Why are people so excited to see their favorite alien friends when they reach puberty?

Not sure what you're trying to know.

The root cause is the secretion of male (or female) sex hormones in the body.

1.Opposites attract is a very normal phenomenon, every girl is pregnant with spring, boys love, this is not wrong, from the perspective of physiological age, to this time due to the role of the physiological biological clock, a large number of sex hormones are secreted, in this case, if there is no mutual attraction between men and women, then this is not normal. There is only mutual attraction, there is a feeling of admiration, which is caused by sex hormones, not whether he wants to be like this or does not want to be like this.

For example, there is a song about a woman is a tiger, the little monk has never seen a woman since he was a child, and then his master took him down the mountain, he has never seen a woman, he walked by a woman, he asked what it was, and his master lied to him that it was a tiger. Back on the mountain, the master asked him what was the cutest, and he said tiger. It is normal for this little monk to love the opposite sex in a state of sexual development, and there is nothing wrong with it.

2.The question is what to promise, if you promise to keep your friendship with the opposite sex, of course it is very good, even if you are separated in the future, even if you get married in the future, you can also have some friends in middle school in the past, if you promise to be together for the rest of your life, promise to get married in the future, I advise you to be more cautious, because from middle school to college, or even after graduating from college, and then working, often after expanding your horizons, do you still take on the commitment? If you make easy promises, I think it will be empty at that time, and I don't think it's better not to make easy promises.

After entering puberty, the two people who were originally two little hearts used to play together, but after puberty, they changed, and they would be shy when they saw each other. So, it will.

The teacher of ideology and morality said that it is normal and beautiful to have a good impression of the opposite sex, and it is necessary to deal with it correctly, and you can't do things in spring and autumn.

If you want to be of the opposite sex, you can fill your time with things.

It is a normal psychological phenomenon to really regulate one's own psychology.

Ann, this is normal, don't worry.

Adolescent people have an ambivalence in front of the opposite sex that they both want to be noticed by the other person and are really afraid of the other person's attention. I want to be noticed by the other party because I have a psychological need to show myself, and I am afraid that the other party will really notice that I am a young man, because I am not prepared for this at all, and I don't know how to deal with it, which is a manifestation of self-protection.

Nervousness is the reaction to this. Seeing the handsome person is nervous, proving that he wants to show himself in a specific group of handsome people, or is sensitive to the handsome talent, but why is he nervous, it means that he doesn't know what to do in the face of the handsome.

Your age is normal for this kind of psychology, and you should maintain a normal and good relationship with your classmates and friends in the future, and you don't have to care about being handsome, just like facing flowers, you just need to appreciate it silently, and you don't need to approach.