Is marriage just to have a good life?

Marriage is a continuation of life. To live is to suffer, so let's slowly experience the various states of life.

Love is an important part of marriage and is a must.

A marriage without love is an empty shell, which cannot withstand the test and baptism of too many things, and is very easy to break.

For marriage, love should be considered first, and then everything else, because people are, after all, emotional animals, especially women.

Your own days, like fish drinking water, know yourself whether they are warm or cold, and those you don't love, whether your life is good or not, only you can feel it.

A good day is not only material, but also spiritual.

Not only to live a Japanese word, but also to meet their own physiological needs.

Why do you want to be so useless, although you have reached the age of marriage, you can't make do with it, the important thing is that there are often topics between each other: you can still talk about them when you are old.

It's not a question of how many people are willing to do this, but are you willing to do this? Are you willing to have such a fate for the rest of your life?

In fact, brocade clothes and food are not necessarily a good life, losing freedom, is the pain of more people in love, this is not to deny the person you are facing to choose now, you can try to date, if the family is satisfied and you love this is the best, if not, think more about your life after marrying him, think twice.

Maybe you're right, love without bread dies. If you think about it, when your parents were old, they couldn't work. It's up to you to reciprocate.

You may say that the love of parents is selfless and does not need to be reciprocated, which is also a phenomenon in modern society. Ask, "Are you willing to be such a person without conscience?"

Come to think of it, you should have your own subjective opinion at the age of 21. Think about it, when you are old, when your daughter treats you like this, what kind of thoughts will you have? I don't think I need to say that.

If you have the ability to support your parents, but judging from your situation, you are a very non-assertive person, what kind of achievements can such a person have? Take my word for it! When you look at this passage 20 years from now, you will be grateful to me.

In this way, I will become an important friend in my life with you. Listen to your parents! They are all for your future.

Because Chinese like to be auspicious no matter what they do, marriage is enoughBefore getting married, you must choose a good day, which also expresses everyone's expectations for a better life in the future. It seems to be a common thing to get married and choose a good day, just like most Chinese people like to get married on an even number date, preferably with 8 or 6.

1. Be in a good mood.

Choosing a good day to get married will make you feel more happy, just imagine, if your wedding date is June 16th, just thinking about it makes people feel happy, if you choose to get married on Qingming Festival, you may feel uncomfortable every wedding anniversary, and others will feel extremely embarrassed when they attend the wedding, and they don't know how to say blessings, and even make irresponsible remarks in private. Marriage is a major event in life, you must have a happy mood, it is in order to be able to get married smoothly on a good day, many people book a hotel half a year or even a year in advance.

Second, the picture is a good lottery.

Of course, choosing a good day to get married is to have a good fortune, because a good date represents a good meaning, which is also the blessing of the family for the couple, hoping that they can grow old together and have a precious son early. In fact, Chinese people always want to find a good life when doing some important things, which is a very normal phenomenon, and it is a cultural habit that has been passed down from China for thousands of years.

Choosing a wedding date is very important, but there is no need to be too entangled, if you put all your thoughts on the wedding date, it is inevitable that there will be some superstition. Many young people no longer simply choose auspicious numbers when choosing a wedding date, but choose a day that has special meaning to themselves, such as the day when two people meet for the first time or a love anniversary, etc., which will make the wedding more meaningful, and there will be more romantic information when celebrating the wedding anniversary in the future. The date of marriage is best decided by both husband and wife, after all, it is a major event in life, and it should be treated with caution.

The main thing is that people want to get married on a good day and bring happiness to their marriage, so they will pick a good day.

Because in this way, you can have a good fortune and make people memorable about this day.

Mainly because we feel that getting married on a good day can bring happiness to our marriage.

Tie the knot. Most of the future.

The oil section is salt, chai, rice, sauce, vinegar tea.

Children and grandchildren hold hands and knees around the golden flowers.

The days go by every day.

Romance is not high.

