I don t know what to think about love 10

How to look at love.

Wen Yunhai listened to Song.

Recently, it has become more sentimental here, and the air is filled with faded love!

What exactly is love? It's as if no one is on it. You can analyze the changes in endocrine from a chemical point of view, you can analyze their spiritual world from a philosophical point of view, you can analyze how many nutrients love can provide from nutrition, but you can't analyze what love is.

Love can be abundant to all-encompassing, the power contained can surpass all **, and you can give up your life for another person.

Love is creating miracles one by one, and it is also creating destruction one by one!

I remember my classmate's sister, the effort she put in to catch up with a young man. At that time, I was still in junior high school, and the boys were very good at sports, although they were not handsome, but they were a little masculine! In the last year of high school, the boy decided to go to university.

He spent all his time other than training and sports on studying, and as a result, he caught up with all his classmates in one year and was successfully admitted to Oilfield No. 1 Middle School. Three years later, he was admitted to Wuhan Sports University. And the younger sister of her classmate also gave up the technical secondary school to take the high school entrance examination.

Unfortunately, it didn't make the list in the first year. In order to be with the boy she likes, she repeated her studies without sleep and food, and devoted herself to her dreams. Finally admitted to Wuhan Sports University as he wished.

I thought this touching story would have a good ending, and like all fairy tales, the princess and prince lived happily ever after. Later, the boy found another girl, and the classmate's sister ran to Zhejiang to become a physical education teacher in a fit of anger.

Sometimes there is no right or wrong in love, but it must be sincere. One day the person you love changes your mind, you have to understand why it happened? If he is a person who likes the new and hates the old, you should be happy to leave sooner. As the saying goes, long pain is better than short pain!

Do you understand why Maruji chose his first love in "Tokyo Love Story"? I didn't understand it before, but I hated that girl for no reason anyway, and she took away Lixiang's love. Later, when I got a little older, I gradually learned the reason.

In fact, there are many reasons for the end of the relationship, and the key is that everyone is thinking about the problem in a different way.

Thinking well is not necessarily doing well, everything is indefinite!

In love, it is inevitable that you will inevitably suffer some injuries. Love, what makes you unable to give up is nothing else, it is the feeling that hurts faintly when you think about it. Endless time swept away all the sadness, but made the bits and pieces together, the sweetness of being together like a shadow.

It is this kind of flawed beauty that makes you unforgettable!

Finally, one day, someone suddenly realized: cherish what you have!

What is the end of the relationship? Numbness

Dude, I didn't expect you to have this kind of thing like me. It's very simple, hurry up and score, the later the more damage will be. Since it's your wishful thinking, the result can only be a bamboo basket for nothing.

You have to learn to give up and do it yourself, all for your own good, otherwise you will fall deeper and deeper, unable to extricate yourself, and delay your good years. Give up on her and find true love!

Do you really love her? Do you understand her preferences? Any idea why she doesn't like you?

Even if she is passive with you at first, if you can impress her with your heart, she will still like you. is still so indifferent to you, which means that you have not impressed her at all. Is she cold-blooded?

Definitely not. She didn't hate you very much before she got to know you, she could only say that she didn't feel it, but why didn't she change her attitude after talking to you for a few months? Think about what the problem is.

Why do you give a lot of affection, but you can't get her sincerity? Although you think you did it with your heart, can she accept this way? Just look at her reaction.

Feelings are mutual, why do you repeatedly pay but can't get real feelings, you have to think about it.

I tell you, no matter what you do, you have to leave three points for yourself, don't care too much about one thing or one person, too much care will hurt you. The current society is very realistic, you and her make your current situation clear, you and her say that I can't give you the life you imagine, I can only give you my best. If she's a very realistic person, you just let it go.

It's going to be painful to be with her.

It's useless to keep this kind of woman.

Feelings are two-sided. If you just want to have fun, you don't need to think about anything else.

But if it's serious, take it better.

I think we should be able to look at love dialectically, consider it seriously, give sincerely, don't deliberately pursue love, we need to go with the flow and stabilize our minds! So what kind of emotional outlook should we have?

1.If you love someone, you want to give him all the good. But if you want to get someone, you can't be too kind to him, because the more you give, the less he will cherish it.

Love is to give without reservation, but life is to give and reciprocate. When you blindly love someone, it's not life, it's masochism. Happiness is the one you love, and he loves you.

It is you who take care of people, and those who are different from you take care of you.

Love is mutual, not unrequited.

Some things will always pass, some feelings will always be in my heart, I have heard the songs you have heard, watched the movies you have watched, time passes, and I silently bless you. Hongchen's ferry, people come and go, if next time, I still have the fate to meet you, I hope the ending is the rest of my life.

2.The beauty of love lies in its uncertainty, we look at it with an open mind, love is an experience, a feeling we can choose to experience or choose not to experience, there is no right or wrong, as long as our actions and inner thoughts are consistent, there will be no consumption. If you choose to experience, you have to be attentive, just like happiness is to experience sadness, and at this time, don't be too externally de-materialized, for example:

What kind of result and how to have a chain of love, but more to **** their own hearts, our own inner things we face, we assume our own responsibilities, you do it, you do it right, the world is good.

3.Love is a metaphysics, some people may be in the eyes of others, but in the eyes of some people can shine, sometimes we will be tempted by a person at this moment, it is determined by our history, our growth is determined, for example, in that person to see the ideal self, to see the former self, in short, we see the shining point.

If there is no white lie, will your relationship be sweet, if there is no love like that, it will make people very tired, and you will feel the powerlessness of social reality.

Kindness, in fact, the other party is afraid that you will be sad at the beginning, and it is not necessarily because he is a lie that will detract from love.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, seeing him (her) troubled you will also follow the trouble, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!

Love is the synthesis of family affection and friendship, love is the prelude to love, marriage is the sublimation of friendship, and reproduction is the continuation of family affection. The process of love is not important, the result is the most important, because the process of love is not the same, and the result of perfect love is to come together. When you are hit, frustrated, hurt, when you feel discouraged and disappointed, there is someone who will always be on your side unconditionally, supporting you, encouraging you, comforting you, and allowing you to get up from your fall until you stand firm.

This power cannot be given to us by our dear parents, nor can we be given good friends, but only the beloved partner we find in the journey of life can give us. With the infernality of family affection and the distance of friendship, love can be stable!

To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it does require both parties to be careful + patient + careful management to maintain.

When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

Understanding, consideration and trust.

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish.

Here's a little trick:

If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.

When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.