I m just a freshman in high school, and I have a lot on my mind, please enlighten me

There is no banquet in the world, first of all, you have to look at this point, people can't always live in the past, no matter how comfortable you used to live and how many friends you have around, but now you have entered high school and entered high school life. Maybe your adaptability is relatively poor and you are more nostalgic, but no matter what, your former friends can only be remembered in your heart, and you will have to take holidays and contact feelings in the future, what you have to do now is to adapt to life.

You have to take your time to get acquainted with the friends around you, even if you don't know them yet. Friendship is beautiful and precious, but if you don't want to start another friendship and just reminisce about the past, I can only say that you are not mature yet.

Who doesn't have loneliness, who can say that I have always been accompanied by someone, I don't want to say that success is to endure loneliness. But loneliness can be a state of mind, and you can enjoy the beauty of things around you on the way home, instead of the hustle and bustle. You can guess the reason for the happy expressions on the faces of passers-by, you can help the elderly cross the street, and then enjoy your own happiness, the happiness of helping others, you can think about a question that you can't understand, and experience the persistence and fascination of thinking.

About learning, attitude is everything, maybe you don't understand this sentence yet, and I don't need you to understand it now, you just need to remember it. There are many things that you have to experience and verify through your own life. Set the right mindset and listen carefully in class, even if the class is really boring, the teacher is dull and mean, or how to ......A bland mindset is important.

Regarding English, I can only say more, practice more, and do more. There are not many grammatical problems to understand in English, the important thing is the words, the phrases, and some collocations. You can only learn English well if you are familiar with it and understand the differences.

It's best to make a collection of mistakes, you don't need to write every question, but you have to learn to summarize and summarize.

Well, that's all I want to say to you, I wish you a happy life and studies! If you have any questions, come to me, and I will be your unfamiliar backing.

In a new environment, you have to find new friends, and the people in your previous class are not also from strange to familiar

It's better to work hard than to be cranky, so that you can be worthy of your family.

In fact, although the high school course is hard, there are many people who accompany you, be cheerful, and take the initiative to communicate with new classmates, and you will always get acquainted.

Landlord,Actually, this is nothing.,It's just a small episode in life.。 People have to go through these things to grow up slowly! I'm also a person who has come over, and now I'm in my third year of high school, and I was the same as you when I was a freshman in high school, and I was still a boarding student, so I couldn't go home every day like you, and my friends were in other classes....At that time, I also called ** home every day, because I was not used to it.

I can't know the landlord's mood anymore.,It's only a freshman in high school now.,The landlord doesn't have to be like now.,You can communicate with more classmates after studying.,For example, talk about the past with the same table.,Make some friends.,Everyone has a common topic.,You won't feel lonely....

Don't make yourself too nervous, you have to practice your psychological resistance, keep it for the more nervous senior year, and put your mind right! You should think that I can see how happy my family is every day, at least happier than me, hehe!

In fact, you have just entered the first year of high school, and you must not have any classmates you know very well. I'm just like you, I've just entered F1 now, I have two of my primary school classmates who are men, I rarely talk to them, no, I should say I haven't said a word. I don't know any of my classmates.

But I was very proactive, and I met a few friends at the opening ceremony. Now that I'm in school, I've made friends with him. If you want to meet more friends, take the initiative.

Active. Take the initiative to meet friends, not only can you study your homework together, but you may also go to school together! I'm an example of that.

I'm from Hong Kong.

There are also many books to memorize under great pressure to study, which I agree that in Hong Kong F1 you have to take Chinese history, computer literacy, design & technology, enhglish, home economics, imtegrated humanities, mathematics, music, personal growth & critical thinking,putonghua,science,visual arts.It's really stressful.

But think about it, who is the family working so hard for? It's for you, you should study hard. If you are not good at English, you can think of some useful ways to improve it.

You've worked hard for the past few years. After that, it will be easy, and your family will be relaxed. You can't fail, so that you will waste your family's hard work for you to study and my money, are you worthy of your family?

Paying tuition will not be sorry for your family, it is because you have not studied hard after paying the tuition, which is sorry for your family.

Although I miss not seeing my family, you have to work hard for them, and I support you!

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i support you!!

When I graduated from junior high school and entered high school, 40 of the 56 people in my class were in the same school as me, but unfortunately only one was in the same class as me, and it was a classmate who had spoken less than ten sentences in the three years of junior high school. So, it's the same situation as you. At that time, I was in a foreign country (our school is a dormitory for all students), I had no "relatives", and I had just entered high school, and I had no goals, and I would be very confused like you, always thinking that I would not learn to be sorry for my parents, but I didn't know how to start when I learned.

These are all caused by stress, and it's normal.

When I was in junior high school, I thought that my classmates in junior high school were my most precious friends, and when I first entered high school, I would always think back to junior high school because everything was unfamiliar, but gradually, I made friends, found a confidant, and slowly adapted to high school, and found that high school actually had his own unique charm, especially in the third year of high school. Seriously, if I were to go back to my old school days, I would still go back to high school, because it was the only place where I was most fulfilling, where I used to spend my youth and chase my dreams. After graduating from high school, the students really went their separate ways, north to Harbin, south to Haikou, Shanghai, Beijing, Nanchang, Nanjing, Wuxi, as well as Xi'an, Taiyuan, Chongqing, only to find that this is called all brothers in the four seas, this is called the real difference.