Marriage is to find a soul mate, and you can live a simple life alone, so why find someone to make do?

After experiencing a marriage, I kind of understood that marriage is a matter of two families. The values of the two families are inconsistent, and we ourselves cannot face the contradictions of family affairs in a unified way, and those days must be chickens and dogs. If I get married again in the future, I won't look at true love or not, marriage is about finding a suitable person, someone who can live together, not a good-looking person.

Of course, everyone wants to find a high-value hall, but appearance is not a necessary option in front of life, and when you can't have both, the practical side must prevail. To say this, it seems to turn yourself into a tool man, utilitarian and realistic. In the face of a long and dull life, I need to rest and care, instead of dealing with the difficulties of life alone for a long time, and the other person lying flat.

The failure of a marriage is a major blow to life. It is the biggest investment failure in my life. People with capital are not afraid to start over, while people with little capital are difficult to have the opportunity to surpass, and will only lose costs in failure.

I hope everyone meets the right person at the right time. So, how do you know if it's the right person? I think first of all, you have to have the right standards, that is, values.

If the family cannot be unified, then two people must be able to handle their own affairs, and do not let the contradictions between the rest of the family affect the direction of the marriage.

I always believe that parents and children are independent, and since you get married, many difficulties and conflicts should be handled by yourself, rather than relying on your parents. Parents can help you when they can, but that's not their obligation, it's their responsibility to raise yourself, not your children.

What is your purpose in getting married?

First, if it is to find a helper in a difficult life, it must be to find a down-to-earth person who is upright and upright to work together!

Second, if you have fantasies about love and look very seriously, then find a person who really enters the shape of your eyes, after all, you are full of love and water, if you are lucky, it just happens that the other party also really likes you, then you can hold the hand of the son, grow old with the son, and believe that in the face of true love, all difficulties are paper tigers!

3. No matter what kind of person you are looking for, the premise is that the other party's character is good enough. Especially when a girl is looking for a partner, she must keep her eyes open, the man's economy can almost work together, as long as he truly respects you and loves you, and is willing to work hard for your future, it is worth entrusting.

Good life! It's so comfortable!

When it comes to getting married, it seems that the indispensable things now are a car, a house, and a bride price. None of the less, local customs.

In the countryside, because of these, there are bad factors, such as cheating marriage, but then again, if the man has nothing, you marry him, the family is surrounded by walls, and if you care about having no money, he will say that you are snobbish.

The young couple is married, and they can struggle for two years without children, so after having children, the woman will have to take care of the children at home.

Mother-in-law and mother can still help when they are young, if both sides are not willing to help, then they can only take the child by themselves. It's good that the man can earn money for you to spend. If you don't give you flowers, you can't just save it.

The most ridiculous thing is that men are incapable, and there are quite a lot of children. I don't know what to do tomorrow if I stay up like this.

This can't stand a little bit, and if the woman doesn't top it, it's like the sky is falling. This is how poverty comes step by step. There is nothing that can be done about it.

Is it really powerless? Or just make excuses for your laziness.

If you get married and live a life and get poorer and poorer, it means that people are lazier, and they are not afraid of being poor, but they are afraid of being poor.

On one side, in the hole of poverty, day after day, year after year. Struggle? If you don't struggle, you'll be old.

Looking at those, those who are over half a hundred years old, who rely on the sky to eat at home, from young to old, insist on thinking of good things every day, and have good deals without effort.

They also come from a young age because of their various excuses not to make money. When you are old, you can only live by yourself when you are sick. Resigned to fate, he can live as long as he wants, and no longer struggle, because his ideas are passed on to the next generation.

It sounds ridiculous, but I really can't laugh because I don't have a diploma and no skills. You can only farm the land. Go out to work, fish today and dry nets tomorrow. It's a typical mess of days.

This is the life of a person who does nothing after getting married. In any case, if you don't have a craft, you don't have a diploma, then please work hard. Educating children is a vivid lesson.

