What if you still can t help but want to contact your ex after a breakup?

Think about his ruthlessness, even passers-by are not as good! My heart was so sad that I naturally endured it! Call him the rich and powerful! I just want to live the life that I feel comfortable in!

Contact, at most hit the south wall again!

I know that I still love you very much, but I have no excuse to disturb you, I have lost my identity to see you, and I am silently worried about you all the time, and I have no choice but to swallow ...... in my stomachJust a passerby, I know that the road ahead will have to go by myself, I will try to complete the ideals I once said, but you are no longer with me, I can only face everything in life alone.

One parting and two wide, each life rejoices.

Don't, hurt yourself and embarrass others.

I deleted her before, but today I couldn't help but contact her again, she said that she missed me very much, and shed tears a few times after separation, and sent her a message that she didn't reply for a day, and it was ten o'clock in the evening before she replied that you rest, with no follow-up, I decided**WeChat to delete him all, fuck it, so disrespectful.

Just contact you, see if others will ignore you, ignore you, and see if you still have the courage to contact.

For the rest of their lives, they will be fine, no longer cheap, no longer see each other.

Then get in touch, and then in exchange for more complete despair, so you just give up little by little, endure the pain of every day and night, and just carry it through...

It's all divided, what's there to think about? If you cared so much about how you became an ex? What's the use of not caring about contact?

If it were me, I would try to look forward to the next time I fell in love, and maybe cherish each other more next time! Maybe there will never be a next time, I can't forget him, naturally I won't fall in love with others, life is about choice, look at my heart.

Slap yourself twice!

I couldn't help but look for him, I worked hard for more than 40 days, and gave up, but the other party started to take the initiative to send messages again, so tired, I don't want to reconcile, a good relationship should be relaxed. But where it is hard, it is forced!

If you have enough injuries, you will voluntarily leave and not be in contact.

I've just gone through this stage, in fact, it's still a new love or time to **, since you break up, don't beg to get back together, because breakups are well thought out, and managing yourself well is the most important thing, although it hurts a lot. I believe that God has already destined who is your other half, and it may not have come yet!

I don't want to contact him, but I still can't help but want to send him a message, but I still can't put it down, I don't know what to do. Ask who has a good way to quickly forget a loved one.

Good horses don't eat back grass, it seems that you are a donkey!

What are you doing with the broken threads, if they are good enough, they will not be separated from each other in the first place.

I'll delete it first when I break up, I just want you to take the initiative even once for us, and I will do whatever it takes! All I see is that you're getting a new love! It's been a long time and I can't put it down! A year has passed, forget it, start over! I will love it again in the future! For the future of him

Then go to contact and ask what the other party's attitude is, if the other party is really too disappointed in you and doesn't want to get back together, you can die, if it's the second case, congratulations, you can go on, that's all, don't let yourself miss it stupidly!

No way. You can only contact you again and again. Either the other party relented and got back together.

Or die in his more determined coldness again and again. Girls are inherently emotional. None of the analysis is worth the momentary emotion.

In that case, it's better to do as you like. Time is the best medicine. After a long time, all your unwillingness will be let go, and you will eventually let go of yourself.

Does the incumbent agree with you doing this? My dear!

That's because it's not hurt enough, and if you hurt enough, not only do you not want to contact him, but you even think he's disgusting.

Then let's get in touch, and I think it's okay to get in touch as long as we don't hurt each other.

Either contact or not. None of this is a problem, the real question is why there is no way to take this step, the inner conflict is like a shackle, even if you struggle desperately, you can't move half a step.

People always have a time, if you want to contact, continue to contact, do what should be done and what should not be done, you will let go, and turn all the unwillingness into motivation to become better, for example, I learned to cook, make desserts, get a driver's license, graduated from the school of study, and can make up more, can travel around alone, and then was chased by many better people, and then I think back to myself at that time I was a little stupid, but I don't regret it, because I didn't have myself at that time, I wouldn't be where I am now. Of course, it's okay to be good and worthy of love, people who like you don't need you to drive and cook, but people who don't like you, you don't like anything. Learn to accept and let go, some people are destined to be landscapes, just take them out and look at them after many years, people must continue to move forward, keep telling themselves that there are infinite possibilities, and be full of expectations

After a breakup, if you are the one who has been hurt deeply, you must first save yourself and heal. If you really can't help but contact your ex, it's also a way to heal yourself. You can see from his or her tone and words that he or she still cares whether you care about you or not, and analyze calmly and objectively, in fact, the other party has retreated to the position of an ordinary friend before you, so you can put it down for the time being.

Don't force the other person to push yourself, give yourself some time to enrich yourself, do whatever you want to do, except contact him or her. In fact, when time passes slowly, you get better and better, go back and look at the relationship again, you will know why he or she left first, and whether you are suitable or not. Some answers can only be left to time, you give yourself a little patience, and the future will not disappoint you.

If it is a peaceful breakup and there is no mutual deletion, contact him if you want to, tell him that you are just not used to separation, and you want to listen to his voice again, if he does not keep the whole process and is very cold, you don't beg to get back together. Contact him and tell him that he still misses him, and what if he feels that he has failed in his relationship, who has not been stupid, and he will know after being stupid. If you have deleted each other and have not been in contact with each other, you can only fill the blank time with everything, and it will be good after a long time.

If you want to cry, cry, it's even more uncomfortable to hold back. While you are young, you can do it if you want to do it (if you don't break the law and don't affect others), what if you are ashamed, what if you are humble.

