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Defect! Big problem! If you continue like this, when your girlfriend knows that what you say is exaggerated, she will look down on you and will be disgusted!

Because there is no such good thing in the first place, you brag about it so well, giving you a feeling of being deceived or even hypocritical, so you better change it! Be measured when you speak on your own! Say what you need to say, know how much you say!

This will help not only your girlfriend, but also your future relationships! Hope you succeed!

It's a small problem, bragging is a problem, let alone for her.

Change the topic and talk to her later.

Basically going to death can be solved!!

If you have this idea, it means that you consciously want to change, start little by little, if you love to talk, have a lot of mouth, you can try to be okay, learn to surf the Internet, turn your love into other behaviors, besides, you talk to others so much, what improvement do you have, it is better to enrich the Internet, the most important thing is that there are many words, what do you want. I also talk a lot, but I can control my legs, and when I talk a lot, I immediately flash people.

Before you want to speak, first give yourself a subconscious: he knows everything! Actually, you regretted it after blowing it, why, because sooner or later it will"The truth is revealed"If you give yourself a subconscious mind first, maybe everything can be avoided!

Vanity is nothing. It's not good to talk too much.

Ordinary heart. Be yourself. Other people's business should be entertained. No need to say it everywhere.

Hahaha. Restraint!

When you're bragging, you have to think twice. Be sure to think about what the consequences will be if you say it. Over time, I think you'll get rid of this bad habit.

How so? Everyone has braggart.

If you have the heart to post it here now, it proves that you know yourself.

That's good.

You've progressed. You're paying attention when you're talking, right?

Kindness. It's useless for others to say anything.

You just have to pay attention when you speak.

If you don't know, you can't.

Those who know a little or are not sure can +one before they say"Probably, maybe"

If you love to show yourself.

Don't talk about yourself.

You don't want to talk about the merits of your friends.

Don't speak, be dumb!!

The way to do this is to pretend to be dumb.

Think about it for a while before you speak, making sure that you should blow it or not, and how much it deviates from reality.

My ex-boyfriend is like this too, let's die! I've tried everything, and if I can't change it, I'm dead! He is also looking for death, and like this, it is difficult to doubt the nature of the country.

It's not to hit you, you're what I experienced before! Don't get along with yourself here, you can't get rid of this problem! It took me a year and a half to change him, scolded and coaxed, started for a few days, and soon changed back again!

Think for yourself!

Saying that your family is bankrupt, seeing her react and pretending to be lost, will give her a sense of equality, so that she will be psychologically balanced.

You do what I say first, forget it if it doesn't work, break up with me effectively.

From your description, I know that you are in this relationship, you have the initiative, that is, she wants to listen to you.

I think it's easier to take the initiative. You have to tell her seriously that what you like is her, not money, so there is no need to say in front of you how you are rich and what brand you have. Give her a sense of security, otherwise she will worry that you will look down on her if she has no money.

Then be honest with her, you tell her what lies she told you, these lies, you don't care anymore, but you don't want to have a second time, because she is like this, not the one you like, if it goes on like this, the breakup is inevitable. You don't want to be separated from her, you just want her to change this shortcoming.

A girl is more or less a little fond of vanity, especially if your family background is very good, she may not want to be looked down upon by you. She uses one of her 'stupid' methods to inflate her worth, and she doesn't want to be looked down upon by you. As for the clothes incident, I don't think she did it on purpose, she should really want to buy it for you, but her conditions don't allow it.

It would be embarrassing and shameless for you to expose her, and I think you can talk to her in depth and tell her that you don't mind her 'poverty' but you don't like her pompousness. In a tactful way, she understands that you like her as someone else. Let's talk about it.

The country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, it can't be changed, time can prove.

Upstairs it's not realistic to say bankruptcy, I suggest you talk about it, and then, in order not to show your superiority, you can dress as well as you can be as poor as possible. There are several reasons why a woman does this. 1. Mental illness is one.

2, maybe I really care about you too much, I'm afraid that the gap between the two sides is too big, and you leave her, so it's like this, you really have to cherish it. 3. It is dishonest in itself, which is a moral issue. I don't need to say it.

Best, talk openly to her about bragging...

It's really not good, it's divided. It's really hard to cheat emotionally. STOP TORTURING YOURSELF ...

But is she worthy of your love?

You said that your home conditions are good, so it's not good to try it, and she jumped home without taking her shoes.

Hello and I hope my advice is helpful to you!

Your girlfriend may not be in very good condition at all, so she has an inferiority complex, it may be just that, and people who are not in bad condition also brag, that is vanity! This brother should know in your heart, but you can't tell your girlfriend that the family conditions are not as good as mine, don't feel inferior, I believe that if she is really inferior, your words will not hit her ordinarily!

Her family is in a small city, and I admit that at first it may have been the psychological pressure on her that my family's conditions were too good, but later I found that she was blowing bigger and bigger, "What you said makes me feel, why does she love to blow?" That's all speculation. So I personally think that if you're not sure why she loves to brag, find a chance to talk to her and talk directly about why she brags!

It's not lying, it's bragging! You've exposed her, you shouldn't mind talking to her openly and honestly about why you're bragging! You should be able to find the root cause of this disease without going to the hospital!

It's hard to change, it's hard to change.