Getting married, having children, and living a life is firewood, wood, oil, and salt.

I think there are three most important considerations when getting married, the first is character, a person, whether you can go to the end with him, the most important thing is whether the other party's character is worthy of your trust, from this character, you can see that when the two of you encounter problems after marriage, he will tolerate you more, or you will talk about things, when you encounter problems, career matters are still mainly emotional, this is very important, and it is also a necessary factor to consider whether the marriage can go to the end.

The second important consideration is the material conditions of this person, because we all know marriage, he actually lives a life is money, not to say that there is affection to drink water and be full of chaos, the material conditions here are not to let girls ask too much for what kind of things boys must have, and the reverse boy has too high requirements for girls, which is not established, the material here must be two people who are right, that is to say, the three views are basically the same, In this way, if you encounter some basic consumption or further requirements in your life, there will not be much deviation, if you quarrel over money for a long time in married life, the relationship will naturally fade, and over time, both parties will wear away the only remaining love for each other, and the feelings of the two people will not go to the end.

The third factor that must be considered is the rhythm of the rhythm, there are many people who may ignore this problem, that is, they are covered up by other things, and feel that two people are together, as long as there is love, they can change each other, in fact, this is a very stupid idea, what is a person like, what will he be like after marriage, people don't think about moving a person, the other party will make changes because of you, let a person make a huge change, only after he has experienced a thing, And this matter must be touched by it, he will change himself, so when getting married, we must pay attention to whether the rhythm of life is the same when two people are facing the rhythm of life, including whether the beat is the same when dealing with things, if the beat can be consistent, then you can solve the problems after you get married in time, and you can also solve them very properly, instead of saying that one person is waiting for another person to pull around, but let himself and the other party become more and more incompatible, and the two people feel that the days are more and more boring, and naturally they will not continue to last long.

In general, if you want to enter the marriage, you need to take the above kinds of problems into account, and then you can hold the other party's hand and enter the marriage without regrets, otherwise if the above questions, you have not been able to think clearly, or the other party is not what you think, your appearance, your rash delay in the echo is undoubtedly irresponsible for both of you, after a long time you will feel fresh, after a long time the relationship between the two people do not know how to maintain, this is particularly bad, And it's also more hurtful. Therefore, it is necessary to be cautious when entering marriage, to enter the marriage, to be able to comply with the rules, and develop slowly, in addition to encountering principled problems, other things that accompany the difficulties are best for two people to work together to solve them, to believe that marriage itself is a catastrophe, but there is love in it can last for a longer time.

I think the lyrics of a song can be very good for you, and the name of this song is "Finally Waiting for You" sung by Zhang Liangying. Why do we have to get married, at a certain age you will find that life alone is really not very easy, the friends around you have a family, but you are still alone, there are fewer and fewer people around you to chat with you all night, and there are fewer and fewer friends around you. The people who used to be with you all night chatting now have people you want to spend time with, and you want to find someone to hang out with on the weekend, and you find that they all have reasons not to go, and the reasons are that you can't refuse, and you are doing everything alone.

Those people around me who said no, in the end, have faced the reality, they once said, not to the future, not to get married, not to go on a lifetime, at that time we were ambitious, said that even if you can't find someone you really like, then go through your life alone. But I can't stand the people around me getting married one by one, one by one, one by one, turning away from us, when we see others have families, when we have all the partners we used to play with, at this time you are the only one who insists on not compromising and not getting married, in fact, it can be said that it is very devastating. We don't have to get married, you can not get married, but you have to accept loneliness, you have to be able to bear loneliness, when others come home late there is a light for her, when they come home there is a delicious meal to eat, when they come home with a sweet voice saying I love you, will you also want to have a home.

I said back then that my marriage was not going to be settled, but when I got older, I found that it was too difficult to find an unforgettable lover, and I chose to follow the crowd Although so, I don't regret getting married.