I m confused about how many times a month he does it??

Abnormal is all abnormal for young men.

I'm not interested in you, I'm not interested in love, everything tends to be dull, I don't want to change, life has become a backwater, in fact, what you are more afraid of is that after getting married, it will be a decades-long backwater life, because this man is definitely not just this aspect, silent and dull.

So you really don't have to stay alive and widowed, I think people have to live enough in this life.

When you say how many times a month he does it, do you mean sex? There's nothing to worry about this, just hook up with him if you need to, and you can refuse appropriately if you don't want to or are in a bad mood.

From a man's point of view, I'll help you think about it, I'm a man, you need to care more about him, and you have to change yourself to give him a sense of freshness, that's what I said to my girlfriend, so it's important to keep it fresh, I hope it helps you.

I'm just like your boyfriend about my girlfriend now, because I took the initiative, and I tried a lot of them, and the rest was what she really didn't let me get, so I gradually felt bored, and I came and went like that, and I was so interested.

It's not normal, it's not normal at first, it's mainly his reason, maybe you also have some shortcomings that he doesn't want to talk about.

Accept new things quickly, and get bored quickly There are too many such people.

You don't want him to give him when he wants, and you want to get away with it.

I'm such a man.

Find a smart female friend and have more contact with others.

But you're in this case. People don't necessarily talk to you about that.

He must have a lover.

Think about what you would be like if you ate dumplings all day.

Because there are many people separated from this. Normal.

Add this.,There's absolutely no virus.,There's a lot of content.,It's very formal.。

Sexless marriage. Hehe: It's not very rare in reality.

It doesn't matter if you don't get married.

Ay! ~！You have to be proactive.

Others are good to say.

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First of all, ask yourself if you really can't live without her. Find out what the girl really thinks. If there is nothing wrong with the relationship.

If your career is not bad. Fight hard for another year. Take the girls out.

Since you like it, the girl should look good. It shouldn't be difficult to bring her to your city and find a job. Rent a house and live happily as a young couple.

I want to ask you, how old are you, if you are about to graduate from college, and when you find a good job in the future, bring her with you, the main thing is to make the girl interesting to you, otherwise it will be in vain. Good luck.

Confess decisively The first step is to ask him to go out, buddy.

You are oppressed by your surroundings and cannot find your own path.

Since your girlfriend wants a house with you, there are only 2 possibilities, first, she is by no means your wife of the chaff. Second, she wants to put pressure on you to encourage you to keep trying. So it's not for you to give up, but for you to keep trying.

Then here's how:

1. Design this industry, pay attention to innovation, project experience, technology. Job-hopping can then be carried out. So if you like it and it's your strength, then keep working on it.

2. Take some titles such as ability certificates, technical grade certificates, and designer designers.

3. Continue to persist for a few years, an excellent talent must endure humiliation for at least 5 years before he will just emerge.

4. Don't change industries easily, because everything has to start all over again, and if you can't take care of it, it's better than your original, which is too risky.

5. Don't start a business, don't think about it if you don't have capital. Waste of time.

The most effective way is to continue to improve yourself in the industry you are familiar with, like I said, and then start changing jobs after accumulating a certain amount of experience. Wait until you have a certain circle of friends and connections before considering starting your own business.

You know that you are introverted, if you go to sales or start your own business, you have to change your own personality, because your personality may lead to your failure (sales or entrepreneurship), doing design is actually a good job, although in daily work you feel very rigid, the work content is repetitive, but this does not make your brain rigid, you can completely self-regulate, do graphic design, you can do a copy according to the boss, and then do a copy with your own thinking, Regardless of whether the boss recognizes your own thinking and ideas, you are also an affirmation and learning from yourself.

Men don't change careers at thirty, this is not to say that men can't change industries after thirty, but men are around thirty years old when their energy and thinking are the most flexible, at this time you should stick to your own industry and make achievements!

