Why do people have to rely on themselves in the end?

Because in the end everyone will leave us, and we will be left with only ourselves in our lives.

As we grow up, we are used to being dependent on others. But when we keep moving forward on the road of life, one day we will be the only one left on this road. Even if the road ahead is difficult, we must rely on ourselves to do it.

We are used to relying on our parents, but one day our parents will leave us. I grew up under the care of my parents, and until I went to college, I never suffered from hardships. I'm used to relying on my parents to take care of me in my life, but as I get older, I really feel panicked when I look at my parents' gray hair.

Especially in the past few years, I have attended several funerals in succession, and some of my father's generation have already left. I was so scared that my parents would leave one day, and it was uncomfortable to think about.

But no one can avoid birth, old age, sickness and death, and our parents will leave one day, and at that time, the last safe haven in our hearts will no longer exist.

Everyone has a lot of stress in their lives, and neither our loved ones nor our friends can completely help us with all of this. I am very miserable and stressed in my life now, and this pressure comes from the confusion about my future life and the helplessness of my current life. But I didn't dare to share this pressure with my lover, and I didn't want to share it with my friends.

I know that everyone is fighting for their lives and that we all have a lot of responsibility on our shoulders. Everyone can only do their best to walk on the road of life, there may be companions by their side, but there will be no one to support them.

Human life is like this, we grew up under the shelter of our parents, and kept moving forward in the company of lovers and friends, but in the end, the ups and downs on this road of life can only be faced by ourselves, and no one can replace it.

We always expect to be able to rely on something, but in the process of growing up unconsciously, we have become someone else's dependence. On the road of growth in life, we must be strong, because there is no way back behind us.

In the end, people always have to rely on themselves, so that we can be more determined in life.

The backers will fall, and everyone will run, so only you are the most reliable, even if you are really good to you, there will be a day when you leave, only you will never give up on yourself!

No one can really look at a person's life, because anyone may disappear from your side, so no matter at any time, you should change your life through your own efforts.

Because in the end, I still have to go through my life alone, and only by myself can I get a better life.

Because people can't rely on anyone, only when they become strong can they go further.

"In the end, people have to rely on themselves in the end, and only by themselves can they be steadfast, and they don't need to look at anyone's face to act, and there is no pressure at all.

Because life is your own, only you know what you want and what is suitable for you, and these things are all to be fought for by yourself.

This is because no one can really help themselves, so only if they are strong enough can they have the life they want.

Because nothing can be relied on, the mountains will fall, and everyone will run, so only you are the most reliable, this is really good to you people also have to leave the day, only you are not abandoned, until the last breath.

Because in the end, only oneself can be relied upon in one's life, and man also lives for himself.

Personally, I think that the reason why people still have to rely on themselves in the end is because their life is the most perfect only by relying on themselves step by step, and others can't help themselves too much.

I still agree with that.

No one can rely on it, only on oneselfIn a person's life, he has to rely on himself for everything. The road must be walked, and it can be reached; Things must be done before they can be done; Suffering must be endured before it can be eliminated. Happiness is fought for by yourself; Destiny is in your own hands.

Life is your own drawing board, why rely on others to color.

When you are the loneliest, there will be no one to accompany you; When you are the saddest, there is no one to take care of you. It's just you, going through some necessary experiences; Only on your own can you answer some of life's difficult questions.

Even if someone gives you a little money, you will spend it as soon as you go out, you can't spend it when you earn money yourself, not all grievances are understood, and it is best to love yourself.

Those who don't have an umbrella walk next to the person with an umbrella, and no matter how close they are, they can't hide from the rain, but they get wetter even more. It's better to hide far away, even if there is no umbrella, there is a rainy day and a sunny day. Even if you don't get close, you can have your own sunny world.

Writer Yang Daxia believes that relying on oneself is the most cost-effective.

In life, it is inevitable that Bai will encounter difficulties, but pressure.

DU force is also power. If you want to rely on others for everything, you are pinning your hopes for life on other people, and let yourself be passive forever. This kind of life seems to be easy for a while, but it is actually a hard life.

There is a saying, "All the gifts of fate are secretly marked." "When you choose to escape when you should rely on yourself the most, you can only retreat step by step when facing the challenges of life and cruel competition in the future, and become an outcast.

If you want not to be defeated by difficulties, you can only rise to the difficulties. Whatever you want, you can get it by your own strength; If you want to go, you can get there on your own feet. People who are really strong in their hearts will first try to solve problems by their own efforts.

Only with a heart that dares to be self-responsible, can we achieve a stronger self in overcoming obstacles.

There is no shortcut in life, and a person's noble person is often himself. May you and I both choose to be strong in life, wearing armor, fearless of challenges, fighting more and more courageously, and striving forward.

This life is a lonely journey, acquaintance, rubbing shoulders; Meeting, separation, is just a predestined ending, what should come will come, what should go will go, no matter how others choose, we must go on.

