Can you still be friends with her after a breakup?

Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I've been hurt, I won't be friends. If the 500 times of looking back in the past life were exchanged for the passing of this life, then I would already be very happy? In fact, passing by is also a deep fate.

The Buddha said: Only 500 times of looking back can be exchanged for passing by in this life. You can meet someone in a second, know someone in a minute, like someone in an hour, fall in love with someone in a day, but you have to forget someone for a lifetime.

When he doesn't love you, whether he loved you in the past or forgot about it later, or never loved you, when you can no longer be the person in his heart, his heart will not remember you. Please don't bother him when you're upset, he's definitely not where you should be at the moment. Please don't talk to him about your trivia, he has no time and no interest in learning about your life.

Even if he did, he would soon forget. Without love, you are destined to squeeze into his life. Please don't shed tears in front of him, he can't give you care and attention, at most a little sympathy.

Only those who love you will truly cherish you, instead of the sympathy and pity of the bystanders. When he doesn't love you, your love is a burden to him. Please don't count your efforts, don't expect anything in return.

You use your heart, he has no heart, and loving someone who doesn't love him is not rewarded. Don't care about right and wrong, you'll be happier. Please don't lose your self-confidence, because loving someone is not his excellence, but just a feeling.

He makes you feel that way, and you love him. In the same way, if he doesn't love you, it's not that you are not good. Excellent, not a reason for love.

There are so many people who love themselves, and a faint smile is also strangely sweet. When he doesn't love you, be sure to bless him too. With love, there should be no hatred, because there was love, the days of love are happy, and being together is also happy, and if there is happiness and love, there will be no more hate.

He lost someone who loved him, and you lost someone who didn't love you, but you got a chance to live and love again. Please take a deep breath, the road of life, paved with love buds, there is always one that belongs to you, although there are many flowers, but there is no repeat one, which is destined for life and life.

If you can't be a lover, you can still be a friend, at least you can protect him silently by his side

Of course, if the other person wants to, they can be friends.

Yes, as long as the other party is willing.

There is a classic saying on the Internet called: A good ex should be like dead. Junichi Watanabe also said in "The Form of Breakup": If you must part, you must leave clean and beautiful.

So, after a breakup, most of them are no longer friends, what's the point of being friends? Do you want to keep the awkward conversation, or do you want to see the other person live better than you? Frankly speaking, it is really difficult for two people who have really loved to be friends again after breaking up!

Why?

Because two people who have really loved can't be friends, if the other party is doing well, you will be sad, if the other party is not doing well, you will also be sad, in short, whether the other party is doing well or not, you are sad.

Breaking up is something you can do with Bench Town, but there's no need for that! Some people may say that being friends is actually not able to let go, there is still a chance to get back together, the one who is willing to be a friend is not dead yet, and wants to break the connection with you, but no matter how much you like it, don't rekindle the old love, the result of the revival of the old love is to repeat the mistakes of the past.

As we all know, there is a reason for breaking up, and this reason is that it is difficult for you to cross the hurdle, some break up because of the house, some break up because of the personality, and some break up because of the split leg ......

Different reasons for breaking up have different endings, maybe after the breakup, one party will politely say to you, be friends in the future, you miss me, just call me, and tell me if you have any problems, I will do my best to help you share it.

But this sentence is just a polite sentence for those who listen to it, if you break up, you don't want to see each other again, how dare you trouble your ex again?

If everything is in trouble with the ex, how does this make the "incumbent" good? On the contrary, it will be labeled as scum, saying that it is a boat that is stepped on two leads. So, can you be friends when you break up? Yes, but it's not necessary!

As the saying goes: friendship is further love, love takes a step back but can't be friends! After the breakup, no matter what the reason, I hope that the couples who broke up can get together and break up, even if they can't be friends, they can't be enemies.

When the couple of enemies will only fall deeper and deeper, and they will not be able to get out of the shadow of the breakup, and they will be more painful in the future (there is a possibility of suffering from depression), it is better to face the breakup bravely, draw a line with the other party, do not be friends, do not engage in ambiguity, and only be the most familiar stranger.

So, after a breakup, can you still be friends again? The answer is just one sentence: I have loved, may we all be well!

It is difficult for real lovers to be friends after breaking up, after all, after the change of intimacy, you may have been intimate with your lover and talked about everything, but once you break up, the two people will have to distance themselves, and it is inevitable to say intimate words at this time. There are many reasons for this. Specifically, it includes:

1. The fact that the breakup proves that the two people are no longer suitable for being together, let alone being friends. For those who think that they can still be friends after a breakup, they ignore the fact that two people have broken up and that has proven that two people are not suitable to be together. Since they are no longer suitable for each other, it is impossible to develop friendship between these two people and become friends.

2. Breaking up will have an impact on the feelings of both parties, so that they cannot become friends. For two people who have broken up, the relationship between them has been affected because of the breakup, and the feelings between each other are no longer harmonious, and may even have contradictions. Such a state of affairs leads directly to the fact that it is even less likely to be friends.

3. The distance between the two parties after the breakup is not enough to maintain a friendship. Different interpersonal relationships require different communication distances. The closer the relationship, the closer you will be to each other.

But after the breakup, the actual communication distance between the two people will be very distant, which is no longer enough to maintain a friend relationship, so the two people after the breakup can no longer be friends.

After the breakup between couples, Tong Stool Wax can't be friends again, because the two people have loved each other deeply, and they have slipped and hurt, and they can't go back at all, and they can't be friends anymore.

People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other

Actually, like you, I want to ask this question, but he has never been able to be friends with me, maybe, he still hates me... After a breakup, it's best to be the most familiar stranger!

If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party. However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends? No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

Suppose both parties have a new love after breaking up, but you are still friends with your old love, what does the new lover think. Who doesn't think you're disconnected from your old love? The new love must be dissatisfied, and he is even more afraid of creating a diagonal relationship in the pulling and pulling.

Although there are some examples of peace and quiet, these stories are inevitably a little embarrassing to hear. When you see your old lover, how can you forget the days you have walked with him through thick and thin? Unless it has not been unforgettable.

Looking at your former lover, kissing me and me with others, and happily, is your heart really so balanced? All human beings are dignified, so why bother to suffer for themselves? It's better to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible, seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away and live your life again!

People who have loved each other, don't be enemies, but don't be friends, accept each other, respect each other and love each other