I love him very much but I m going to break up, why do I want to break up when I love him very much

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    First of all, congratulations on having a sane mind, you said, you work hard to live well, but the personality really doesn't get along, the personality doesn't get along, but the two love each other, this is indeed a very painful thing, many people don't understand how personality incompatibility can be the reason for breaking up, but personality incompatibility is the most direct reason for the two to break up! You've managed to get out of a year of tormenting each other due to personality mismatches, so what's next for you?

    That's the second thing, I don't agree with what you said about "it's impossible to forget him", you just loved each other once, and you chose to break up and move on, so why do you have to see him and shed tears? There is a word called "time", you can choose to calm down for a while, and also tell him to calm down for a while, when you can look at each other without shedding tears, maybe you will become ordinary friends who can laugh, if you still can't forget, then continue to see him, don't greet him, sometimes since you choose to break up, then the road ahead can not be procrastinated, can not be broken, can not be ambiguous, otherwise you will be more painful!

    Finally, I want to say to you, you are a rational girl, you know very well the problems that occur between you, and clearly know that you will only suffer and torture each other together, so for you, time is the best medicine, and I believe that you can get out of this painful time!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's New Year, my dear

    The New Year means that the old past is going to be thrown away, although it is not reluctant, but only by looking forward can it be possible, although it is not reluctant, but it can no longer continue, isn't it? Although reluctant, but lost is lost, no matter how nostalgic it is, it is just looking at the shadow of the past to mourn the love of the lost youth, the past is the past, you can only move forward, looking back is the torture and punishment of yourself, punishing yourself for not being able to treat your feelings correctly, torturing yourself and wasting your feelings and time.

    Go shopping with your girlfriends, buy clothes, watch movies, and dress yourself up in a glorious way!

    Wrong is wrong, but tomorrow we have to meet better expectations and happiness So cheer up Who doesn't love to miss one or two silly girls!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Just think about it. In fact, everyone has experienced a broken love.

    It's a lot worse than you.

    A girl from my college classmate has been with her boyfriend for 6 years.

    In the end, it was divided. I have been with my previous boyfriend for over three years.

    When I went to college, I separated.

    Ask who isn't uncomfortable.

    That's going to be dead.

    But the days ahead won't be over, probably not.

    In fact, whoever leaves can't live.

    Breaking up isn't scary.

    The scary thing is that you can never get out.

    I've been remembering that thing in my head for a long time.

    It will appreciate in value like a cultural relic.

    Love yourself with the rest of your love.

    There is still a long way to go in life, and there will always be someone who will accompany you through this life through this life!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Time will fade away, and the landlord believes this. A lot of things are a mystery to the authorities, and after a few years**, you may find that all this is insignificant. Back then, I loved a girl very much, thinking that I couldn't live without her, but after a few years, I realized how naïve I was at the beginning.

    Don't keep dwelling on this matter, if you can't get along, there's really no way, otherwise it will be painful in the future. When you start a new life, you will gradually forget the past, and trust me, you will be fine.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you can't forget it, keep it in your memory and treasure it. After all, you've loved each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    True love can be so painful. But the personalities can't get along, and they can't force each other. Bury this fond memory deep into it, and when you remember it years later, I think you should be smiling.

    What a rare experience in your life. Look ahead, something beautiful is still waiting for you ahead.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    , don't deliberately forget, as long as you think about him a little less every day, it's good to take it slowly.

    Time is the best healing tool.

    Take your time. Support you,

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't do that, everything believes in time, you have more than 3 months alone, and you will find that it is not a big deal!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Divide it. Long pain is better than short pain.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Time is the most invincible, and time can help you smile.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's divided, it's completely self-inflicted. How can you break up without holding hands?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Many people actually can't do it in a relationship but still have to let go of the fact that they love each other, but this is based on the fact that both of them love each other.

    When it is clear that two people love each other very much, one party may give up because of practical factors, such as mismatch of material conditions, etc., which is difficult to judge whether it is because I love you too much and don't want to affect you or because I don't love you enough and dare not have the courage to struggle. But it is also certain that in the case of falling in love, Sun Chang will also let go.

    In fact, I have always believed that people will only live once for themselves in this world, and it is already very lucky to really meet the person who can be tempted, if you really love someone, please don't let go, first work hard and finally lose to fate.

    Of course, there is also a second situation, that is, when a person is unilaterally in love with another person, although he really likes that person very much, he thinks that the effort will not only be tiring, but also a burden to another person who passively accepts. This is what we mentioned earlier, the one-sided love of the second male in the idol drama belongs to the type that will let go directly in the later stage. This kind of is a way to use one's own feelings to fulfill the other party, and it is also a relatively sad choice.

    Therefore, it is possible to break up and leave for various reasons when you love someone, but I still believe that loving someone is a state where you want to possess and want to work hard for the other person.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's just that you love it very much, and he doesn't necessarily think so too.

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