What would you do if someone maliciously slandered you, causing others to target you?

Updated on society 2024-04-24
4 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think that if it is someone who is in constant contact with me, I will not hesitate to tell the truth at the appropriate time when they target me, so that they can understand what is going on, so as to prevent future incidents against me, and I also believe that with more contact, they will understand what kind of person I am; And for people who don't come into contact often, just let them go, you won't be able to interact in the future, whatever they say, maybe you deliberately explain it to make them think that you are quibbling.

    When I was not married, I encountered one such thing, which was the malicious slander of my mother-in-law. At that time, I dated my boyfriend for a while and began to discuss the matter of engagement and marriage, and their family took the initiative to say that they had bought a house without asking, and the down payment was 300,000, and one of my relatives felt that since they took the initiative to say, after all, it is not a place and do not know the roots, and they can't say how much is how much, so they proposed to look at their real estate agreement, and then found that the down payment was only 200,000, and my family was a little dissatisfied with his parents at that time, Parents can talk nonsense on such a big matter, and it seems that their character is not very good, so the engagement was delayed.

    Later, when I went to his uncle's restaurant for dinner, his uncle drank too much and said to me in front of many people, saying that it was because of 100,000 yuan or something, anyway, it was all kinds of things that said about me, he drank too much, and I didn't say much at that time.

    Later, I found out that his mother told people everywhere that the engagement was not done because he asked for a lot of money, and he had to ask them for 100,000 yuan, so many people thought I was the kind of person who was very powerful, and later after his uncle woke up, I also told him the truth, as for other people, let them feel what they want.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    <> ignore their existence. I see them as air for the little ones. But they will still be plotting against you.

    But I don't know, so I pretend I don't know anything about what black-eyed methods they use. Then they will be triumphant, as if they have won. But I remained silent, and gradually they felt that all their tricks were useless to me.

    So I slowly forgot about it. Or find a way to partner up to bully another person. When I was a kid, I was ostracized by my classmates.

    I don't know why I somehow became the target of bullying by other girls. Maybe my academic performance was relatively poor at that time, and even the teacher didn't want to see me. Therefore, those students who study well and those who look down on others always deliberately target me.

    At that time, if you find a classmate to play with after class, you can be snatched away by someone else's playmate. And those bad boys say to others: don't play with people like her, or others won't play with you in the future.

    I felt wronged at the time. How can you target me like that. I didn't steal, I didn't rob, I didn't fight, I just studied poorly, can I do this to me?!

    Later, my academic performance improved. It wasn't until I was in high school that I got the first place in my grade, and I look back and think about those female classmates who used to bully me, dropouts who dropped out of school, and who got bad grades. It's not my life as wonderful as it gets!

    It's called seeing who has the last laugh. Later, when I went to college, I still met a few rich kids who loved to bully honest people. But I never provoke them.

    But people just watch you flatulence, so even if you don't provoke them, they will maliciously exclude you and slander you. So when I was in college, I went to the library every day to read books, and I didn't bother to fight with those people. Over time, their interest in you has faded.

    began to rectify other girls who were easy to bully. So for those villains, there's really no need to worry about anything with them. After graduation, they all go their separate ways, and no one needs anyone, so there is no need to tear their faces with them in order to prove their innocence.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Legal basis: or Wang "Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China" Article 200 Ruyun 46 Whoever openly insults others or fabricates facts to slander others by violence or other means, and the circumstances are serious, is to be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, short-term detention, controlled release, or deprivation of political rights.

    The crimes in the preceding paragraph are to be dealt with only if they are told, except where they seriously endanger social order and national interests.

    Where the victim complains to the people's court about the conduct provided for in the first paragraph through the information network, but it is truly difficult to provide evidence, the people's court may request that the public security organs provide assistance.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Summary. Hello dear, if others slander you or slander you, you can consider the following:1

    Stay calm: Don't lose self-control because of what others say, staying calm allows you to think and respond more clearly. 2.

    Gather evidence: If possible, try to gather evidence to prove your innocence, which can make others realize the truth. 3.

    Conversational communication: You can try to find the other party to communicate and communicate to understand the cause and solve the problem. Dialogue allows both parties to deal with issues more rationally.

    4.Seek help: If the situation is serious, you can seek legal or other human resources support and help to protect your rights and reputation.

    What to do when others slander you and slander you.

    Hello dear, if others slander you or slander you, you can consider the following:1Stay calm:

    Don't lose self-control because of what others say, staying calm allows you to think and respond more clearly. 2.Gather Evidence:

    If possible, try to gather evidence to prove your innocence, which can make others realize the truth. 3.Conversational Communication:

    You can try to find the other person to communicate and communicate to understand the cause and solve the problem. Dialogue allows both parties to deal with issues more rationally. 4.

    Seek help: If Luliang's condition is serious, you can seek legal or other human resources support and help to protect your rights and reputation.

    Relevant laws and regulations: Article 995 of the Civil Code: Where personality rights are infringed, the victim has the right to request that the perpetrator bear civil liability in accordance with the provisions of this Law and other legal deficiencies. The provisions of the statute of limitations do not apply to the victim's right to request cessation of infringement, removal of obstacles, elimination of danger, elimination of impact, restoration of reputation, and formal apology.

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