Why do you want to be in love so much? Why???!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Updated on psychology 2024-05-19
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe, in fact, I was like this when I first broke up, I really wanted to get back together, and I really wanted to start a relationship again right away. But now I enjoy being single, because I found a like-minded friend in the class, I love my profession, and now the focus of my life is on my family and professional, because there is a person who forges ahead together, and I am very happy, very relaxed, much easier than love, so you may want to look at the brothers around you, there must be like-minded, very compatible, professional single life is great, and singleness is also very attractive! So in fact, the goal of life is very important, you can't revolve around a woman all your life, the most important thing for a man is his career, you have a successful career, what kind of good woman doesn't have it, there will always be a tempting one waiting for you in front.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because people are lonely, and love is the best medicine.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Little brother, let's pay more attention to your studies or career, as the saying goes, with money, women are not a problem.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Loneliness, emptiness, in fact, when your life is fuller and richer, you don't feel like that.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should go to the hospital and see what you want.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's normal. Go out and meet more people, and then your girlfriend may just come.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's good to get used to it, I've been alone for several years, it's better to be single than to find someone who doesn't understand you, now you're just bored, and if you're injured, it's not easy to recover.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't worry about it, I recommend you to talk to a woman you hate After a long time, you will feel that it is good to be single...

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Seeing that the people around me have boyfriends and girlfriends, I feel a little inferior.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Because you're lonely.

    Finding something to do won't be so boring.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The farthest distance in the world is that I am in front of you, but you don't know that I love you, your "Heartbeat Girl" YX has been waiting for you for a long time, go find her, don't miss it again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although it makes sense, I've read it all, but I feel like you might as well change your perspective, why did she buy the cheapest? Right, don't care about the money yet! Maybe she's still worthy of your love in this regard!

    As for what you did right before! It's really hard to love someone, and because of this, you've grown up and know your parents' good intentions, so I feel like I just need to do my best! Keep an eye out!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love is love, not love is not love, since you don't love, break up immediately, and people's feelings must not be delayed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't love her anymore, love is gone.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It seems that you are still in school, study hard, we are very envious of the carefree going to school after graduation, love believes that no one dares to say that it understands very well now, let it be; Of course, there are some things that are not good to ask for, and I hope you can finally find what you like and like you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Have a good talk with her. If you still can't tolerate her, then break up...Judging from your narrative, you are only infatuated with her, for example, she has a lot of relationships that you don't like, and if you don't talk about it well, you will have a big fight because of it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's talk about it! In fact, no matter what others say, the emotional matter is not good, it is mainly up to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Tell her how you feel! See how she reacts, let it all be!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A college student is not yet mature? Not assertive at all, a poor man.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Any kind of love will eventually become family affection.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Simple, go out for a walk, go to nature to feel nature, open your mind, and you will have the answer later.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't crave, don't force it.

    It'll get better slowly.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Oh, what a little guess!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    That's because I haven't met your dish yet.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's okay, let it go, and you can love it again.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Because you're really tired and hurt.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is the girl's hint, she doesn't want to fall in love just doesn't want to fall in love with you, basically deciding that you are a person who is not suitable for her, and you can break up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'm a girl like that right now. The girl may not have forgotten the second one. If you persevere and pursue boldly, there is still a chance.

    Girls who have been injured are afraid of being hurt again. You also have to be sure of your feelings. You can't hurt her again because of a momentary interest.

    She can drag her friends to kindly tell you that she is very kind, and such a girl is very good

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Insecure. You may have suffered some damage before, and you won't be able to make up for it for a while. Fear of hurting you.

    The opportunities are all earned by themselves. Now I think you should make friends first. Wait for her to change. That's it.

    Well. I wish you to catch her soon.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    One is to calm down for a short time, the other is to concentrate on studying, the other is that people don't have a good impression of you, there should be a chance, you have to learn to fight for it, and the opportunities are created by yourself, you can try to comfort and comfort her (don't be too anxious), and most girls like to spend, right? If you like it, you need to know more.

    Good luck! (*

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Dude, since the front floors are encouraging you, then I'm embarrassed to sing a contrarian tune, criticize your no, please forgive me for what I said.

    First, when you should chase it, you muster up the courage to try it, but when you fail, you see that girl as nothing, many girls as nothing, and the boy with that girl as nothing, is this mentality called maturity? can't afford to put it down, the surface blessing despises each other behind the scenes, and it's been suppressed for too long, right? With too much emotion to say things, who can still say something objective?

    Second, if the conditions are good, you must be able to succeed in everything, and if you are frustrated, you are not worthy of the girl's love. Do you read books and don't know how to analyze? The way you get along with each other and your personal qualities are important things, and only paying attention to personal qualities can only ensure that you become a useful person to the country, others and society, but not your personal happiness.

    When the society is harmonious, it doesn't matter if you're full or not.

    Third, who taught you to work hard and reap the rewards? Feelings are not about how much you give in return, but how much you pay in return. Giving more than the other party, there is nothing to be proud of; There is no need to be ashamed of giving less than the other party. Consideration is not a sign of love.

    Fourth, there are so many types of girls, you know, why do you think the problem is that they are reserved? It's up to you what character they like, whether they feel worthy or not, whether they want to confess is in line with their own hearts, and there are many who don't realize where their feelings are, are they all wrong? What's more, there are so many herbs in the world.

    Fifth, what you say about the other party's obscenity is judged only by appearance. Isn't this judging people by their appearance? The most taboo point of feelings is to judge people purely by conditions. Conditions are important, but not unique. The other party is a little cold, but you don't know if it's good or not.

