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First of all, finding someone else to marry is not so quick to find. If you find it, you have to get along for a while. And if you don't care about this boyfriend, can you divide it?

Make sure you can find it again, 1 point if he cares about you, some problems will be solved, and you can also get married. If he doesn't care, you can find Ben to get married.

Feelings are cultivated, there is no ready-made, take your time! Otherwise, a lot of opportunities will be missed.

There is really no one to choose, look for me, haha, just kidding, marriage is not the same as falling in love, be cautious and cautious, I'd rather not get married, don't get married and then regret it, and then talk about it when you see someone.

I suggest you don't get married now, whether it's with your boyfriend or someone else, your current state is not suitable for marriage at all, wait until you think about everything clearly, divorced women are very cheap.

Since I'm not sure, why did I say yes in the first place?

It's not that you want a sense of stability, it's that your mind isn't at all at all.

Deciding to go from falling in love to getting married with someone is actually a very important choice.

Now it's a situation where you are afraid of marriage or you simply don't want to.

If you're not ready to settle down in life, think again.

Don't regret it until the moment you get married.

This will hurt even more.

It's realistic for women to get older. But sometimes happiness needs to wait, and getting married in a hurry may not bring good results, so manage your relationship with your boyfriend, and it will blossom when the time comes. Bless you.

It's better to think about getting married, because it's not your business alone, it's a matter for two families.

There will be a lot more responsibilities invisibly, and if you haven't figured out whether you can take it on now, let's calm down first.

If the relationship with your boyfriend is okay, cherish it. If you get married just for a sense of security, you may not be happy, many things are feelings, and if you don't feel it, you really can't do it.

Respect everyone's choice, and don't regret your choice!

Why are people in the past willing to get married and find the right foundation to change the foundation, but now men think that finding a partner and marrying now is a burden and a luxury?

Voice of the Heart: Hello, I think that people in the past were willing to marry and find a partner, because in the past era, people's lives were generally monotonous. Moreover, the material is relatively scarce, and the spiritual life is relatively poor. But the price is low!

Therefore, most people will want to get rid of loneliness and loneliness, and the price of marriage is not too high, and they will not be burdened with a high mortgage, or a car loan. At that time, the standard of living was limited, so I was very willing to get married and find a partner.

But nowadays men are not at all wrong with finding a partner and getting married as a burden, even a luxury. Because now when men get married, women open their mouths to ask for cars and houses, and men really can't afford it, so it's better to be single. And the current price of goods is too high, and the cost of marriage is too high, so most young people would rather be single than get married.

Voice of the Heart: First of all, I don't know what your relationship with this woman is, is it a relationship between a couple or a lover? If it's a couple's relationship, then I don't think women love to lie, no normal person loves to lie.

She's just getting some benefit by lying, and she may also take advantage of your feelings.

If you are in a relationship, and this woman loves to lie, and when you expose his lies, and he doesn't admit that there will be more reasons to lie, then I think it's better not to continue with him.

And let me say it again, this woman must have gained a sense of security and happiness from other places, other channels, and other men. And you actually got money here, maybe you always gave him money to spend, and then he had a new love, so he cheated on you, this is my personal guess.

In the past, the way people pursued happiness was too simple, and the only way was to get married.

Hello. Because the pressure of life is relatively high now, and it is difficult for some people to solve the problem of food and clothing, this is also a very normal thing.

In the past, I got married because everyone was poor and needed a certain amount of mutual assistance, so I didn't resist getting married, but now my personal life is more comfortable than getting married, who is still married.

Because people in the past were innocent and emotional, now they are all buying and selling marriages!

The thinking is different, and the social environment is different.

Yes, my boyfriend cares about me very much, and he always fights to do housework and doesn't let me get tired, I feel very warm in my heart.

No, the current boyfriend has a very bad shortcoming, that is, he is very unkind to his parents, which makes people feel very uncomfortable. I wouldn't marry someone who was bad to both of my parents.

Yes, because my current boyfriend is very good to his parents, he is also very filial, and he also cares about himself, such a boy is worthy of my love.

No, because now I think he is particularly irresponsible, he doesn't work hard, he is in a state of decadence, such a person is not what I want, and he can't give me happiness.

No, it depends on whether you are sincere and enter into marriage with me, if not, forget it, get together and disperse, goodbye indefinitely.

I don't think so, I don't know if it depends on his character and attitude towards people, if it's appropriate, I'll still consider marrying my current boyfriend.

Yes, I don't plan to do it anyway, it depends on whether both parents agree, if you want to, you can get married, if you don't want to, you won't get married.

Yes. He is very good, very considerate to people, very filial to his elders, is an upright and affectionate person, although he is not the kind of person who has a lot of money, but he has a lot of brains, and the most important thing is that I love him.

No, we are still in love now, and we haven't thought about the future yet, and it's too early to talk about marriage.

Yes. Because he takes good care of me, I love him very much, and we can't live without each other, so I will definitely marry him.

Yes, because it gives me the feeling of home. For marriage, it is best for the other party to have a sense of "home" in your opinion, and to find a sense of peace of mind and responsibility in the other party.

I'm definitely going to get married, after all, it's been more than 5 years, although there have been quarrels, but I still feel very happy, he really cares about me, very good, takes care of me, feels sorry for me, shares the housework for me, I think we already know each other very well, we all face difficulties together, no one escapes reality.