The person who accompanies you may not be with you until the end; The wind is calm, and it may not always be without waves. No matter what life gives us, whether it is happy and smiling, whether it is melancholy and uncomfortable, we all have to keep a sunny attitude, make ourselves brave, and make ourselves strong! When there is no one to help, you have to straighten your back; There is no one to escort, learn to be your own safe haven.

In this world, others don't care what you go through, others only look at what you get. The people who really care about your warmth and coldness are actually no one else except your parents! Relying on yourself, fearless, and strong is your confidence; Stubbornness is your own foundation!

Don't compare yourself with anyone, live yourself! Don't be presumptuous, feel that you are inferior to anyone, and the road under your feet is not easy to walk. Don't be complacent and feel that you are better than anyone, some people are just low-key.

Just do your best, and pay for what you want; Set your own goals and move forward on your own! No matter how big the wind and rain are, even if there are many twists and turns, we all have to grit our teeth and break through! When there is no one to lean on, be sure to straighten your waist!

When you are tired, find a place to rest, hug yourself, say that you have worked hard, buy back what you want to buy, and give yourself an encouragement! Learning to appreciate yourself, knowing how to please yourself, and letting that hard-working self always have a smile on your face is the greatest success on your life road!

Man in this life,Who can give you eternal dependence? Rely on your parents, and your parents will grow oldRely on friends, friends will run,Rely on the relationship, the relationship will fall,Only by yourself can you feel at ease! That's lifeA friend is also just an outsiderI can't help you all the time.

Man in this life,In the end, it's up to youMy life, no matter how difficult it is, I have to continueI have to climb my own journey even on my knees. Don't count on anyoneEven your own shadow,They will also leave when the light is gone. Life is realisticNo one can count on it, but to fight your ownWhat the future will look like, you can only pay for it yourself; If you don't work hard, no one will give you money to spendSo, we have to be strongIf you can carry it yourself, don't make a noiseIf you can do it yourself, don't ask for helpIf you can endure it yourself, don't cry out about painWhen you get stronger,Only then can you hold up the strength of life!

No matter how much your parents love you, you can't rely on it for a lifetimeNo matter how sincere a friend is, he can't help you all the timeOnly by yourself can you stand in the world! Who can people rely on in this life? Relying on others depends on the faceTo ask others is to bend downAs long as you rely on yourself, you can raise your head and be a manAs long as you rely on yourself, you can walk with your feet liftedAs long as you rely on yourself, you will succeed.

Life in the world,No one can always be with anyone. You're on your ownin order to support the tenacity of lifeEverything depends on yourself, and the road will be easy to walkEverything on your own, and no fear from now on!

Some people say that by our parents, our parents will always be a solid shield behind us.

But many times, we don't want to talk to our parents about our difficulties, because we don't want our parents to worry about our own affairs;

As we get older, our parents can't shelter us from the wind and rain for the rest of our lives.

Sad, we can only endure it ourselves.

Some people say that relying on friends, friends are always the light on our way forward.

But in this world, everyone has their own troubles and sorrows, and they are moving forward in the wind and rain, and friends also have their own pains and difficulties;

In the face of other people's suffering, it is difficult to empathize, and only love can help.

It hurts, and we can only hold on to ourselves.

Some people say that relying on nobles, nobles can guide us in the direction of life.

But what is a nobleman, the noble is expensive in the unattainable, the world is impermanent, the noble person does not want to have, can have;

Even if they do, they won't be able to help you for a lifetime.

Tired, we can only carry it ourselves.

As the saying goes, it is up to the nobles to lead the way, and it is up to oneself to walk.

In the face of all kinds of ups and downs in life, all kinds of unsatisfactory life, we still have to deal with it alone, and no one can always be by our side.

After all, in a stormy life, you know yourself warm, happy, angry, and sad, and others are difficult to understand.

Life is really hard, and you and I, who are in it, can only survive on our own.

Others may be able to help us for a while, but at the end of the day, life is a long road, and many times, we still need to rely on our own strength.

When no one is with you, you must know how to go alone;

When no one is holding an umbrella, learn to hold an umbrella for yourself.

Have you ever found that everything that you want to rely on others to achieve is often not too ideal, and even disappoints you, until you finally find that the most reliable person is only yourself.

In life, everyone has to face stress, emotions, troubles, birth, old age, sickness and death, when encountering these problems, we should have the courage to solve everything independently, and do not always think about relying on others.

I did it on my own, and the results were clean, and I didn't owe anyone anything, and I felt comfortable.

No matter how strong the power of others is, it is impossible to be inseparable from you, and it is impossible to do everything with you.

Don't think that anyone can give you any help you need, don't think that anyone can give you a sense of security, that you can only rely on cheap dependence.

Know that no one has to help you when you need it, so be independent and strong.

Each of us, at any time, at any stage, must allow ourselves to grow. All make themselves stronger.

What is Powerful? I believe that strength is not the strength of the surface, but the strength of our inner and larger hearts. When you encounter difficulties, the first thing you think of is to solve them yourself, rather than just relying on others. In summary, being strong is a form of independence.

When you don't need to depend on others, you are strong enough.