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It doesn't matter if you're an introvert or an extrovert, each has its own advantages.
If you want to be more extroverted, I think it's mainly a social issue.
Encourage yourself more, pay attention to cultivating your abilities, and enhance your self-confidence. As long as you want to do something, go beyond socializing and try more. Because of introversion and lack of social experience, it is generally frustrated.
Remind yourself that those discomforts are a necessary stage. Many times, those frustrations are just the result of a temporary lack of familiarity and understanding of something. Blame others and yourself less, express and ask about other people's feelings and thoughts, and understand the reality.
Remind yourself to "go your own way and let others say go". Sometimes other people have some opinions, but they are just expressing their opinions, not denying them. Be careful to keep reminding yourself to take the initiative to communicate with others.
If you don't know what to say, ask someone a question. Ask if you're interested, and then ask again if you don't understand in the conversation. From time to time, you can also talk about your situation or thoughts.
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Reach out to more extroverted friends, and if you can't let go, try some sales pitching work first. In this way, your life will be rich and exciting. In fact, sales pitching is very exercised. You can not only develop a lively and good character, but also exercise your resilience.
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Why change your personality? Maybe you should ask yourself this question first, and there are pros and cons to being introverted or extroverted.
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Force yourself to do what you can do, put your head down, tell yourself I can do it, and you'll be happy after doing it once.
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Communicate with people more, you can go to the street or park to find people you don't know and chat, and talk to them happily and you will be successful.
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Evaluate yourself correctly. Some introverts are lonely and self-proclaiming; Some introverts have blind inferiority, always think that others look down on them, and dare not take the initiative to interact with others in order to maintain their self-esteem. The former should learn to respect others, and the latter should be self-confident.
In short, you should evaluate yourself correctly, face up to your own strengths and weaknesses, face up to the strengths and weaknesses of others, and get along with others on an equal footing.
Learn to pour out your thoughts and feelings. Introverts often suppress negative emotions such as dissatisfaction, pain, trouble, and anxiety in their hearts, making it difficult to resolve psychological conflicts for a long time, which may not only seriously damage physical and mental health, but also further deepen the degree of introversion. So don't be always depressed, depressed, and take all of them"Mind"Closed in"Ego"among them.
Learn to confide your true emotions to your loved ones or friends, so that your personality will gradually become cheerful and outgoing.
Actively participate in various group activities. The introverted personality is related to the environment, it can be formed in the environment, and it can also change in the environment. If an introvert can take the initiative to participate in various group activities, it is best to take on the role of organizer in the class or group, so as to increase the interaction with classmates, and the introvert's personality will change under the influence of the environment.
Learn to get along with others and be good at reading words and feelings. Observe other people's preferences and behaviors, and understand what topics they are most interested in, so that you can interact with people to their liking, and make people feel that you are easy to approach and become friends.
Develop a wide range of hobbies. A wide range of interests will cause people to pour out mental activities into activities and reduce excessive attention to the self; It will also make people's bad emotions be well vented and transferred in interest activities; Interest is like a twist that connects people with common interests, which leads to greater interpersonal rapport.
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But in fact, many extroverts are also interested in their own character.
There are a lot of dissatisfactions.
Each personality has its own strengths and weaknesses. Introverts actually have many advantages, such as being conscientious, down-to-earth, and so on.
Introverts want to be more cheerful, mostly because they are more likely to get along with others and participate in activities.
Be positive, but these are not the "characteristics" of extroverts, they are just extroverts.
Accessory. Mastering with people.
Interpersonal skills to make one's enthusiasm bold, introverts can do the same! So, sometimes.
It's not that after the above discussion, I think you may not be bothered by it.
Want to change. character and distressed. But you may still be confused, sex.
Is the grid immutable? In fact, we can only say that in a sense, personality can be changed.
For example, with that. A person's personality changes with age or situation. But if you want to change your personality in a short period of time, even if.
Through psychological ** and counseling, it is by no means easy.
Changing oneself is easier said than done, everyone has their own personality, and they have all formed a way and method of dealing with things.
To change yourself, you should first change your attitude towards things. It's like a change in attitude.
You in the mirror.
In the same way, what you do to him, he will do to you, then, what you want.
Treat yourself in the mirror.
This? I think. Everybody will.
Treat yourself with a smile on your face. It's the same with things, you want to accept them.
Something new. Then new things will accept you, you want to change things, things will change you, the two are complementary to each other, the key is yourself.
A change in attitude.
Second, change your thinking
Patterns of behavior. If your attitude towards things changes, then your thinking and behavior patterns should also change, only in this way can you completely change yourself, control things, and change your current situation.
Finally, to change oneself, we must continue to absorb all aspects of knowledge, improve our self-cultivation and quality, and have more knowledge in all aspects, so that we can better look at problems, find problems, and solve problems.
To change the status quo, let's start by changing ourselves!
will find themselves. And a person who will be successful.
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Communicate with others often, relax yourself, and insist that you will be able to exercise well Thank you for adopting.
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Get out there and interact with people outside!
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Today's children's social skills are basically very poor First of all, let your heart be strong first, don't be so weak, and blush when talking to the living, which will obviously disgust some people. Secondly, take the initiative to find someone to talk to, you can first be familiar with the girls, and then slowly get to know the friends of those girls, so that you can make a lot of friends.
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