These are my feelings as a high school graduate, about to enter a new life, and you have had the same experience, the same feelings, I have survived, why wouldn't you? Believe in yourself, you can.

People always take too much time to recall the past, always talk about the past, and always place their emotions in the tunnel of the past. So you have the psychology of not wanting to grow up, so you have the mentality of not moving forward, the past has passed, it is just a piece of the past, you can remember, but don't indulge, the road ahead is still very long, instead of keeping the lost time, it is better to live every day now, spend too much time to sigh, it is better to take some time to adapt to the present.

In high school, you have to learn to enhance your relationship with your table mates at the end of class, chat casually, don't feel embarrassed, die to study is not suitable for high school, high school just won't be in books, all in some information books, you can go to classmates to borrow information books, and enhance feelings with classmates,

I am from the past, and I have been admitted to the ideal university this year with my own efforts, and I hope mine can help you. I can relate to your sense of despair and helplessness. I went to a third-rate school in junior high school, and I was the first in my class before being admitted to the best high school in our area.

I was 2 points short and was not assigned to a key class, so my dad helped find someone to let me in. When I entered the class, I knew that I was the second to last in our class, and I was blindsided at that time, and I didn't know how to deal with the classmates in the class, especially since there were several people in the class who knew me, but didn't know each other well, and there was even one I hated. Because it was in a key class, the people around me were studying hard, and no one spoke, and I didn't have anyone to talk after class, so I had to study hard.

It was a very depressing time, crying every day, thinking that I was sorry for my family and thinking about how I was so backward. This lasted for 2 months, and then I slowly got acquainted, and I realized that the key class was really fun. There is no such thing as indifference as expected.

Most of them live on campus and I go to school, so I didn't have a lot of communication at first. So little sister [you should be a girl] don't be too sad, you will definitely have good friends, don't suppress yourself too much, high school is not as scary as you think, really, you will learn to accept some things that you can't change. In fact, when people are frustrated, they will love their family members very much, and even have the urge to cry when they think of themselves.

That's normal, that's why you have to work harder to make them live a good life. You say your English is not good, I'll teach you a way. Read your textbooks, learn a lesson, mark them with the word "positive", and keep reading.

Read it at least five times. When I was in my senior year of high school, I read it 7 times for one semester. You may not think it will be of much use at first, but trust me, you will find that your efforts will pay off in the future.

I just said to your parents that you were a little bit of a concern. Which young lady.

I'm just a freshman in high school. I don't dare to lose with my parents if I have something on my mind, which young lady can chat with me? What should your own parents not say to them?

Because he is the father and mother who gave birth to you and raised you, they have nothing to say to him. After all, it is your parent, and he will be good for you. He won't give you anything to lose.

So I have to communicate with my parents about something.

What's wrong brother, let the senior sister enlighten you.

People are two-sided. It's normal, but how many people show their true selves in front of others. But it is true that there should be one or two friends who can talk, friends who really know everything about you, although it is difficult to have one.

This way you can say what is on your mind and don't have to hold back. If you really don't trust someone, just say it to your favorite pet. The main thing is to confide.

It's also normal to cry. The main thing is that some things can't be solved even if they are said. I can only have a good time.

I've read a phrase that probably means something like this. Pretending to be happy has become a habit, and being unhappy is also happy. What are you bothering about?

Maybe you're just not good at expressing yourself, don't take too much alone, you're not superhuman, you're just a person. Learn to share your thoughts with others, and you'll be better.

As the old saying goes: Joy and anger are invisible, but it does not mean that there are no feelings, and it is good for you to express them properly.

In such an economic trend, I will not be sympathized, I close myself in my world, sad, sad, and painful to bear by myself, and endure it. Because I know that only pain can heal. When the injury healed, I woke up from the dream.

I'm going to find my real self and start from where I started, believing that the real me has just set off for its destination.

I think you and I are really similar, always disguise yourself so well, that in the end, I can't tell which is the real self, and I will always be cheerful and lively in front of others, but no one knows the troubles in my heart, and I have nowhere to say. In fact, sometimes, you should also open the protective shell to breathe, otherwise you will be too tired to live.

And sometimes you shouldn't care too much about what other people think. Be brave and go your own way.

Well, I do that sometimes, too. Not crying in front of others is a way to protect yourself. I just don't really want people to see my vulnerable side.

It can only be said that you will always wronged yourself to fulfill others, and you are a good person outside, but in fact, you also need to care. It would be better to say something in the future!

Don't hold it in your heart, find an empty and unoccupied place, listen to songs, read books, run, roar a few times, and soothe your mood, it will be better.

It's the same as me, but sometimes it's better to vent.

I recommend you read a book on psychology. It's useful, I'm just watching.

Man lives for himself.

The grasp of knowledge points needs to be repeated and mastered regularly according to the rhythm of the teacher. It's normal that synthesis won't do now. Don't worry, study hard.

As for family issues, don't take it personally. It's good to study wholeheartedly. There are always troughs in life, and going out is the peak.

First of all, what you think about is not learning, but adjusting your mentality, calmly looking at the things around you, don't let the things around you affect you, you will be well involved in learning, look at everything a little, everyone will encounter some bad things, at this time we should be strong to face!! Listen to **, talk to your friends, it will be better to divert your attention, and you will forget to do the questions related to your mentality, but also related to the method, just practice more.