Then choose to leave!! It's good to be out of sight.

It's hopeless, let's get another one.

Comrade, I said that your future is so good, why waste it on this woman, I didn't say you, that woman has a problem in her heart, it's good to be honest, I don't know that lovers hate deception the most? You can find a better one, and I wish you a lot of time in the future.

You might as well take her to the hospital for a psychiatric visit! It's too arrogant!!

Be tolerant of the elderly. Her father is just a good face, this is human nature. The worse the situation, the more you want others to respect you, so making up words will cause you to misunderstand.

If you can understand, you should not be angry about it, but be sympathetic and respectful.

It's very good that your girlfriend has filial piety to her parents. It is really good that she has these advantages of honoring her parents, being kind-hearted, diligent and sensible. Marriage is a major event in a person's life, and the most important thing is to find a person with a very good character and conduct.

She is very tolerant of her father, very kind, and very caring, and she will not be wrong with her in-laws, husband and children in the future.

Hehe, it's a bit unbearable. I think the key is to look at your relationship with your girlfriend, in fact, you also know very well that you are living with your girlfriend, not with her father. What does your girlfriend mean by asking you to pass his father's pass?

If she just meant that you should be able to tolerate your father's character and give him enough respect, then I would think that such a request is not too much, don't you think? As for how to face your girlfriend's father, I think bear with it, your girlfriend's father is actually the same as your own father, the son is not ugly, since the father is already such a character, then we will respect him, if you can do it, echo him, praise him, and he will be very satisfied with you. If you can't do it, just listen, don't try to debunk him.

Looking at this dad, I thought it was from Nancheng. Hush. Don't scold me from the south city. After all, there are the most bungalows in Nancheng.

If you don't want to listen, just go in your left ear and out your right ear, don't care too much, for your girlfriend's sake.

Don't expect too much from him, just take care of the face. In fact, you don't need to send Yuxi, you can send something cheaper. He can say whatever he wants, and you give him things to see your girlfriend's face.

You don't have to be heart-to-heart for everyone, and don't force everyone's lifestyle to work for you.

The key issue is to make your girlfriend good, she is happy, everything is good.

It's not that you don't have anything to say, it's that you're not familiar with it, and when it's not time to talk about your heart, you should talk about your family, and gradually become familiar with it. Every couple has to go through this embarrassing period, this run-in period can be good, but it can't survive, there is no way to like each other, you can only divide it, because you don't know each other very deeply, you can't feel comfortable with each other, you can't talk about it, and the long-distance relationship is even more so, the solution to this problem is not nothing, you'd better be humorous, naughty, often acne her, if necessary, make a yellow joke and smile, don't be too smoldering, women don't like this, big man, if you have anything to say, just say don't be like this.

Hehe, I think everyone has had this experience, so first of all, sympathize with you.

I typed a bunch of words and deleted them again, sorry.

If it's yours, go for it, not force it.

Be yourself.

Go with the flow.

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In fact, there are really a lot of things to talk about, and it's strange that you say you like her very much, but you don't have anything to talk about: my former friend told me that when a guy has nothing to say to a girl, it's basically over. Long-distance love, most of them will lose to distance, I don't know what to do with your problem, it's just my personal opinion!

Similar to me, you can talk about topics that interest her

Is she quiet or.

It should be vanity and face, and want to attract the attention of women.

will even die to save face and suffer crimes, slap a swollen face and become fat.

Narcissism, stinking and showmanship, and ...... to die to save face and live to sufferBut it's actually pretty cute...

Who said that boys brag, rely on me for fear that girls will brag even more.

Occasional bragging, joking, harmless. But fire will do.

When you want to blow, keep your mouth busy. For example, eating.

Then you haven't suffered because of your bragging.

You guys drag it out.

Your girlfriend is really not very sane.

Since it's a boyfriend, I also have my own private space.

I advise you to talk to her.

After communication, if you decide to break up, just break up.

Anyway, I don't have to marry her now.

It's normal for girls to be careful.

To accommodate her. When men and women quarrel, whoever is at fault, the man is at fault.

Because men are big-hearted and tolerant.

You're right.

That's how women are careful.

If you love her, give in.

Learn to be tolerant, learn to be tolerant.

There was a philosopher in ancient Greece who married a shrew.

After he quarreled with her, as soon as he went out, his wife poured a bucket of water from upstairs, and he said, "I know that there will be heavy rain after the thunder, hehe."

In fact, it was his wife who made him.

If you don't love her.

Intolerable words.

Da Ke is leaving early.

How so. I can't even look at my daughter. Gods may do what cattle may not! Landlord, this is a mistake, a big mistake! Free to drink tea q1085800949

There is nothing wrong with falling in love, everyone has a heart.

But each heart is different, so everyone has their own thoughts, and you can only understand her if you look at something between you from her perspective. Remember that you can use a psychological lens to study your girlfriend's behavior, for example: your girlfriend is jealous, indicating that she loves you and wants to have you alone.

In fact, your question shows that you are not satisfied with your current situation, which can be said to be a kind of machismo, and you can "reclaim" your "sovereignty" in another way

Don't have any doubts about your choice, believe in your choice, but also believe in the love between you, and believe in the foundation of love.

It's because you listen to her everything, so it evolves into you listening to her for everything.

Is there trust between you?