How did I become so cautious, always jealous

Updated on workplace 2024-05-13
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's to show that you care about him, think about it and think about whether you want to confess to her, good luck

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    each other. We're all the same, and my girlfriend is starting to call me stingy now, just because I'm jealous.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is not necessarily a good thing, love him been.

    I'm more masculine, I'm not gentle, I have to change, learn to do this.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I'm the same, jealousy is unbearable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Loving someone will fall in love with him when you are not surprised, understand?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh yes! You really love her!

    But! That doesn't seem like a good thing! It's going to turn your friends off after a long time!

    I hope you will put the angle of GF and friends on a par in the future!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's because I care about her, hehe! ~

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you must have a crush on her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It doesn't seem to be love, it may be love

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I feel the same way, I think everyone in love is like this.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because you care about her so much, you love her so much, so you're jealous, and I find out that I'm just like you! Hehe.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hehe, I already have the answer.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It could be that you love her too much.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Question 1: I am jealous, how to solve it The amount of heart determines how much room for development in your future, try to understand tolerance, try to take care of each other, and try to think about things in an optimistic way.

    Question 2: What should I do if a woman is jealous Women are generally like this, they are small-minded, and they are jealous.

    Question 3: I find that I am so jealous and small-minded, what should I do? Now that you know your shortcomings, it's time to get rid of this bad problem.

    Question 4: My husband is small-minded and always jealous, what should I do? It's hard to say whether it's his problem or your own, it's usually because you've let him down, and then he'll always be suspicious in the future.

    Question 5: The heart is too small, love to drill the horns, love to be more serious, love to be jealous How to change It is very simple, when you are jealous, buy a bottle of apple cider vinegar, after drinking, you will feel very delicious, just like you usually always have that momentum at the beginning, and it will be smooth in the back, and it will be much easier to open everything! It's time to let go, there is no need to argue about some things, be generous to others when they are in difficulty, that is, to leave a way back for yourself!

    Question 6: What should I do if my heart is too small and I am always jealous? If you love too much, you will care too much, and if you care too much, you will be jealous.

    I can understand your feelings.

    Proper jealousy, which is the seasoning of love, is necessary and possible;

    But if you are jealous too much, love will turn sour.

    I hope you can handle your relationship well.

    Think about it if you think of him as the only one in your life.

    Is it that after being with him, you give up your friends, or even isolate your life completely.

    If so, I guess it's completely unnecessary.

    The kite can fly very high, as long as the string is still in your hand.

    Question 7: I treat my girlfriend jealously and small-mindedly, is it normal? Be generous in the future, love her and trust her.

    Question 8: What to do if you are jealous I sympathize with you too much, I am like this, the heart is small like the eye of a needle, from a psychological point of view, people who are extremely jealous and cautious are psychologically unsound, which may be due to family reasons or encounter something that hits a lot, is a kind of distrust of the other party, and has a strong possessiveness. You need to mentally cue yourself to yourself, you need to say to yourself, don't do this, etc., and when you find that you are about to start, stop immediately, do something else, let your attention go away...

    This is a long and painful thing, you must persevere, come on This matter can only be solved by yourself, it is useless for others to say anything, since you feel that this is not good, you must control your emotions.

    Question 9: Is it a man who likes to be jealous because of his single-mindedness in love, specifically not to let his own heart ** and the opposite sex have close contacts, not because of small hearts, but because of the right to possess desire.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are jealous, it is a reminder, a spring plant cares, a manifestation of love, if it is too auspicious and rough to return to the sour and unbearable, people with bad teeth really can't stand it. That's not love for the other half, but more of a kidnapping of love. Be hungry.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is that the heart eye is too small; I think that if a person is particularly jealous, it can only mean that he is particularly sensitive, insecure, and afraid that the other party will leave him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Am I jealous not for you? When such a thing is spoken, it carries part of the concern and part of the excuse, is it true? I'm not sure I don't have to say it directly, but I can be sure that it's a truth, and I really care.

    The relationship pays attention to specificity and exclusivity. Here is the origin of "jealousy". It is said that Tang Taizong Li Shimin rewarded several beauties to Fang Xuanling as concubines.

    Fang Xuanling didn't accept it, on the one hand, we think that Fang Xuanling is high-spirited and unwilling to laugh, and more importantly, because his wife is a "fierce woman". He simply does not allow his husband to have a woman other than himself.

    But this is the emperor's holy decree, and if you don't obey it, you will be disrespectful, and it will bring about ruin. Tang Taizong knew that Fang Xuanling was afraid of this matter, so he ordered the eunuch to carry a pot of "poisonous wine", and if Mrs. Fang dared to resist the order, he would give this pot of "poisonous wine".

    Mrs. Fang resolutely chose to resist the decree and accept the "poisonous wine" to self-denial, without fear, and drank it all in front of everyone to express that she would never allow her husband to have two hearts for herself, which was also her unyielding love, and drank "poisonous wine" to defend her principles.

