How to tactfully reject a boy with a high score bounty

From your problem, I don't know very well where you are now. However, it can be seen that you are a kind-hearted girl.

In fact, rejecting a person is an art, too direct, it will hurt the self-esteem of others, and even make him collapse, and psychological distortion will pose a threat to his personal safety. is too tactful, and it will make him pestering endlessly and get himself into trouble.

1. You can attribute the rejection of him to your own character.

Saying that he is a person who likes to talk about love by feeling, if he doesn't feel at first, no matter how good he is, it is impossible to develop.

2. The rejection of him can be attributed to his type.

Say that he is not the type you like, and he is also a person who is not good at changing for others, and he doesn't like to change others, so that others lose their own characteristics, and the twisted melon is not sweet, if it is not the attraction of the essence, you will not be tempted.

3. You can attribute the rejection of him to the heart.

Say that you have someone else in your heart, and you can't pretend to be someone else. It's corny, but sometimes it works.

A man is a kind of fantasy animal, remember to treat this kind of thing, don't be too soft-hearted, a moment of soft-heartedness, often causes more serious damage, if he really likes you, he understands things very well, he will understand, your cruelty now, is for the good of each other.

I hope my words can help you. I can't say I'm an expert in emotional matters, I can only say that I've been sick for a long time.

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It depends on what kind of person he is, and how much he likes you.

The usual way is: I'm sorry, I don't want to be in a relationship right now. (If you want to work hard or study hard, you can choose one.) )

Don't say anything, in fact you're good, you can find better girls and things like that, it's too fake, but it makes him think it's his own problem.

Let him be your brother

Let's do it like this, and we should be careful if we have to abuse this trick, and if we want to abuse this trick, we will use it if it is really good, and we will refuse it bluntly.

Not such a question. I'm a boy, and I'm telling you that if you don't like it, you don't like to tell people. Don't make a whole family of people really hurt their self-esteem. Don't say anything, you're a good person, etc. This sentence hurts the most self-esteem.

Caring so much about this boy's emotions, hehe, do you want to consider accepting him?

It's still because of a colleague's reason that it's not easy to refuse.

It is recommended to keep a good distance and not give boys some illusions, so I think it is the best way. Then it's a matter of time

I'm sorry, I only see you as a brother, I also hope we are good friends, I hope you can find a better girl than me!

The fate between us has not yet arrived, but you are a good person, be my brother".

Being friends is more suitable for us than being boyfriend and girlfriend.

You're a good person, and you can find a better one than I have.

Did you accept him? It's not suitable, I don't want to be in a relationship right now, or I haven't liked anyone.

I'm sorry I'm not interested in men.

Hello: First of all, I would like to tell you that when we grow up, we will face a lot of rejection. But refusal is methodical, there are things to refuse directly, sometimes indirectly, and sometimes there is a need for euphemistic refusal. It depends on the situation.

Here are a few ways you can do this:

1.If someone expresses affection for you and you have no feelings for him, you have to politely decline while trying to preserve the other person's self-esteem. In order to reduce the psychological damage caused by rejection to the other party and make it easier for the other party to accept, it is necessary to try to maintain the psychological balance of the other party and minimize the inner frustration of the other party.

You can do this by complimenting the other person on their looks, character, or whatever. Then say the reasons why you can't accept it.

Of course, the reasons should be appropriate and try to be realistic. It is best to benefit each other, such as how you are not good, how you will suffer when we are together, etc. Put the bad side on your own.

This method is more suitable for the other party is a very particular person, he understands what you mean, he will not hate you anymore, and at the same time he himself maintains his own self-esteem.

2.If someone is always pestering you when you don't agree, then you have to resolutely refuse. This should not be a deterrent.

Because if your answer is not firm enough, it will make the other party misunderstand and think that you are testing him, causing the other party to pestering you all the time. To such people you can say: "I'm sorry, I really don't have feelings for you, please don't come to harass me again in the future, thank you."

This method is mainly suitable for some unconscious people.

3.Let me tell you again, if you reject a person, try to have less contact with the other party after refusal, you can distance yourself from him, deliberately stay away from him, and don't let him have any illusions about you. Especially when he asks you to hang out, you have to find a more reasonable reason to refuse.

The above is my summary, I hope it will be helpful to you.

Tell him directly that he will wait until he enters the university! I believe he can appreciate your good intentions!! You're a good girl, if he respects you, he'll do what you want!! Wishing you happiness!

Directly refusing to him, not giving him hope, is the best to let him go, believe me, I have experienced pain, that kind of dispensable hope, it is too uncomfortable, since we can't be together, let each other go.

I'm usually embarrassed that I have someone I like, and I'm embarrassed that I have a boyfriend.

I don't want to deal with objects right now, when I haven't gotten objects yet. Leave this aside for now.

Let's just say I don't want to talk about it now. And remember, since you refused, don't go to him when you're lonely.

Sorry, you are good, I know.

But I only think you're a friend.

I hope we can always do this.

Your aesthetic is good, and I like myself too?

Tell him that if he's good enough, you'll like it, otherwise. Or tell him that you have a crush, he is not your favorite type, and adapt to it, which also shows that you are attractive.

I'm sorry I don't have you in my heart!!

Before he confesses, tell him, can I be your sister or something.

It's my honor that you like me, I don't want to lose you, we'll be good friends for life, right!?

You can say he's good in every way, but you've got a boy you like, and tell him he's going to meet better girls than you do.

I don't want to think about that right now, can you give me time?

