If someone betrayed you, was someone betrayed you?

If there is love, there will be hate, but on the other hand, is it necessary to care so much? What is your love transformed into hate? Think for yourself?

Just because of her playfulness? Just because of her first time? Is it necessary to care so much?

Find someone who loves herself, find someone she loves, how difficult it is, forgive what is worthy of forgiveness, I don't think she wants to do this, cherish it, so as not to regret it in the future.

If you really like her, you won't care about this, but he doesn't necessarily really love you, how can he be with other men if he loves you I think he came to be nice to you when someone else was hurt or lonely, and you are angry that he is with someone else now, isn't it Even if you get married together, then his past will be a shadow for your life, if you just want to play with him, it's okay.

If you really like her, you won't care about that, it's a big deal to beat that guy. Good luck!

Maybe she shouldn't have told you what happened.

Calm down. It must not be married, girlfriend. Is she really your future wife?

You don't really love her either.

One another and each other.

If you love her, why bother.

If you mind, you will break up happily.

Do you really love her.

If you really loved her, would you say something like that?

There must be, who hasn't been betrayed.

Depending on the situation, in the face of a person who betrayed me in my life, I would depend on the situation, because trusting a person tends to believe in all of him.

If this betrayal is well-intentioned, or if there are some ulterior reasons, then go and find out more. If you judge that the person is not half-hearted about himself, then of course he can be forgiven. If the opposite is the case, and the person is just disguising his usual behavior and has been brewing in his heart how to betray you, then this betrayal is not worthy of forgiveness.

The ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, "It is impossible for a man to step into the same river twice" is justified. This means that people cannot make the same mistakes, and if a person betrays you out of malice, then you cannot forgive him, otherwise he will repeat the mistake again and again.

What's worse is that he sees your kindness as weak, even crushed, and will cause you more damage.

Sometimes, people who are too honest tend to be taken advantage of by others. Being too honest is stupid, and being too kind is considered weak. After all, in this era of fierce competition, many times honest people are tolerant and humble, he doesn't seem to have any opinions, and he doesn't know how to refuse, so he is at the mercy of others.

So, when necessary, you have to show your personality and guts.

There are often such things in life, when you kindly forgive the person who betrayed you, forgive him for the first time, he will cry with gratitude and be good to you; But the second time, he would only faintly say thank you; After many times, he will not hesitate to think that you should forgive him, otherwise he will think that you are too stingy.

This is the so-called grievance, such a person cannot forgive him in the first place, let alone give him a chance to hurt you again. You should wipe him out of your circle and stop talking to him.

There are people who are close to you, not because they respect you or see you as a friend, they just treat you as a step, step on your head if necessary, and betray you at any time.

Some people have softer hearts. When others beg him, he thinks about others and makes some unrealistic fantasies, even thinking that the other party will be lost, know that he is wrong, and never do it again. This psychology belongs to the likable character.

Over time, your kindness may not be exchanged for the sincerity of others, but it may be exchanged for the contempt of others. Your forgiveness may not be reciprocated, but it may hurt. Your kindness ends up hurting yourself, but your tolerance turns into indulgence.

So, once you don't think the other person deserves to be forgiven, then you can express your feelings directly.

Some people just like to bully people, and when you learn to retaliate, they will respect you and even fear you.

The more I experience, the more I believe this sentence, and there is nothing wrong with being ruthless. As the saying goes, no one shall offend me, I shall not offend anyone, and I shall not tolerate anyone who offends me.