    Okay, I'm sorry for saying so much before, and the words are a bit harsh. In fact, the main thing is that you haven't thought much about personal values, psychology, and so on, and only belong to yourself. If you think enough, it is easy for people to compare their hearts with their hearts, and they will also find that there is no right or wrong in many things in their feelings, and the choice should be made by the heart.

    Pure love like fire will not leave anything too beautiful except to burn people to charcoal. Calm down for a while, think about the principles of getting along with lovers, learn to design situations to deal with problems, and then attack, I believe that you still have an opportunity.

    ps: I forgot to say one thing before, the feelings are at fault. So before blaming the other person, think about what is wrong with you.

    For example, that girl, at that time, may indeed be more annoying, and when you confess when the other party hesitates, isn't it just adding trouble to the other party? The other party does reject you, but it doesn't mean that the friend has nothing to do, but he just thinks that the current relationship is the best for both parties. You just think it's wrong to stay away from her, and you think she's wrong, who do you think is wrong?

    Of course, if everyone has an attitude of criticizing you, I will definitely support you, after all, the conditions are on hold. You need encouragement, but you also need reflection. Give it to other people who say it well, think what I said is reasonable, and treat me as a good friend.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's nice to think of her as one of those passers-by on your life...Many people can only walk with you for a while, including parents....And in the end, the person who spent his life with you and grew old with you has not yet appeared....If you love, please love deeply! If you leave, just smile and wish her happiness, because you are with her and hope that she can be happy and happy for a lifetime, even if there is too much reluctance in your heart, even if you turn your head and burst into tears, just because you have loved, the more you have to respect her when you break up, because it is the worship and respect for your previous relationship....Because she made you grow, because you wiped away your tears and went on living....Good luck soon! I can afford to take it, I can put it down...Thank you for giving me love....

    The main thing is that your fate hasn't arrived, it's not your loss that such a girl didn't talk to you, it's hers, it's a kind of broken jar. You are not an angel, nor a superman, there is no need to maintain world peace and save all the wounded women. Since you know that it is not good to be very introverted, then learn to express and communicate, make a few more talkative friends, and there is nothing as long as you are willing to change.

    Then find someone you like, like yourself to talk to, don't worry, the bread will be there sooner or later, hehe.

    Remember that you are good!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    In fact, I want to say that most of the girls are like this, I think you will cherish it after you pursue it in every possible way, and it seems that she is very precious, in fact, from another point of view, she is also a kind of fear of being hurt and refusing to perform, some girls just believe in fate and believe in the will of God, for example, if he says more than 10 words to me today, I will get along with him further, it seems to be very naïve, but sometimes it is like this, and when the girl becomes a woman, it will not be so naïve, and then there will be less cuteness and immaturity and a sense of dependence that wants you to protect and hurt you. I think you should let go of the previous things as an experience, reorganize your mood, your conditions are very good, don't pay too much attention to some things, it won't bother you by itself, fate will suddenly come to you, all you have to do is catch her, love her well, sort out your mood, you will find that as long as you take a step, she will come to you. I wish you happiness.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Girls are generally more reserved and love face, so even if they meet the boy they like, it is difficult to open their mouths, not because of their noble self-esteem. (I'm a girl, I understand.) )

    What happened to you is just an example, not the mainstream, it can only show that you are not a lady, you should stick to your beliefs, don't be affected by the surrounding environment, and believe that there are always discerning girls who love you! Be confident, it's not a big deal, and don't think about it as a knot, or even think that it will affect your emotional life in the future.

    What you're experiencing now is just a small setback in your life, and when you're done and look back, you'll feel like it's really nothing. So be confident and don't be discouraged!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    lz, some girls see that the person they like deliberately doesn't care, and it is not entirely how noble their self-esteem is to ask boys to chase them, of course, I can't completely deny that girls will have this kind of psychology, but in fact, most girls hope that the boy who likes them can spoil her, love her, and treat her like a child. All girls want to have a boy like this who will love her for the rest of her life.

    Let's talk about the girl you chased, don't say I'm straight, I don't think she likes you at all, as for the reason why I don't like you, I think it's because of your character, in this society, do you think introverts and people who don't like to talk are likable? I suggest you change your personality ...

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It can only be said that such a girl is very naïve, not worthy of your liking, and not suitable for people of your character. Forget it.

    There are still a lot of good girls, find someone who suits you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Dude, we're the same. The emotional process is like the body and the same is the character. If you really love her, you care about her if she doesn't marry, why is she so depraved? Injured? When you need someone to comfort and caress you most, you can only do more with less.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You have such good conditions, there must be good girls coming to you. Just wait with confidence, be patient, and wish you happiness.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Maybe she is still thinking about the person before, because she is very sad, so she can't see your interest in her, and she doesn't agree to you, because she doesn't want to hurt you, you know, everyone is different. The above is pure speculation.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    When you meet the right person at the right time, you will have a good result.

    You haven't met the right person yet, don't worry, let it be.

    Of course, it's good for someone to chase you, do you want a girl to chase you? Hinting to you, if you're interesting, it's better for the guy to take the initiative.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's too long.,I haven't finished reading it.,But I feel the same as me.,Introverted.,Just let it go.,Take your time.。。 Don't care what you like.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you still like her, ask her if she likes you for the last time, and if not, forget it, there are many good girls.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Calm. You're not her type. It doesn't mean you're not good!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Men are not bad, women are not loved. It's okay to be cheeky.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Be patient and wait for fate to come.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I feel the same way, people should be very realistic now, and everything good is in the second dimension.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Expand your social network, meet more people, choose more, and sometimes have to look for fate!

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