we have broken up, we should choose to let go, good horses do not eat back grass, it should be to make yourself better, so that you can have a better choice.

I don't think you should contact your ex after a breakup, if there is still contact it will make each other very embarrassed and don't know how to get along, it is better not to contact at all and leave a good impression on both parties.

Personally, I don't think I should contact my ex, since we have all broken up, break it off if we want to, let time forget all this, if I often contact, I will pour salt on the knife edge, and if we can't be together, don't meet.

You shouldn't contact your ex, because the two have broken up, and it's no longer necessary to contact again, and it's not good for each other's feelings.

doesn't count, because this practice shows that he has left a way back, wants to find an opportunity to get back together, and is unwilling to completely lose contact with his ex.

If you treat the other person as a friend, you can really let go, and I think this kind of person is very open-minded.

So how should we deal with it after a breakup?

1. Expect and learn to restrain your behavior.

Many people remain in their memories after a breakup, or they just help connect with each other by saying hello, WeChat, writing emails, or sending text messages. Whether they want to get together or point fingers at each other, this way only shows that they still want to. The lotus flower broke and sailed, and in fact, the relationship suddenly broke down.

Suddenly understandable, but if it continues, the other side will also be very frustrated.

2. Deal with things that see things and think about people.

When the two are together, there will be a lot of memories, including items given to each other. It's especially easy to remember these things if you still can't forget about the breakup, and you're just going to get yourself in trouble. The right way to do this is to pack these items if you decide not to continue contacting the other person, or to return all the items to her, or to throw them away or donate them.

I didn't see that my heart was still still.

3. Regular life and rest will not affect the physical condition.

After a breakup, many people disrupt their normal work and rest schedules, such as sleeping for a few days and nights, staying at home without going out, staying up late without sleeping, fasting for three meals, etc., not only not to forget the past, but also to hurt their own bodies. After all, the plan should be updated because the body is a person's body, and if you are injured, you still have to go**, and your physical consumption should be limited.

4. Organize your new image and give yourself a new starting point.

Now that you've dealt with your old items, you should also prepare yourself with some new gifts. For example, to make a new hairstyle, it is not unreasonable to start from scratch. You can divert your attention by changing the image because there may be a better person waiting for you.

Therefore, image first is also respect for oneself.

5. Transfer your mind to digest your thoughts.

Many times, when we see a familiar place or scene in life or work after a breakup, we remember the thought of being with him. At this point, we should immediately divert our attention, for example by annoying and disgusting these people. As long as you figure it out, the willpower of the person can still be controlled by yourself.

6. Make an exercise plan.

Some people get into trouble going to the gym, running, cycling, climbing, etc. As long as you get stuck, this is the normal and correct way to solve the problem of exercising venting. Of course, it should be in moderation and not blindly overdo it.

Exercise, relieve tension, forget worries, fitness is effective.

7. Listen and write a diary.

You can listen to cheerful **, record in your diary the beautiful things you encounter every day, and discover that there are not only unpleasant things in life, but also many beautiful things. Including a few simple actions, you will cherish many things, small setbacks and time will make it a thing of the past.

Hello friends vary from person to person, love is happy and sweet, each of us pursues to have the most perfect love, to get the most satisfying love. But the reality is often not as you want, and once you find that you are not suitable for each other with your lover, the two will break up.

After a breakup, some people will continue to focus on their ex's life, but I don't do that.

The reason why I don't pay attention to my ex's life after a breakup is because there is no relationship between two people after a breakup, it makes no sense to pay attention to each other, it will deepen my emotional pain to pay attention to my ex's life after a breakup, and I should look forward after a breakup and not always look back on the past.

1. After the breakup, the two people have no relationship, and there is no point in paying attention to each other. For two people who are in love with each other, love is the bond that maintains their feelings and relationships with each other. Once this bond is broken, the two people break up.

At this time, there is no relationship between the two people, and there will be no more contact with each other. ......Therefore, it makes no sense to pay attention to the life of your ex in such a situation.

2. Paying attention to your ex's life after a breakup will aggravate your emotional pain. Although two people who are in love may break up rationally because they are not suitable for each other, after all, after falling in love, there will still be deep feelings between two people. ......When two people break up, although they no longer contact each other, that emotion will still remain in their hearts.

At this time, if you go to attack the other party's life again, it will inevitably aggravate your emotional pain, which is very unfavorable to yourself.

3. After the breakup, you should look forward to the doulu and not always look back on the past. Although it is painful to break up in love, when everything is over, we cannot always live in the shadow of the past, let alone always look back on the past and give up on the future.

We should raise our heads, look forward, and welcome our new life in a new state, so that we can pursue a happy life and find our own love. I can only go back and take care of his life. Let him live better.

Some people think that if they break up, they should not get along, and some people think that they can continue to be friends after breaking up. Uncle Qing interviewed a few friends, let's listen to their opinions. "Can a couple still be friends after they break up? "This is the best answer I've ever heard!"

I think you can be friends after breaking up, breaking up is a very common thing, and no one can guarantee to love only one person for the rest of their lives, which is too unrealistic. After all, there are many uncertainties in life, and love is really hard to say. Maybe you can get back together after a breakup.

After all, two people know each other well, and they once had a love past, even if they can't get married or be a couple, then they can chat occasionally and be friends.

Breaking up is breaking up, even if I once loved someone again, then I won't forget the past, and if I break up, I should be completely broken, and I can't be friends again. After the breakup, both people will have their own lives, since they broke up in the past, then it means that the two people are not suitable, and they should not let the wrong feelings in the past affect their current lives. After the breakup, the woman's heart will not be indifferent, even if there is no love, but the previous bits and pieces really exist, and the things that have existed will still be kept in the depths of memory.

If the two brothers break up peacefully, I don't think it's a big deal, after all, emotional matters can't be forced. If two people break up because of the fault of one of the parties, then I don't think there is any need to continue the friendship, which will only aggravate the pain, it will be difficult to forget the past, and it will be difficult to start a new life.

Whether you can be friends after the breakup depends on how the current person views this matter, whether the current one can accept it, if the current one can accept it, then I think it is okay to be friends after the breakup, and even become a very good friend, after all, it was so familiar. But if the current one minds, then there is no way, so be a familiar stranger. You can't be friends after a breakup, no matter how good the relationship between two people is, if you don't love it, you don't love it, if you break up, you should not bother each other and be okay, this is the most correct state.