What should I do if the boy I like ignores it?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you take the initiative more, he will retreat more, and if you retreat more, he will take the initiative more, so if you change the initiative to passivity, he will not be able to hold down to find you, it is yours after all, and if it is not yours, don't worry, be calm.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I want to get angry with you and make you feel bad about him, and then don't like him. He feels that this will be better, and your liking has become a burden and a psychological burden.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Alas! Exactly the same situation as me! It's just that I'm a boy... Isn't that the case when you think girls are tsundere? omg!Am I hated? ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The same attitude towards him, men, all have a good face, it is estimated that he doesn't know how to be happy when you take the initiative to talk to him, but once you are lukewarm to him, he will also put down those faces and take the initiative to contact you

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Think of Yuan Xiangqin and Jiang Naoki. I believe that love and emotion are always almighty.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you have to make this clear with him. In fact, it is so unclear that both of you are uncomfortable.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can ask why, and if you don't say it, or if it's perfunctory, it's that you're not interested, and it's a friend's greeting.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Take the initiative if you like, in this rapidly changing society, there is really no longer a missed one.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'll guess, maybe he doesn't know you like him! So he only treats you as a friend, and he doesn't have too many words; If you are already in a romantic relationship, it is his fault, which means that he is usually a careless person, a person who is not very considerate of others, and does not care about other people's feelings, like this, you usually criticize and criticize him more (provided that you are lovers) Hehe! You won't blame me for saying that you like him!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It can only be said that this man doesn't care much about your feelings. Maybe... He's busy, and I can't tell. But you can't accept it. So. You should have a good talk, not ask here.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Since he will take the initiative to find you, it means that he still cares about you, and he probably won't express himself, I think it's the same for both men and women, you can try to confess to him. I hope there is an unambiguous answer, bless you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This is normal, I have a girl I like very much, but I didn't say a few words to her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's inconvenient to talk to you! There's a woman next to her!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In the face of a man who ignores you, you can do this: don't pester him, don't communicate ineffectively, don't discard your social circle, let the man say the reason, and reflect on himself.

    1. Don't pester him.

    When he is cold and violent to you, then you also learn to dress coldly, don't write a small essay that moves you, go to him over and over again, learn to face cold violence with calmness, and take the initiative in your own hands.

    2. Don't communicate ineffectively.

    Communication is an important factor in maintaining an intimate relationship, effective communication can help two people solve the conflict, while ineffective communication will only make the problem more serious, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Ineffective communication is to communicate with the other party with a tone of accusation and command, which will only escalate the conflict or make him resist you and ignore you.

    3. Don't abandon your social circle.

    The essence of love is attraction, and the essence of attraction is value. There is no need to lose your vitality because of men, and there is no need to put on an attitude that he can't live, the most controllable man must be the woman's attraction and value to him, have her own life, her own social circle.

    4. Let the man say why.

    It is normal to have contradictions in love, and some problems may cause men to ignore your love, at this time you should let the man say the reason for ignoring your love, so that you can solve the problem.

    5. Reflect on yourself.

    When a man ignores you, you have to reflect on yourself, whether you can't give him a sense of security, make him gradually lose confidence in your future, or you put too much pressure on the man to let the man do this. If so, you should change yourself. Because love is not a cage, if you like someone, you have to put shackles on him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. After all, impulsiveness is the devil, and it is easier to make mistakes in impulsive situations, and calmness can make people think about how to choose. 2. If you ignore you after a conflict, don't entangle yourself at this time, and only know who to cherish after the breakup. If you keep pestering, it will only make him more disgusted with you and determined to break up with you, after all, people are cheaper, you can choose to keep it, but don't force it, you must know that it is useless to force it.

    3. If he ignores you and you can't find him, it means that this relationship has lost interest to him, and what you have to do at this time should be to think calmly. It's not about why he left you, or thinking about whether there is a problem with yourself, most women have a very accurate sixth sense, and if she doesn't love you, let it go decisively. 4. If the unfortunate relationship ends, don't be overly sad, at this time you should make yourself more excellent and make the man regret it.

    That's all for the advice.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Keeping in touch but not wanting to see you means here::

    1. We all know that in front of the person you like, the person who generally answers the bad orange will become cautious, he will be afraid to behave in front of you, he will be nervous when he sees you, and then become overwhelmed, so he will not want to see you, if you also like him, then you might as well take the initiative, so that it is possible! You should show something, so that it also gives him a little confidence and makes him not feel inferior.

    2. The person who likes you doesn't want to see you, and it may be because he met the right person at the wrong time, because he knows that he can't give you what you want, and he can't accompany you or promise you anything. Because he knows that in the world of feelings, it is indeed important to come first and come first, and you happen to be the one who comes later.

    3. Because of poverty, he has low self-esteem, he feels that he is not able to love you, even if you don't dislike him for being poor and are willing to follow him unconditionally, he will not agree to be with you. He doesn't want you to suffer with him. You are as graceful and noble as a goddess in his heart, and he will not show his love to you until he can mix well.

    True love is never possession, but to be happy.

    Getting along skills

    1. Pay more attention to each other's hobbies and emotions.

    Love is never wishful thinking, but two people give to each other. Only by caring about each other can you also get the love of others in return. If you want to get along with each other more happily and comfortably, and let each other's feelings go deeper, then you should care more about each other's emotions and hobbies.

    2. Each other has their own independent space.

    As the saying goes: distance produces beauty. Even two people who are close to each other are independent individuals from the beginning, and they both need to have their own private space. Otherwise, because of the differences between each other, the conflict will intensify, and the feelings of the two people will deteriorate day by day.

    3. Each other knows how to pay for each other.

    The continuation of any relationship is inseparable from each other's joint efforts and dedication. Unilateral efforts cannot last long, and your relationship will only get more and more tired.

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