If you want to get in touch, then you can go and contact him. Because it means that you haven't completely let go of him, you still miss him very much in your heart, and miss the little sweetness you used to be together. You can try again to see if you can get back to him, if not, you can let go of him completely, and you can really start a new life from now on.

Was your breakup a punitive decision after a major mistake? If the man is at fault, and you are willing to choose the original rock type lead, the initiative is yours, you can go back and find it again; If the fault is yours, and the man may not forgive, you can only try, don't have to entangle, because adult love is not a playhouse.

Always learn to grow.

You can find a chance to talk to him about whether there is a chance to get back together. This is good for you and good for him, so that you don't mistake each other and have no good results. You always go to him so that he will feel that you can't live without him, not that he can't do without you.

It will also make him feel proud, so that he can better control you. It is recommended that you do not go to him every once in a while and do not reach out to him. It's like suddenly disappearing, see how he reacts.

If he cares about you, he will take the initiative to find you. Otherwise, it's better to turn back early.

It's normal to think of your ex inadvertently. After all, the two of them have had a good time.

No matter what the reason for the lease leakage broke up and became an ex, this memory can't be erased, it can't be forgotten, and it's impossible to forget, if it's just because I don't love it, I don't think it's worth rejoicing. If it's because of family reasons or something, it seems that you have to forget it, time is the best medicine, erase the pain of memories. Leave the good, as long as the other party is happy and happy.

His happiness is your happiness. Looking back on it many years from now, I will feel relieved.

When the two of them were together, they didn't feel particularly happy. So coarsely, if you say you break up, you break up. Once the breakup is successful, you will consciously or unconsciously think about what was good before.

That's human nature. If you still love each other and the other person loves you, then stay together, restart a new life, don't mention the breakup again, and live a good life. People who fall in love, once they break up, no one is a winner.

Personally, I think that you must hold back when this hall is in the source, don't contact your ex, if you can't help it, tell yourself, let yourself think about how the other party let go of your leakage, you can do something you like to return to the rock, and divert your attention.

It is advisable to divert your attention, you can go out on a trip, relax your mind, and let yourself not think about your ex.

When you encounter such a situation, you should contact the other party, so that you can destroy your own thoughts, and you can also have a good development.

Reminiscing about the moment of his head.

I know that every time you can't help but want to find him, those sweet moments flash through your mind. Holding hands, hugging, everything about the period of love. But doing so will only make you dwell on the past and find it difficult to get out of the shadow of separation. So, let's do the opposite.

Whenever you think of them, you focus on their shortcomings and the things that make you unbearable. For example, they never buy you a gift and can't always remember your birthday and taboos. For example, he has been borrowing money from you since the ambiguous period, and he has never said anything about paying it back.

For another example, he is always ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex, and you remind him many times that he will still go his own way.

With a few more visits, you will be able to remove the filter of love, look at the relationship rationally, and even find the real reason for your separation. However, don't blame the other party for everything. When you are immersed in the victim's mind and cannot extricate yourself, it is even harder to let go of the other person.

And the more I think about it, the more angry I get! You might as well take a small notebook and record it, which can not only ensure that you are as objective as possible, but also see each change.

Find outlets to vent your emotions.

It's very normal to miss someone in particular, especially in times of setbacks and wanting to be comforted and cared for again. If you deny or suppress your emotions, you will fall into a vicious circle. It's like a little child who is bullied and comes home crying, but instead of comforting him, his parents scold him loudly.

What do you think will happen to children? Will you wipe away your tears and become strong? No, he will only avoid communication with his parents in the future, hide alone and cry secretly.

So, don't force yourself to stop missing, fighting your emotions will only aggravate your internal friction. You can find something else to distract you from when your emotions hit you and slowly vent your emotions. For example, you can watch a touching movie and cry happily.

Simulate a chat situation.

If you really can't hold back, I suggest you use this trick: open an account, change all the messages to the other person's, and pretend that you are chatting with them. When switching to the other person's point of view, you can imitate the other person's tone and say a few more harsh words.

It's painful, but trust me, after you've been sad and disappointed, you're looking forward to the future more than you're looking back on. Whenever you scratch your heart and can't help but want to contact the other person, tell yourself, "I don't want this person."

Written in the last words.

The most important thing for people to live in the world is to have the ability to love others, not to be loved. If you still want to be with them, the really effective way is to get through those nights of wanting to find each other and seize the opportunity to think and change. After going through this, you get better from the inside out, and then let them accept you again with all their hearts.

Since you have said that you have separated, it must have been carefully considered, don't indulge in the past, in your subconscious, and think that the other party is your other half, such an idea is not right, some people may have been unilaterally broken up, but if you always bother and entangle each other, it will only increase pressure on him, and finally make both parties very embarrassed, and will only dislike you more, so the best way is to correct your mentality, since you have broken up, don't fantasize about the future, and strive to look forward.

The reason for your breakup is not sudden, but you don't notice it in your usual relationship, you may seem very harmonious on the surface, but you don't feel happy in your heart, which causes the feelings of both parties to become weaker and weaker, and you must calmly think about whether the contradictions between you can be resolved and can be resolved, if not, don't think about contacting each other, and reluctantly being together will only cause the same ending.

Breaking up does not give the other party a formal end and attitude, but through text messages or a ** to break up with the other party, for this situation, the other party will have a big gap in their hearts, just want to find an answer, will continue to pester the other party for this reason.