I wanted to communicate with him, but he kept running away

My boyfriend always avoids communication, how can I get him to take the initiative to communicate with me?

Personally, I think that marriage is a lifetime, there is no way to maintain so long by love alone, there will always be some contradictions and frictions between two people living together, and they need to understand and tolerate each other, if these two people's living habits and personalities are very different, it will lead to more contradictions, when the contradictions are beyond the scope of each other's tolerance, even if they love each other again, it will be a pain to live together.

Does LZ feel that the differences in your lives are within the limits of what you can tolerate for a long time?

I think your boyfriend seems to think it's not right, otherwise why would he keep saying that you weren't suitable? Isn't this a sign of wanting to marry you, maybe it's just to comfort you when he says he likes you, he said he would rather give up, it's a tactful breakup request, he has given up, if he cares about you, he won't ignore you, he won't say this kind of thing, he's very sensible, and he doesn't say angry words, so I think it's not deep enough to divide it as soon as possible.

He did not want to escalate the contradictions. The guy usually reacts this way because he doesn't think there's any need to reason with you. He has a passive, calming attitude. He thinks that as long as you let you, nothing will happen.

Actually, this kind of boy is very good, do you like to tell you all the truth, let you understand him, and slowly change you?

He's like this because he likes you, so cherish it.

It's not that men deliberately avoid you, it's that they don't like the subject. Because they can't talk to their hearts like girls. A good man can't describe love in words. You have to understand.

Seems like I do that sometimes!! It should be a man's impatience in his heart, but in fact, he is not comfortable!!

Personally, I think that people who can listen to others are people with very high emotional intelligence, and such people can easily become the core and backbone of the team, and it is easy to win the respect and trust of others.

Listen, be focused, listen to what others are saying, and speak up when needed.

When someone talks to you, listen with sincerity, make eye contact and respond with appropriate facial expressions, such as nodding slightly where you understand to let the other person know that you are interested.

It shouldn't be that I love you too much, if two people really love each other, they won't distinguish between right and wrong at all, and it's okay to think that the other party will always be right.

Skills used to communicate with others using text, language, body language, etc. Communication skills involve many aspects, such as simplifying the use of language, active listening, valuing feedback, controlling emotions, and more. While having communication skills doesn't mean being an effective manager, a lack of communication skills can lead to many troubles and obstacles for managers.

Both parties calm down for a while and allow time to prove if the two are really right together.

You're doing it right!!

If a person (male or female, romantic or lover) has no courage (or etiquette) to connect, can such a person still be trusted?

Staying away from such people is only the first step, the real contempt in the heart is the most fundamental!!

Love and marriage are really two different things. You can give him some time to figure it out. If you want to continue, then there are some problems that must be said and solved, and if you want to divide it, there is no way, to be honest, long-distance relationships cannot last long.

If you want to be together. It's better to have one side to sacrifice.

His love is idealistic, and he only talks about love and does not have to be responsible, which is a person who is afraid of being responsible, and he is not responsible.

Ask him why''Some people have something they don't want to say'Personality issues'He loves you'So worthy of your love'You're not going to love someone who doesn't love you''''That's not worth it'Ask what exactly is going wrong between you'

Look at what type of man he belongs to, in fact, men are also quite tired, so let's briefly say: first, if a man regards work as more important than you, then does he really have you in his heart? Second, what does he work for?

In the real society, men are very tired, because of love, they can give up their jobs, but if they give up their jobs, what will they do to support their wives and children? Maybe you should talk to him and learn more about what he thinks in his heart, there is no harm in this, instead of asking for help from netizens, because not everyone's answer will be the same, so when you see different answers, maybe you begin to shake your determination to continue to walk with him, you think more and more, you also feel tired, and then for this painstaking love, slowly become powerless, the contradiction comes out, you quarrel, the relationship can no longer be maintained, do you want such an ending? Do you want to break both of them?

I'm not really denying asking netizens for help, it's just that these answers are just references, you have to think with your heart, and you shouldn't be hesitant by the answers. If I say something wrong, I hope you can understand, and may you grow old with him.

The ultimate point of love is to get married, and if you don't aim to get married, you're a hooligan.

Sometimes the practical reason is really helpless! My girlfriend and I were the same and later broke up!

Break up decisively, don't hurt yourself, at least you can't give up working in a different place

Since he thought he was letting go....Why should you cling to the love that doesn't belong to you?

What do you think...Long-distance relationship? Don't you feel like there's something else in between!

According to your account.

What I think is that he is a person who does not attach much importance to feelings. Especially now that you're in a relationship.

He just wanted to do something. He thought to himself that it was not so real, it was in a dream, and there was one more that was lost. Very irresponsible performance.

There is no way, if there is a way, then cut his connection. Why do I say that, he is too casual to reach a better state of affection. The sense of responsibility is not very good.

Forget him, give up this relationship that is not worth nostalgia, and look for a more responsible and affectionate one. I can be with myself for a lifetime.

Have a nice day. The happiness that can arise newly.

Can online dating be reliable? Can online dating be reliable? Can online dating be reliable?

Your relationship is unreliable, not to mention that you are gathering less and leaving more, and you don't believe it when you think about it, the boy said, break up or not break up as you like, what is the message this shows? Needless to say, you know that, right? He doesn't care about you at all, you say?

How many online datings shed tears? How many online lovers are sad? Online love online dating, love is like a mess on the Internet, who understands the taste, it's just a game of dreams!

If he can date you online, he can have sex with others! You know that he is with someone else, what else do you have to be nostalgic for! It's a long-distance relationship again, it's unlikely! It is recommended that you break up!

Calm down for a while, cool down your feelings, calm down, and then decide.