Will marry him because I found out that he especially wants to marry me.

Men want to marry you:

1. Whether there are you in the man's future plan.

If a man really wants to marry you and wants you to be his bride, he will have a part of your existence in his future plans.

If, when you ask your boyfriend what his future holds, he doesn't want to answer, or makes excuses not to answer, then he is running away from the question, or he hasn't thought about how he will be with you. If you weren't considered in the future, what would you talk to him about the future?

2. Whether you are willing to take you to meet family and friends.

A man, if he really wants to marry you, he will take you home at the right time and let his family and friends see you. Let your family see you so that you can be accepted by your parents, and at the same time tell your parents that this is the person I love, and I have plans to marry her, so I brought her to meet you.

And to take you to meet his friends is to let his friends know you, bring you into their circle, and enter his life more. If he doesn't have such thoughts, then girl, don't be too stupid.

I'm going to marry your current boyfriend.

My boyfriend meets these conditions to get married:

1. Whether our three views are the same.

It is no exaggeration to say that marriage and love are two different things, when you are in love, you may not have many opportunities to be together, and there are relatively few issues to discuss, and there may be great differences in the work or circle of friends you are engaged in.

But after the union, the lives of two people are basically integrated together, this time, if your three views are different, it is easy to have disagreements, and over time, the relationship will also break down, and in serious cases, it will lead to divorce.

2. He is a kind person.

Kindness is an important criterion for judging whether a man is suitable for dating, a kind man, no matter how bad he is, he will not be so bad that he will know how to pay attention to proportion no matter what he does.

The most important thing is that a kind man can give warmth and care, and knows how to think about you. Of course, you will also know how to empathize, love the house and Wu, and at the same time be good to you, and your family and friends will also get along well. When you meet such a man, of course the marriage is happy!

My current boyfriend is very good to me, and I will walk into the palace of marriage with him.

Yes, I have been with my current boyfriend for several years, and we are very stable in each other's development, and we will get married.

Yes, the family is suitable, the three views are in line, and all aspects show that this can marry this man.

Yes, he has a good character, has potential, and is still the person I love, I will definitely marry him.

Yes, the parents of both parties have already met, and the wedding date has been set.

Yes, because I like it and the two of them are very suitable.

If the two families meet well, they will marry him.

Of course it will, if you don't want to marry him, why be with him, youth can't stand the drain.

Yes, I think he is very nice to me and is responsible and self-motivated.

If there are no accidents, yes, we are going in this direction.

Indeed, we men will have a very different mentality when considering a marriage partner than when looking for a girlfriend before. After all, girlfriends can be changed often, and we can often lose contact, but marriage is a major event that affects our lives, and in case of divorce, our life trajectory will fluctuate greatly!

So what are the differences between men when considering a marriage partner compared to finding a girlfriend before? Let me, the one who came over, talk to you about our thoughts

One: Can you live?

To tell the truth, when we are looking for a girlfriend, we can't just have spiritual comfort and physical happiness, as long as two people can be happy together. But when looking for a marriage partner, we can't think about it so simply! What we have to do most is whether the other party can live and whether they will live!

When we fall in love with our girlfriends, as long as everyone is happy, no matter how much money we talk about, we won't feel distressed. But after this marriage, it is different, which one of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea does not cost money! If we marry a lavish wife, we won't have to eat soil for two weeks every month!

Also, when we look for a girlfriend, we generally value each other's appearance and figure. If the girlfriend is very good-looking, then we must have a lot of face when we take it out; In the same way, if your girlfriend's body is hot, we are sure to be happy! But when we are considering a marriage partner, what appearance and figure are all floating clouds, and being able to live is more important than anything else!

Of course, if the other party is good-looking and has a good figure, we will definitely not mind!

Two: economic problems!

We also consider financial issues when looking for a girlfriend, after all, it is difficult to support yourself with the little salary you pay every month, how can you still have the money to support your girlfriend. But the financial issues we consider when we consider who to marry are even more realistic!

First of all, we have to think about buying a house! You also know that the current housing price is like taking an elevator on a rocket, and it scares us so much that we don't dare to get married! Who thought about this when looking for a girlfriend in the past, at most, it was only the hotel money of 100 yuan a night.

And then there's the bigger economic issue, and that's the bride price! When you fall in love with your girlfriend, the most you can do is to buy a bill for dinner and usually give a small gift or something, so how much can you talk about! But when we consider a marriage partner, we must face the reality of the bride price!

After all, if you can't afford the bride price, you can't marry a daughter-in-law!

Three: Mental problems!

When looking for a girlfriend, we only need to consider whether the other person can have fun with us; However, when we are thinking about who to marry, the other party's mental problems are particularly important!

For example, when your marriage partner is a teenager who hasn't played enough and has a wild mind, then the other party is not suitable for marriage. After all, after marriage, two people have to behave in the world together and face ups and downs, how can an immature person face all this calmly!

If we find a person with a healthy and mature mind, it will be different, not only can two people go through hardships together, but it will also be of great help to children's education in the future.

Looking for a girlfriend is just for fun, pleasing to the eye, it's good if it's not ugly, but looking for a marriage partner, that's a very serious issue, men will consider whether they will keep a house, whether they like it or not, they must buy it, what is the quality of this person.

Don't move us above, you're you, you don't know who you are, it's like two hundred and fifty or eighty thousand.