My love makes me feel lost, and I don t know whether to continue or give up

Updated on educate 2024-03-07
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your problems actually exist in many couples, but you don't express some details in your relationship, so as someone else, you can't help you deeply.

    But aside from those cumbersome problems, the simplicity of feelings lies in the fact that you want to be with each other, and are willing to bear a series of problems to face hand in hand with them, in fact, feelings are sometimes very simple, that is, because the existence of feelings only requires love between two people, and feelings are sometimes very complicated, that is because there are too many people and things in the middle, especially in the real society, and feelings are not so real.

    I don't know why your relationship feels lost, but since you have thought about whether to continue or give up, it means that you have doubts about this relationship in your heart, and you come to ask questions to prove that you are still reluctant.

    Looking at this problem from the perspective of others, if you both love each other deeply, then I think you should be together, maybe there will be friction in the middle, there will be family and other people's opinions, maybe it is the constraints of money and material aspects and other factors, but if you have such a persistence with each other to hold the hand of the son, grow old with the child, and solve any problems together, then you should be together. If one of you has become less pure for some reason, then it is not a good thing to break up early, many times, the deterioration of the relationship is from the initial little bit of unlove to the final betrayal, so let go early, maybe painful, but not painful.

    In a word, love is deep love, be together well, face and overcome any difficulties together.

    If you don't love, leave, give yourself and each other freedom, and the next beautiful relationship will still exist.

    I think this situation is very difficult to solve as you said, first of all, you must hope to settle down with a person, two people live together, have to take care of, and running around all day long is indeed a lot less steadiness in people's hearts, but if the real career is needed, then I think your problems should be talked about well, in fact, there are many people who are willing to follow each other if they really want to be with each other, that is, the so-called you follow him, he goes**You are in**, You can still take care of each other, if you don't want to do this, then maybe you should have a good talk with him, see if he can be willing to give up your existing career for you, live a peaceful life with you, and find another way out, if you can't do anything, you don't follow him far away, and he doesn't want to stay for you, then it's better to break up, this is my opinion, but in the end it's still you, after all, it's your feelings, think about it carefully, don't regret it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not easy for two people to come together in the vast sea of people! What is he always traveling for when he travels? What is he working so hard for?

    He is in order to be able to give you a warm home, in order to buy you more things you like! If they could, who would want to travel all the time? He is working hard for this family, you have to believe in him.

    I also believe that as long as you get through this difficult time, you will be very happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Are you male or female? "If a woman wants to give up and feels tired, give up, if he really loves you, he won't make you feel tired and won't make you uncomfortable." > fact, now a lot of feelings are based on sex life, if you want to give up, give up, do what you think, don't always listen to others, feelings are their own business, no one can not live without who leaves, only live well, not happy, in fact, once there is an idea of breaking up, then you will decide to go to the end, sometimes giving up is a good thing, it will make you meet another choice.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There must always be a time in your life to fight for a person, regardless of gains and losses. Preferably at a young age. If you are old, it is time to be mature and rational, and let go as soon as you can't get together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This, what's going on? What happened? Your question is of no reference to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you feel confused, don't continue, give up when it's time to give up, what if you're unwilling, let go if you can't love each other! The important thing is to love yourself, live your life well, and love will come.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't know, and now I'm feeling lost. It's fast, and you immediately know if it's worth it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as they care about each other, nothing matters.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is important to give the other party a sense of security, depending on what you like about the other person, and whether you like it or not

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you care about her? Does she care about you? She doesn't care, why should you care?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I used to long to stay with someone, but later, how glad I was to leave?

    Once upon a time, for a short period of time, we thought we were deeply in love with someone.

    Later, we learned that it was not love, it was just lying to ourselves.

    What you thought you couldn't lose is not something you can't lose. You dry your tears, and you have another person to make you laugh. You are heartbroken, and then you find that the person who doesn't love you is not worth your grief at all.

    Looking back today, isn't it a comedy? When the love is over, there is a new realm, and all the sorrow is just history.

    I feel the same way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At least the breakup needs to be cold and ruthless at the time, otherwise how can you bear to separate, there are not a few things that are untidy and messy, in fact, the ruthlessness at that time is good for both parties, if you are very calm with each other in the future, maybe you can be friends again, very calm friends. After that, you will feel that when you break up, you will be firm and good to everyone, so that each other can find the true love that truly belongs to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Go on! Love is for hope! Only love can make people kindle new hope! Giving up nothing is gone..

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I would choose to give up, since I can't find a reason to be together, there is no need to continue living together, it's too tiring.

    If you no longer love him so much, if you no longer trust your relationship as much as before, if you no longer have the courage to change for him without hesitation, and no longer continue with him without hesitation, then you choose to let go as soon as possible, don't worry too much about the world, explain it to him, break up peacefully, and don't embarrass each other so much.

    At the same time, you also have to reflect on this relationship, why there is such an ending, is it because you usually lack effective communication, lack of tolerance for each other, and do you not spend the same time and time with each other to manage the relationship? You have to really know what kind of person is suitable for you, suitable for being with you for a lifetime, and know how to manage a relationship.

    How to choose, how to operate, don't work behind closed doors, you have to be active with your other half, through hard work, you can find friends when appropriate, it is best to have successful experience to actively seek advice, live with heart, and don't repeat the tragedy of this relationship.

    Every time I am disappointed, I will do one less thing to love you, until the end, the remarks are changed to full names, cancel special care, go online and don't take the initiative to find you, put away the things you send, delete all your **, and never look at you secretly again, it's time to say goodbye.

    I thought it was the most painful when I first fell out of love, but it wasn't, but as time went by, you slowly realized that this person really left your life, and you will never have an intersection in the future, and you can't send a message or hit ** when you think about him, let alone see him, but you still have to force yourself to put him down.

    Life needs to be zeroed. Every once in a while, you have to clear the past and start over. Don't let the past become a burden for the present, travel light to go further.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Stop, since you are now in a period of confusion, you don't know the direction in the future, and whether you will be together in the future is also full of variables.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A lost relationship should stop, because when you are no longer confused, you will find that you don't love him anymore, and it will stop at that time.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It should be continued, it is not the feelings that are confused, but you, and you should first figure out what you want, instead of doubting the feelings here.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think we should continue, there is always a period of confusion in love, so two people should communicate well and plan their future life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you feel lost in your relationship, then stop, because two people should have a common goal together, and continue to work towards this goal.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It should be continued. Because the confusion will be temporary, as long as the two of you can go on hand in hand, you will be able to see the moon.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Give up, once you can't find a reason to like each other in a relationship, then you will have no feelings for the relationship, and it will be a waste of time for both parties.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think it should continue, it's normal to be confused, and the two of them can communicate well and plan the future of living together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Go on, confusion is the normal state of life, and so is feelings, which requires two people to communicate well, set a goal together, and strive to improve the state of confusion.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You should stop, and wait until you have figured it out before you decide whether to continue or not. Love is very clear, if you go on in confusion, sooner or later there will be problems.

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