Obviously I love her, why do I always choose to run away from her

Updated on psychology 2024-03-17
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are really a lot of things, a lot of people, we always want to forget, we can't forget, but is that really the case? In fact, we can't forget the shackles in our hearts, maybe you can't forget it now, but after many years, you won't find that these things about you have been so inadvertently forgotten? The key is not to deliberately do something, no matter what it is, there is a chance that he will be worse!

    You say, is he simple? Is this just your word? And one sentence can affect your whole life.??

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If there is a result, then chase it, and if there is no result, you must force yourself to forget.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because the more you love, the more afraid you are of losing the person who faces your heart.

    There will always be hope for a further step. But usually in the process of going further.

    Often, you have to take a little risk.

    Even existing relationships may be destroyed. The human heart will be inclined to stability.

    It is better to continue to maintain the status quo than to go one step further. Other than that.

    Most people don't have confidence in themselves.

    I feel like I have a lot to fall short of. They will be afraid that the object of their affection will find out that they are not good.

    All a lot of times will be avoided.

    Or suppress yourself.

    It becomes very unnatural. That's why it's easy to know that someone close to you is having a crush on someone.

    Because you're afraid. Once let the other person know left.

    will lose it. On the other hand.

    It's possible that you're too confident in yourself.

    In fact, you may have confidence in your own reputation, afraid of laughing better than others, and knowing better than others. I've had a lot of experiences. Maybe you feel a little inferior because you don't think you're good enough. I don't think I'm wearing a good lining, so I should take the initiative

    I will talk about the topic with him. Bold d.In fact, if you really have a heart.

    Reference: Yourself.

    Maybe it's shyness.

    Maybe it's because you're shy, or maybe you're afraid that the other party will see through your liking for him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are many kinds of evasion.

    You know. There's a kind of fear of your affection.

    I'm afraid of failing you.

    And choosing to escape, this is a kind of well-intentioned escape, and there is a kind of is.

    I simply don't let go of that kind of escape in your heart, he. She doesn't want to face the problem with you, so she uses avoidance to solve the problem, then again, if you like it, you will be together, if you don't like it, you won't be together, there is no reason to hurt no one, if she uses the excuse of being afraid of hurting another person to hurt you, then do you still think you are doing the right thing? Your concession is for her.

    What is it? Don't doubt your right or wrong, there is no right or wrong in love, there is no right or wrong in liking anyone, what is wrong.

    Did you pay for the right person? Will your liking be recognized, don't think about it so painfully, if you like you.

    Why do you want to be with others, is it in this world.

    Is it only the one who was with him twice who would get hurt?

    The road still has to be continued by yourself, and later as you get older.

    You're going to be more and more mature, I'm saying these things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Actually, I personally think you're wrong to do that!

    Why can't we be together even though we love each other? Is there such a big reason that can stop love? It's so fake, I don't think it's possible!

    If you really love each other, you won't care about external reasons and walk together. It's just that one of you is not sure about this relationship or this feeling, and maybe it can also be said that they are just using each other, that is not love! And there is no love!

    Don't believe you can try to accept this fact later, but don't want you to get hurt.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Afraid of being hurt, personal feelings are more subtle. Escape is also a way to like someone, to love someone is not necessarily to have this person, as long as he is happy, the way to love him can be diverse. Running away is not cowardice, it is not being able to withstand too much harm.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't keep forcing him to do something. You can try to understand his life and be friends first. He will think of you when he needs it, if you always wish that he must be with you, then he will run away from you, the so-called twisted melon is not sweet, take your time.

    Many lovers are bitter first and then sweet.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because you're ugly?

    Still is. Ah: I said the wrong thing.

    Bless you and be happy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    She or he doesn't like you, the world is so big, why bother to love a flower, look forward and maybe you will find the love of the person who belongs to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    We're the same. Maybe people can't accept our love, maybe we're too crazy, and we're fools anyway. Simply point, forget, don't get hurt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Since we have chosen love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him when he (she) is in difficulty, encourage him or her when he (she) is happy, and comfort him (her) when he (she) is happy. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm.

    Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a ...... that will not fadeAll this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.

    The most important thing to love a person is to respect his (her) own independent time and space, let him (her) devote his (she) energy to the struggle for his ideal career, and urge him (her) to make full use of the time at his or her disposal, help each other in the short space with each other, support each other, share weal and woe, contribute to each other's ideal cause, and strive for a better future together!

    You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a few days, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from people, you feel as if something is missing. Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that life, that feeling.

    Therefore, when you lose him (her), you will think that he (she) is valuable, if you cherish him (her) at the beginning, he (her) will not leave you now. Friends, cherish what you have now, don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame.

    I wish you happiness and happiness! ~~

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    They are waiting for each other to confess to themselves first, when they have not yet shown their love for each other, they are still in an embarrassing situation, they are not sure whether the other party has themselves in their hearts, even if they have their own position, they are afraid that their confession will fail, so they are embarrassed when they meet again in the future, they would rather choose to escape, than face the embarrassment in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to love, you should be bold to love, and if you miss it, it will be even more painful. There is no right or wrong in love, there is the difference between love and non-love. The confession is still a confession, to give the other party a sense of security, some warmth, some hope, understand the other party and understand the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Maybe love is a sad fairy tale.

    But it's far away and real.

    But it is not to be touched and lacking.

    Only then can we achieve brilliance and sacredness.

    It is not painful to give up someone who loves you very much;

    Giving up someone you love very much, that's the pain;

    Falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is more painful.

    If there is fate, time and space are not distances;

    If there is no fate, there is no intention of getting together in the end.

    You don't have to care too much about everything, and you don't need to force it, just let everything go with the flow.

    Escape, not necessarily hidden;

    Facing it, it is not necessarily the saddest.

    Loneliness is not necessarily unhappy;

    Get, not necessarily long.

    Losing doesn't necessarily mean not having it anymore, and it may be sad for some reason.

    But you can find a reason to be happy.

    Love is nothing more than to be happy.

    Two people cannot be happy, it is better to be happy than one;

    It is better to fulfill the happiness of two people than to fulfill the happiness of two people.

    Love is a feeling that makes you feel happy even if you are in pain;

    Love is a kind of experience, even if the heart is broken, it will feel sweet;

    Love is an experience that feels beautiful even if it is broken.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The deeper the love, the deeper the hurt...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    She later told me that what she said before was all true, and made an agreement with me, saying that we could only be brothers and sisters in junior high school due to some things, but in high school she could be nice to me, I agreed, did I do the right thing? What did she think? Added:

    I used to be unhappy because of a lot of things, but did I do the right thing this time? Addendum: I used to be unhappy because of a lot of problems, so did I do the right thing this time?

    Addendum: It's the second time she's been with that person, and she said that she's okay with that person, and she's afraid she'll hurt him if she's separated again. Satisfactory answer Big Baby's Little Treasure Level 6 2008-06-23There are many kinds of escape Do you know?

    There's a kind of fear of your affection, that I'm afraid of letting you down, and I choose to run away, this kind of kind of escape, and there's a kind of escape that doesn't let you go in my heart at all, he. She doesn't want to face the problem with you, so she uses avoidance to solve the problem, then again, if you like it, you will be together, if you don't like it, you won't be together, there is no reason to hurt no one, if she uses the excuse of being afraid of hurting another person to hurt you, then do you still think you are doing the right thing? What is your concession to her?

    The road still has to be continued by yourself, and you will become more and more mature as you grow older, I say these words, is to let you have an object to confide in your heart, and finally, I still wish you to find someone who really likes you. Other (19) ten times.

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