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If you look at the characteristics of the girl he likes, especially on the outside, such as the hairstyle, and what is the difference between you and you, maybe the boy likes braids and you have short hair, I think these should be important.
Also, you can care more about him, but not too explicitly, so as not to make the boy proud.
In addition, learn the personality of the girl, such as that person is open and you are introverted, compare more, and then make sure that the boy is likely to notice you eventually!! 1
Good luck. Your happiness is in your own hands, work hard, even if you really fail, you don't regret it, after all, you have worked hard. Hehe.
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Imitating someone else? So what can you do, you think this will attract him? It's better to be your true self.
You may have to try to get along with him first, and say you're friends, but you have to cut down on what you're thinking"Defeat the person he had in mind"
If you go with this attitude, you will definitely fail, and you have a strong desire, I don't think he can feel it before he gets close to him. There is no need to deliberately behave in front of him, just like usual.
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A woman's confession to a man is rejected? Then this female friend, listen to my persuasion and give up, otherwise you will gain even greater pain! This gentleman is not bad, he told you what he really thinks, and you should be happy that he didn't lie to you.
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Women's reserve is for men to break.
At the same time, men are also impressed by women.
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Then go ahead! Persistence is victory! It doesn't make sense to like someone: I believe in you!
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1. Set the right mentality.
Before confessing, we should ** the possibility of failure. Even if we are rejected, it is not necessarily because of our own reasons, we must first adjust our mindset. Don't feel ashamed or embarrassed after your confession is rejected.
At least you have the courage to take this step, let the other person know what you think, don't be sad, don't do stupid things, because it's normal for confessions to be rejected.
2. You can ask the other party why.
The confession was rejected and affirmed that the other party also had their own considerations. If you can, ask the other person why they are refusing so you can know if the other person is really impossible or because of something else. If it is due to other objective reasons, at least it means that you still have hope, and you can choose a suitable time to confess in the future.
If the other person may really have no feelings for you, at least there will be no regrets.
3. Don't bother each other for a while.
During the period of rejection of confession, each other needs to reorganize their emotions, so it is best not to contact and disturb the other person during this time, and not to add trouble to the other person. For the rejection of the confession, if she blindly contacts the other person, it will make the other person feel bored, so it will be difficult to attract or repent again. Give the other person some time and think about what else you need to make up.
How to get a boy to repent in an ambiguous time and let the other person take the initiative to pursue you!
4. Enhance their own value.
Although the confession is rejected, to a certain extent, you also attract the attention of the other party, so if you want to recover, you should constantly keep improving your value and make yourself more attractive. If you don't improve yourself, no matter how many skills you confess, you may not get good results, love is to shake your own attraction, not some means, so the most important thing is to keep improving yourself to attract the attention of the other person.
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Is confession and non-reply a rejection?
Yes! In fact, it is very likely that he may not have a strong love for you between men and women, he just treats you as a friend, but it is not good to say it to death, refuse directly, I am afraid that I can't even be a friend, and it hurts your heart, don't worry, just treat it as a friend, don't force him to break it, don't embarrass both of you, will he fall in love with you, time will tell everything, be a confident, independent and emotionally intelligent person.
Sit tight. Although love is beautiful, but if you don't get a reply after the line leaks the confession, it will become a tragic love experience, in fact, you can't blame the person who was confessed, they suddenly received your confession, they may be at a loss, don't know how to deal with it, and forget the reply to you. That's why you can't get a reply for a long time.
The more this happens, the more you can't panic or choose to give up. Confessing to a girl and not replying doesn't mean that the girl has blocked you, or that the other party doesn't like you. Perhaps, they just need a period of calm, thinking about how to deal with it, how to reply.
Then all you have to do is quietly wait for a reply. When the girl thinks clearly, she will reply to you with her answer. Even if the reply you wait for is a rejection, don't lose faith.
Don't be like a headless fly that is rotting and restless.
Recognize yourself. In fact, we also know in our own hearts that sometimes if we send a message to others, others may not necessarily be able to see our message on time, so if we send a message to others, we will comfort ourselves that the other party, if we don't reply in time, we must be because we didn't see it. But we also have to know that if a person really hasn't replied to your message for a long time, then he is actually really rejecting you, he just doesn't want to reject you in a particularly direct way, at this time we should actually know what to do in our own hearts.
Make it clear in person.
In the Internet era, more and more people have become dependent on mobile phones, and even confessions and breakups can be solved on mobile phones. I saw such a story on Weibo before, the boy proposed to the girl on WeChat, and said to the girl Are you willing to marry me, the girl said that no one proposed on WeChat, and the boy said that you are on QQ. Don't you want to laugh a little, such an important thing as a marriage proposal is done through a mobile phone, I think no girl will agree, girls don't necessarily ask for a lot, but at least you need to make it clear in person.
Confession requires temperature, and we often prefer to face each other directly, rather than a cold mobile phone, because through the mobile phone, we can't feel each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and we can't see each other's expressions at this moment. So through I like you on WeChat, the girl can understand whether you are sincere or tentative. If you want to confess, you have to ask the girl out and tell her to her face, I like you.
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In my opinion, the fact that a confession is not responded to cannot be counted as a rejection at all.
First of all, even if the other person does not respond, it may be due to various reasons, such as not being sure of your emotions, worrying that something will be hurt, not being able to express your thoughts, etc. These factors often affect the reaction of one party, and taking confession as a rejection will only lead to more entanglement.
Secondly, wait quietly for a while, maybe both parties can let a moderate distance, the mood will gradually ease, and you will also have an understanding of the other party's attitude, respect and understand the other party's thoughts. Under the pressure of time, the emotions expressed are also more real and deep.
In the end, when both parties are prepared and able to bear the changes brought about by this affection, perhaps both parties will have more motivation because of this emotion, tell the desire of both parties, and start the common story again.
In short, I think that confession not being responded to is not a rejection, but it does not mean that you have to give up, but it is necessary to exert your ability to adjust, so that everything can have a better development and finally lead to a better outcome.
If the relationship is okay, you should stick to it, and everything else is nothing. Now the world is small, and it's the same to settle down in **.
Tell you a way, in these 2 years, you have to hold a few chess pieces tightly in your hands, provided that you are also a little interesting to those chess pieces, in case she agrees after 2 years, it is naturally the best, if she is unwilling, you at least have chips in your hands, and you will not become emotionally free (there are many ways to choose, so naturally you don't have to find a way), although this method is a bit treacherous, but it is a method with the best chance of winning, if you don't do it, then you can guarantee that during this time, Did she meet a better one, but still waiting for you?
Don't go, I don't think your boyfriend is good, why do you still spend your own money, it is natural for a woman to spend a man's money Go out for two months, if he changes his mind, then he will be in the future, can you always look at him, do you think this is not tiring You can use the period to see where you are in each other's hearts With me as a boy, I want her to be with me all the time, but your boyfriend seems to be very welcome to you, for her, if you spend her money, I don't feel like a man, I'd rather not eat, but also spend me, I mean together I always feel that he is not good, listen to my brother's persuasion, don't go.
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