As for your girlfriend's request, I personally feel that if a woman takes this as a relationship and a guarantee for marriage, then this relationship is unreliable, in reality, in this society, the house is already a problem for the people of the whole country, and you can't deny your achievements for this reason. Be confident!!

Personal opinion !! A few more words!

It's better not to start a business lightly. Kai-Fu Lee said that less than 1 percent of college students have succeeded in starting a business. Because entrepreneurship requires teamwork, execution, and experience. Do you have one?

The reason why you find work boring and rigid. That's because you've only graduated from a bachelor's degree, and although you've been working for 2 years, it's not enough to be your experience capital. Everything has to start from the bottom, and the work at the bottom is destined to be untechnical.

In other words, stereotyped. It's good to be able to work in something related to your major after graduating from university, what you need to do now is, 1Keep working, but stay bored and accumulate enough experience as capital for you to change jobs or get promoted.

2.Use your free time to study, learn and learn something related to graphic design, that is, continue your education. You know, you're waiting for an opportunity, and when the opportunity comes, if you're not ready, it's just for nothing.

So you have to keep learning. Nowadays, some people go back to school after working for a few years, because they know that if they want to go up the ladder, they can't rely on their undergraduate knowledge. This phenomenon is also common abroad, because after working for a few years, with experience, if you add your academic qualifications, your advantage is very obvious.

3.Don't let your work time take over, or you'll hardly be able to make a difference. Some people can climb up step by step from the bottom (excluding those who rely on relationships, speaking of which, I just want to tell you, don't resent this phenomenon, because you can't change it, the world is inherently unfair) because they have a hard time, not only to work, but also to study.

4..You probably don't want to get married, but if you have a family on your back, your burden may be heavy. It's a good situation right now, and you can concentrate on your career.

Wait until you're financially ready to talk about getting married.

If you're not a fan of noodle design, then change jobs. Because it hurts to do something you don't like for the rest of your life.

Man, you ask yourself what you're doing there, what's the picture?? What else is there besides stability?

Do it while you're young, or you'll regret it! Don't give yourself any excuses!

Generally, newlyweds once or twice a week, 30-year-old middle-aged couples are about once a week or 3 to 4 times a month, middle-aged couples in their 40s are about 3 times a month, and 50-year-old couples are about 1 to 2 times a month.

It also depends on your own physical condition and so on.

There is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower. If she doesn't agree, forget it, there are times when she regrets it.

A little thing to change schools? What kind of man are you? Besides, love on campus is like.

Leave it to time, time is the best antidote, and it is also the only antidote. Or one day you will recognize the naivety of today.

Study hard in college and talk about love.

Oh god. But the girl should be moved.

Suitable, because there will be a return for paying, and it is because of love that it is pleased, so he will not look down on her, but will make the girl better for him.

I was like this two days ago. I just failed in my first love... Ay! %

I've been with my girlfriend for almost four years, and we've been together two or three times a month, I'm 95, she's 98.

You should talk to him more, enlighten him, ask him if there is anything that is not going well, and a smart woman can make a man feel that he can relax and rest when he is with her, and forget his troubles. That way he will focus his attention and energy on you.

If a man doesn't go well at work, or has a lot of pressure in life, he won't put his mind on sex, so understand him more! Be enlightened, guided, and let him know that this is also a good way to release stress.

4 to 5 times, not too much, it's not good for your health, I'm a medical student, hehe, that's not good for your spirit.

Once a day. See if your boyfriend is doing it.

There are no absolutes, only relatives!! This has to be decided based on your ** at the time!!

If it is just ordinary care once a week, it is sufficient, and special circumstances require special treatment, such as if you stay up late for several days in a row, then it is best to apply it for both two or three days, so that ** can return to the original level in the shortest possible time!!

2-3 times a week is about the same (up to 3 times) After all, the ability to absorb nutrients is limited.

Do not use frequently. Use it 1-2 times a week and it's OK!