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Please, the most taboo thing to do with a proud person is to do what he likes. Of course, proud people will never listen to what others say, and they will not listen to anyone's opinions or suggestions for themselves. They are happy to recognize the mistakes of others, but they never admit their own problems or even see their own problems.
Their greatest pleasure is to attack the shortcomings of others, use their own strengths to compare the weaknesses of others, and then make a look of overlooking the world.
Also, I don't know if the person the landlord is talking about is arrogant or proud, there is still a certain difference between the two definitions. But people who are proud or arrogant generally have two situations.
One is that something in the past has caused a huge blow to their spirit, and arrogance or pride is just a shell of them.
The second is pure vanity and good face, and he can't see others say that he is bad, and he doesn't want people to feel that they are worse than others.
But the way to defeat his pride is the same, that is, to do the opposite, to tell the truth mercilessly, to point out the truth, to point out his shortcomings, to point out the root of the problem, to point out the existence of his own problems, of course, what I said is only the fundamental purpose, and it must be exaggerated in action, and a policy of repression must be implemented, so that he feels that you are disgusted with his pride at any time (provided that you can keenly catch the suspicion of pride in his words and actions), No matter how proud he is in front of you, he is just a layman, and your contempt and blows have to be in every sentence so that he can't find a reason to refute (this depends on the depth of your analysis of things and your personal communication ability to defend yourself, such a thing is best done by the same sex, and in an environment with few people, otherwise he will blow up), at first he will definitely hate you, hate you, but as time goes by and the richness of his own experience, she will realize the feasibility of what you say, Then I will become friends with you and slowly get rid of these messy problems.
However, under normal circumstances, the implementer of this plan is best to be a boy whose actual age is the same age as a one-handed psychological age is more mature, and to have patience and perseverance, as well as a poisonous tongue and strong ability to resist pressure, it is best to be excellent and knowledgeable, and the blow can change the trick without dirty words, hey, this is a difficult task, if it is not a very important person, it is better to think that he is left to fend for himself, and the society will correct him in the future.
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It depends on what kind of arrogance it is. Those who are proud must have something special or cannot approach the unspeakable secrets. Do what you like, whether you're a man or a woman!
The man does what he likes, and the woman helps him intentionally or unintentionally. Maybe we'll find out when we get closer. Some people seem to be difficult to accept, but when you get closer, you find that it is nothing.
Judge for yourself in detail, and to be honest, it's the same to be friends! Look at fate! If you want to help him, just do your best. If you can't change it, just let it be.
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Generally speaking, confident people have better interpersonal relationships, while people with low self-esteem tend to have less good interpersonal relationships because low self-esteem makes him withdraw and avoid interpersonal interactions.
Of course, being overly egotistical and assertive can affect relationships.
A person should not only be confident, but also kind and sincere. The degree to which a person speaks and does things makes people comfortable determines the person's cultivation and literacy, and the quality of a person's interpersonal relationship determines the happiness index!
Therefore, having good interpersonal relationships is a prerequisite for a person's happiness.
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Then you have to talk to strangers more, naturally, your self-confidence will come, it will be natural, I can't be like you before, but now it's not like this, and you have to treat strangers with a normal heart, and look at strangers.
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