If you have been hurt, do you really want to take revenge on those who have hurt you?

Don't, let love a way, hate is temporary, leave the last bit of beauty to this love, since you have loved, don't choose to hurt, everything will pass with time, meet with a smile and enmity.

There is no need to be like this, there is a saying: "How big the heart is, how big the career is", although they have hurt you, but that is a thing of the past, don't always live in the memory, maybe it's just your own thought of hurting, in fact, they didn't think it hurt you, consider things wider, change your mind, thank them, if it weren't for them, do you have now? Maybe it's another sky, isn't it, friend, come into reality, memories don't bring you any hope, they only make you sad, put the past behind, and face the present life.

I think revenge is not the solution to the problem, the best way is to communicate, think about the problem from the other person's point of view, if there is always hatred, can you be happy? Forget hatred and tomorrow will be better, yesterday's has become history, let history pass. Open your heart to meet every good tomorrow.

The past passed him.

Maybe the previous injuries are now that I think about it because I was too naïve at the beginning, take a step back and open up the sky, be forgiving and forgiving, and be generous is the man, many friends, multiple roads, multiple enemies, and many walls.

We have to learn to be tolerant, it is said that kindness to the enemy is cruelty to oneself, if you can be merciful before becoming an enemy, then you will gain a friend, why not!

There is no need to retaliate. It's so good for you after all.

You can't give the other person a happy feeling. It's your fault in itself.

That's what I thought.

Not good. Hatred doesn't give anyone happiness!

Why take revenge, I'm still tired, and you'll meet better in the future, be confident, and wish you happiness.

It would be best if you could put it down.

Personality is low.

The belly is small.

Selfishness of character.

will give rise to the idea of revenge.

Do you want to be that kind of person?

Forget. Go crazy and do your business!

Give you a warm hug (

My dear, as you can tell from your description, you are now angry about the injuries you suffered in elementary and junior high school, and you really want to deal with these emotions, right? 」

When we recall some humiliating incidents in the past, it is easy to feel angry and depressed, which is normal.

You are the sum of all your experiences of suffocation

Yes, when we encountered such a humiliating incident, we must have been very angry in our hearts, and now we think about it, why didn't we resist at that time?

You might even wonder if I could get those old people out and give them a fat beating!

But you may only see the negative effects of these things. I've also seen some of the benefits they bring you.

For example, after experiencing those things, do you know how to recognize people with your eyes? As well as being ridiculed, you will understand how much psychological damage ridicule can cause, and you will try to avoid actively ridiculing others in the future.

I think you can try to dig into the growth and influence that those bad things bring to you. When you're able to dig out those dots, you're probably going to feel better.

The world and I love you, good luck