Because of his current attitude, you can't do anything, and the more you rush to solve it, the worse the result will be. Many things can only be seen clearly when they are put aside first.

There is space between two people, you can't keep staring at him, and according to what you say, I personally feel that he doesn't like you anymore. There is also the possibility that he has something very upset. Since you can't communicate, give each other a period of time and set a deadline for yourself, for example, separate for a month, don't make a message, don't do anything, see if you let go, and see how the other party reacts.

If the other party takes the initiative to find you, you should calmly talk to the other party about where the problem is. Boys are most afraid of girls staring like kraft candy, if you don't stare at him, he will stare at you, or the first sentence, a certain amount of space between two people should be appropriately reserved.

Probably changed his mind、Really、

You say that he has a stupid mouth, but if he really doesn't have an affair with other girls, he will definitely chase you to explain, instead of annoying you and ignoring you.

You're so dependent on him that you're afraid of losing her now. I can't do without him, he told you not to call him ** often, how can the average boyfriend say that?

Think about it, maybe you should leave him. Have a good time yourself.

Online dating is more romantic for people of our age, but what about after romance? Ordinary love will be as brilliant as fireworks and disappear in an instant, not to mention a relationship like yours, don't be stupid, when the other party says that you want to give you more space, it proves that you are off track step by step, instead of forcing him to continue to love you, it is better to find someone who really loves you and you are worth paying during this time, so it is practical! People often say romantic, but what about after romance?

Isn't it still a life of rice, oil and salt? Let's be realistic, the perfect love story in a fairy tale is never around, you can fantasize about it, but you must not think of it as the whole of life!

In fact, long-distance relationships are not very easy to maintain, since you said that he doesn't care about breaking up, it means that your status in his heart can be almost gone, but after so many years, there should be feelings without love, or do something, see if you can impress him, if you don't succeed in trying again, then there is no need to bother with him.

He was clearly with that girl. I don't want you to call him all the time. He will call you when he needs you.

He's leaning towards that girl.

Don't be nostalgic. This kind of man can't be relied on for a lifetime.

Divide it, divide it. You bring it up yourself.

Little sister, you are very naïve, and you must be very beautiful, but you can't believe anything on the Internet, let alone about lifelong events, you are too sloppy. I advise you to leave him. He may not be the only one for you.

Don't be stupid, many men nowadays take advantage of the naivety and innocence of little girls. Don't believe it anymore. Quick, find a boy who really loves you in reality, there is still time.

Disclaimer: I didn't say that there are no real feelings on the Internet, you have to see what kind of man he is in reality.

It's just an online dating! You can't take it too seriously! Most of the people on the Internet are playing, so you can't take it too seriously! Let's divide it! Try to know a good one in reality, forget about this, this is the best way, thank you.

I've been talking for three years, and I don't have the feeling of first love anymore, my feelings are slowly fading, and I don't care about you anymore.

Don't be nostalgic for your own flowers, not good flowers, give up, there will be better waiting for you.

I have also had the feeling of being anxious when I want to communicate well, but I always don't cooperate.

Forget it, this kind of man has nothing to cherish, if he loves you, he won't play ambiguously everywhere on the Internet....

Such a person gives up, and the pain is not short.

If you don't give up, there will definitely be no less such things in the future.

Indeed,Well,It's been so long, it's hard to be in a different place.,It's hard and hard.,Life is realistic.。

Don't get this kind of person! Give it up @

How can you be the same as my boyfriend, why is the man like this, I'm so annoyed, I'm so annoying, the landlord should decide quickly.

How can you be as miserable and mournful as me?

Withdrawn people are often in a state of isolation, unable to maintain normal social relations with others, lonely, loner, and have a kind of boredom, guarding, and contempt for others. So if you're just not good at talking, it's not necessarily withdrawn, people who are really withdrawn are self-imprisoned, they are indifferent to things that have nothing to do with them, and they are often careless and perfunctory when interacting with other people. Sometimes it looks very active, but it gives people a very contrived feeling, as if it is a little neurotic.

Do you see, withdrawn people are inherently not very interested in building good relationships with others, they may feel that everyone is hypocritical, there is no sincerity between people, etc. Causing a person's withdrawn personality, mainly by the negative impact of the acquired environment, when the psychology is in a depressed state for a long time, it will be distorted, there are also many ** withdrawn people have psychological defects, more is the divorce of the family, so that they have congenital defects since childhood, for this kind of people, their hearts are more eager for "love" whether it is friendship, or love, or family affection, is what they crave the most!

Like a boy, the person is very good, has always had a crush on you, but his personality is withdrawn, he is very passive in communicating and even can't escape, he can't communicate directly, if you really like him, you also think that others are good, he also likes you, you can date for a period of time Personality can be changed, his personality may be a little introverted, and after a long time with you, his personality will become cheerful.

This boy has a crush on you, and if you really like him, confess it to him, and hint at it. Look at what you said, he is introverted, shy in the face of the girls he likes, and not good at communicating. Then you must be his first love, he is very withdrawn, maybe it has something to do with the family environment in which he grew up.

You get along with him, go into his heart, understand him, care for him, help him, make him no longer withdrawn, and are willing to communicate with you. Let's act, sincerity to the golden stone for the open.

It's a matter of his character. This kind of person may be very good to you. It's just a one-sided issue.

Communication is difficult and lacks communication. Living with this kind of person makes you feel very depressed and tired. Although he has a crush on you, but.

You don't have to be happy. Find someone with a cheerful personality so that you will feel. Life is full of sunshine and there is happiness every day.

It is advisable for you to give up such a person so that you do not regret it in the future. Personality determines a lot of questions. A good character is important for a person, it is also important for a family, and it can even affect the next generation.