Help him introduce him to a suitable girl. Hehe.

I'm a man, you can be cold to him if you want to refuse, and I've been cold for less than 3 weeks, and the effect is remarkable.

I'm not the girl you think I am, you'll be disappointed.

Generally speaking, you are very good, but we are not suitable, and it is better to be friends. But tactful refusals usually don't work well, and boys tend to have fantasies, and maybe say something I'm willing to wait for. If you really don't want to be with him, don't be too tactful!

That's what people say when they reject me.

Be? I don't know when you liked me...

..You ask me the first question, she laughs all the time, and I know people don't like it, but I insisted on asking her.

Say--You're good... It's just not for me... Actually, we can be friends! It's good for you and me!

Euphemism is not good, refusal is refusal, unless you want to be with him in the future, this is the use of euphemism. Since it's impossible in the future, let's be ruthless, in love, no you're not the one I like, friend? ok 。

Say "I already have a boyfriend".

You are very good, we are not suitable, if there is fate, let's be friends in the next life.

Don't be tactful.

Tell him what you really think.

Don't let him feel like there's still a chance.

You're good, so I'm not worthy of you.

Just talk to him about the interesting things you have with your boyfriend, praise your boyfriend, and then half-jokingly tell him that your boyfriend is jealous of him, which annoys you a lot. Finally, I said to him, "Wow, it's been a long time since I've talked to someone like this, it's good to have you as a friend!" ”

I don't want to talk about these things for the time being, and it's not too late to talk about them when I'm successful in my studies."

I have a boyfriend, it's just that he's not around me and I love him a lot".

Please don't waste your time on me".

Actually, I'm gay--

Let's just say it.

It's not clear what to say.

It's easier to misunderstand the other party.

Hurt is inevitable.

Try to minimize the damage.

Say it sooner. Better a finger off than always aching.

It's a relief for all of you.

Only time can help you.

Help each other's ** wounds.

I believe that there is your own happiness ahead.

Tell him that we are all one-winged angels Come to the world to find the other half in order to spread your wings and fly Actually, I have been paying attention to you for a long time Finally let me find the only one in my life Unfortunately, in the end I found that my two wings are one and the same.

Do you still want to be tactful, and you want to kill people? Straightforward refusal, to absolute! It is impossible to say that we are directly

Tell him that I like you, but not love, so that he at least feels that he has a little place in your heart.

When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you have to think that this pain is not eternal.

Only by knowing oneself, subduing oneself, and changing oneself can we change others.

Today's attachment will lead to tomorrow's regret.

You can have love, but don't cling to it, because separation is inevitable.

Don't waste your life on a place you're bound to regret.

When you let go, when you don't have troubles.

Life in the world is like being in the midst of thorns, the heart does not move, people do not move, and if they do not move, they will not be hurt; If the heart moves, people move recklessly, hurt their bodies and hurt their bones, and then experience all kinds of pain in the world. Amitabha, you better say it directly, maybe it's fair to both of you.

Tell him: "Everything is inferior, only reading is high" One of my classmates was rejected by such a sentence!!

If you want to say it, use it directly. Not knowing the art of euphemism in language will only leave room for fantasy. For example: "I just want to read now".

I'll wait for you".

No, don't.

I'll come to you after I graduate."

Now let's be together".

I'm not going to fall in love with you".

Oh no, let me jump off here."

I think you're good, but I don't like you for my own personal reasons, and if you really like me, you won't push me, right?

It's simple, tell him that you already have someone you like.

Yes, if you don't like it, just reject him, don't push and procrastinate, it will make him feel hopeful, and in the end, it will hurt it even more.

It's better to say this kind of thing directly, he's more likely to die.

It's okay to say what you want to say, but thinking too much will have the opposite effect.

Don't be like that, it's better to be cruel, or you'll hurt him even more!

You can say you like him, but liking doesn't mean you have to be his girlfriend. Tell him not now, not in the future.

Let him go to a new school to study hard, friends will be for life, and being a wife will be a long time later.

You can tell him that he is still young and that he should focus on studying, but you can become very good friends, and you can learn more from each other in learning, and then you can wish him happiness.

1 Good Guy Card.

2 thank you card. 3 friendship cards.

This is a good solution. It's all gone, and it's fine.

No, he won't contact you when he's gone, and there will be new girls who will distract him.

You can tell her that she is very busy with her studies right now, and she has no time to think about love, and she has not yet ...... want to fall in love

Sometimes don't be tactful about refusing, because that will give hope to others. If you really don't like him, be decisive!!

Tell him; You're ruthless, you'll find a better girl than me, let's be friends!

Your current behavior gives him the impression that there is still a chance. If you don't refuse directly, you will become Bengali, and then you will dislike him even more. to the point where everyone is not happy to see each other. Isn't it even worse?

Although, it is a happy thing that someone can like themselves and care about themselves. You should also be grateful for the affection of others. But love must be enjoyed by both parties. Therefore, there is no such thing as you owe him anything.

Don't talk to him, he doesn't even know how to be a friend. Let him die, maybe it will make him sad for a few days, but let him intermittently do this, not only affect his normal life and friends, but also only make him go further and further on the scale of friends.

He likes you. If you can't take him. The best thing to do is to explain it to him in one sentence, and then you don't have to explain anything.

Later, he began to snub him. Gradually, he won't talk to you anymore. Because he'll feel embarrassed.

And it will be embarrassing.

。。。I think girls can be ruthless.。。。