    As a result, this improved version of the "poisonous wine" tasted sour, and it turned out to be a whole pot of vinegar, which was used by Tang Taizong to test Mrs. Fang. It is precisely because of this that the term jealousy has become popular. There are many forms of love, when couples get along, sometimes they care about each other, and this is love.

    It's a way to make each other feel comfortable and warm, and we know very well that couples can't all be so respectful in life. Just as the sky has day and night, the weather has sunny days and rainy days, and the moon is round and absent, it is impossible for people to get along with each other in stone. Even if you have your own body, your teeth will occasionally "fight" with your tongue.

    As a single individual between couples, there will always be some people of the opposite sex around them. You can't find a boyfriend and let him stop associating with all girls, lest there be love at first sight or long-term love. As a boy, you can't let your girlfriend talk to any boy except yourself, otherwise it will be a sign of infidelity to yourself.

    If this is the case, the best place to return is the monastery and the nunnery, and there is absolutely no other opposite sex, but the monks are not allowed to fall in love.

    If you are jealous, it is a reminder, a kind of care, a manifestation of love, if it is too sour to stand it, people with bad teeth really can't stand it. That's not love for the other half, but more of a kidnapping of love. In couples, just like flying a kite, you have to give each other a free space.

    If the string is stretched too tightly, the kite will always be so high, and it will not satisfy his dream of spreading his wings and flying high.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Born with such a person, such a character. It's hard to change.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    We should respect each other and support each other with sincerity.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This can't be blamed for the boyfriend's jealousy, because if you love someone and love each other, both of them have to be sincere, because love has a selfish side, and it is human nature that there is no willing person who is willing to have an affair with someone else of the opposite sex.

    If you don't have a boyfriend, it doesn't matter which man you have a hot relationship, but when you have a boyfriend, you have to pay attention to your words and deeds. Especially in front of his boyfriend, he flirts with other men, or plays ambiguous in games, which is simply intolerable for men.

    Therefore, if you really love this man, your words and deeds in the future will have to be restrained, and you can't be as free and indulgent as you were single. Because men also need face and self-esteem.

    Of course, sometimes you can communicate more with your man and try not to have contradictions.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's very common, but your man loves you very much.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Love is always beautiful, and some people say that if there is no jealousy and quarrel in love, it is imperfect. Indeed, two people who love each other in a relationship have a light in their eyes when they are together. So there is no room for other people's involvement.

    Therefore, when falling in love, it is very common for couples to be jealous of each other and have awkwardness.

    In fact, I think it's all because of love, and without love, where does jealousy come from? Among the zodiac signs, I think the first sign that is jealous at every turn is Aries.

    Aries people will never allow their lover to get too close to the opposite sex, let alone give gifts to the opposite sex. It can be said that in their emotional outlook, there is no room for any opposite sex and their own object, a typical vinegar jar type. Aries people are so sensitive because they attach too much importance to it, and they are extremely tolerant, but they become cautious because they are afraid of losing.

    But in fact, it's because of too much love, so it seems so intolerant.

    The second is Cancer, we all know that Cancer is very clingy in relationships, so once you hold hands, it is equivalent to entrusting the rest of your life to the other party. Because they are afraid of losing, they are very unconfident in themselves, and they are not sure that they can tie their lover's heart well. This also gives them a jealous and cautious character, and similarly, because they care too much about their lovers, they will be easily jealous.

    Finally, there is Scorpio. Scorpios have a strong desire to control and possessive, so they do not allow their other half to have too much contact with others, they only want the other half to have only themselves in their eyes, and not to look at other members of the opposite sexThat's why I'm jealous at every turn, jealousy is so obvious, and I seem to be very cautious, and I have to swear sovereignty by my lover's side wherever I go.

    I think that in the relationship, each of us should have confidence in ourselves, and we must also have confidence in our lovers, and we should not be all soldiers.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The new work of the very careful eye in the relationship, there are new Taurus, Aquarius, and Libra.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Zodiac signs that are very fond of being cautious in relationships are Libra, Aries, and Aquarius.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The jealous Sagittarius does not allow the opposite sex to get close to their significant other.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Pisces, because Pisces people see their objects as their own, so they are more likely to be jealous.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I feel like an Aquarius because they want their significant other to be fully committed to them, but they get jealous at the slightest hint of trouble.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Pisces, because Pisces people are always sensitive, and if the other person does something badly, they will feel very uncomfortable.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Geminis are very cautious, and sometimes they get jealous when you don't know why.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Gemini, Cancer and Sagittarius, they see love as their possessions.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Gemini, because Geminis are very possessive and feel like their own, they should always keep an eye on themselves.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it's Taurus, because they are thoughtful, and although they don't say it in their mouths, they write it down in their hearts.

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