What forgiveness has touched you the most? Would you forgive someone who has hurt you?

Bishop Bian Furu in Hugo's "Les Miserables" not only took in the old robber Jean Valjean, who had just been released from prison and had nowhere to turn to, but also gave him the silverware stolen by the old robber. As a result, the old robber, who had not been reformed from prison, changed his ways, and repeatedly forgave Sha Wei, a cold-blooded policeman who had been chasing him, and finally Sha Wei committed suicide because of his self-shame. He did a series of good deeds, even when he was treated unjustly, he treated others with a forgiving heart, and even his daughter and son-in-law, who had always misunderstood him, finally understood the power of good and asked for his forgiveness.

What prison can't do, it can be done with religious forgiveness. When I read this book in my early years, I was not only moved, but also thought, can we save the world by treating mistakes and sins with a heart of forgiveness? Forgiveness is redemption through forgiveness.

Countless facts tell me that forgiveness can save some, not all, and not all sins and faults. Otherwise, there would be no story of the farmer and the serpent, words like death without repentance, and no legal punishment. Excessive forgiveness also means indulgence in sins and faults.

Seeing that the snake does not score three points of sin, it is said from the perspective that the snake is poisonous and will bite people and cause death, and the farmer will hurt himself by showing mercy to the snake. Forgiveness should forgive those who can be forgiven, and the value of forgiveness is judged from the results of forgiveness, which requires intelligence. It's really hard, but it's needed.

Kindness lacking in intellect may awaken the conscience of some people, but it may also indulge in evil deeds.

Summary

Forgiveness is a virtue that not only redeems one's own heart, but also influences others to do good, undoubtedly for the benefit of others and oneself. I hope you will let go of your burden and turn your heart to the light!

I watched it before that it was criminal. The man went to prison, the woman remarried, leaving the child, and the child saw his father for the first time when he was 5 years old, in the cell. The father asked the child if he would hate him, and the child said Dad, I don't hate, because you are my father, the only father.

Maybe I will forgive someone who betrayed me, but I will keep this hurt in my heart as a warning to myself that I will never associate with such a person again!

If you hold a grudge because someone hurt you, your life or your relationships will stagnate. Learn to accept that the past is in the past and try to convince yourself that "so-and-so has let me down, so I'm angry." But I choose to accept the fact because it has happened" or "I accept what has happened and how I feel about it."

Accept what that person has done to you, and admit that it is not something you can control.

However, you can control your attitude towards this matter. Recognizing your own shortcomings and the areas where you may have hurt others before you shut it up can help you accept what others are doing wrong, and it can also help you release your frustration. Everyone makes mistakes, and being aware of your mistakes can help you understand the mistakes made by those who hurt you.

Letting go of resentment is not something that can be done overnight. The sooner you decide to let go of your resentment, the sooner you can reach that goal. Look ahead, don't worry about it.

When you choose to forgive someone, look back and think about how much actual harm they have done you. Is his behavior really unforgivable? Or is there nothing that you forget in less than a month?

Thinking about tomorrow morning, will you still be bothered by this? Only you know this. Think long-term based on your morals and beliefs.

If you hate people lying to you the most and your lover is cheating on you, then your personal morality may not allow you to forgive those who have cheated on you. However, personally, if you can overcome emotional infidelity, then you can also choose to forgive. People are not sages, who can do no wrong, forgive others, that is, let yourself go!

To be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of ourselves. A little more tolerance for others, in fact, a little more space in our lives. On the road of life with friends, there will be love and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; The life of friends will be less wind and rain, and more warmth and sunshine.

In fact, tolerance is always a sunny day.

To be tolerant is to forget. Everyone has pain and scars, and if they are exposed at every turn, new creations will be added, and old scars and new wounds will be difficult to heal. Forgetting yesterday's rights and wrongs, forgetting the accusations and abuses that others have made to you before, time is a good painkiller. Learn to forget, only then can life have sunshine and joy.

To be tolerant is to ignore it, and forget it after the matter has passed. Everyone has mistakes, and if you cling to your past mistakes, you will form a mental baggage, distrust, lingering, and unable to let go, limiting your own thinking and limiting the development of the other party. Even betrayal is not intolerable.

The person who can withstand betrayal is the strongest person, and will also take the initiative in the atmosphere with his strong will, and his majesty can give people confidence and motivation, so that he can prevent or reduce betrayal. Everything is calculated, gains and losses, and life is tired, it is rare to go through the world, and chic is the most important.

Tolerance is a form of strength, not weakness. Tolerance should be based on retreat and active defense. The concessions embodied in tolerance are purposeful and planned, and the initiative is in one's own hands.

Helplessness and compulsion cannot be regarded as tolerance. The highest state of tolerance is compassion for all beings. To be tolerant is to endure.

Criticism from peers, misunderstandings from friends, too much argumentation and "counterattack" are not enough, but calmness, patience and understanding are the most important. Believe in the famous saying: "Tolerance is a grain that grows out of a bush of thorns."

If you can take a step back, the world is naturally wide.

Tolerance also requires skill. Giving a chance is not connivance, it is not exempting the other party from responsibility. Everyone is responsible for their actions; There are all sorts of consequences for anyone.

Otherwise, the other party will repeatedly break the ban (wrong) and show weakness.

He who does not tolerate others does not deserve to be tolerated by others. — Russia) Turgenev.

A great man has two hearts: one that bleeds and one that is forgiving. - Lebanon.

Gibran. Those who love others will always love them; Those who respect others will always respect them. - Mencius, Lilouxia

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