What do you think after a heated argument between two couples?

Made! Because after a quarrel, the most common thing that comes to mind is a sentence! "Husband and wife fight, bed head fight, bed end and. ”

Because people stay together for so long, the initial impulse and sweetness have long since turned into dullness. Besides, people have naturally understood each other's shortcomings after staying for a long time, and there are many disadvantages in life, so it is easy to blame each other, and sometimes it is inevitable to be cynical and quarrel if you go too far. In fact, they have already been transformed from lovers to relatives, so they will not be as accommodating to each other as they were when they were young, such as when they are in love, people are generally afraid of upsetting each other, so they will hide their dissatisfaction and so on In fact, family life is like this, if it is all sweet, it can only be love, life is full of various emotions, don't look at them are always noisy, but it also includes some exchanges and communication.

I don't think it's necessary to affect your thoughts about love and family because of this.

Calm down. Now that we've come together. It should be good What is there between the husband and wife that can't be talked about properly I have to quarrel and do it It hurts my feelings I think it's the best policy to talk about it calmly and solve it.

If there are often such fierce quarrels, then after every time they quarrel, I will have the idea of "is this a husband and wife", which is simply a bad fate in the previous life!

It is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, and under normal circumstances, many couples are very quarrelsome, and I have to say that when quarreling, it will enhance each other's feelings and let each other know each other better, so in this case, if it is properly handled, each other's feelings, then both parties will achieve a more ideal balance in one fell swoop, so it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel often. And you don't need to pay special attention to it, because in general, an argument will enhance the relationship between the two of you.

1. Frequent quarrels can break the relationship.

One day husband and wife, we know that two people together is a kind of fate. Therefore, there are many small things in life that will quarrel, at this time we need to analyze rationally, whether it is our own mistake or the other party's mistake, if it is our own mistake, then we must correct it. And after the quarrel, the relationship between the husband and wife will be deeper.

2. A quarrel will make two people run into each other.

In fact, being together with two people is a run-in process. Sometimes quarrels are not because everyone makes mistakes, but because everyone has a different personality and therefore has a different view of things, so it is normal to quarrel at this time. And they will also be burning in the quarrel and understand each other better.

3. Quarrels over small things in life are more likely to cause misunderstandings.

In general, it is normal for couples to quarrel a lot. However, if the quarrel is too frequent, it will damage the relationship between the husband and wife. Therefore, after a quarrel between husband and wife, they should seriously reflect on themselves, so as to enhance the relationship between each other, because too frequent quarrels will destroy the relationship between two people.

In general, it is normal for couples to quarrel regularly. If two people understand each other, then it will enhance the relationship between each other, and it will also make the other party understand each other better. Therefore, there are still pros and cons to quarrels between husband and wife, and couples should be treated holistically.

Because we are angry because of quarrels, because we are angry because we are angry, because we are angry, we only understand that the other person is not looking at each other, and we do not know how to reflect on ourselves and find our own problems. Understand that no matter what the cause of the dispute is, it is not one party, sometimes he (she) does something wrong, he (she) says it badly, he (she) says it badly, then what do you do? People can't communicate with each other calmly, can you stir up a quarrel in an angry tone?

Therefore, when husband and wife quarrel, each other has their own faults, and there is only a question of how much. After a quarrel, you must not only look at the other person's problems, but also do not reflect on what is wrong with yourself. Otherwise, such an outcome will happen, and the more the other party looks at you more and more wrong, the greater the disagreement.

As we all know, cold violence at home is one of the reasons for the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, but there are still many couples, after a quarrel, they always like to use cold violence to look at the incorrect party, that is, they do not communicate with him (her), do not communicate with him, and choose to sleep in separate rooms after getting angry. They try to make the other party more truly realize their incorrectness based on domestic cold violence, and hope to punish the other party for the incorrectness committed by dividing the house. But the result is not only not recognized by the other party, but it will make the relationship between the two people crack, and even some couples split the house because of a quarrel, but the result is that the house will always be separated.

Therefore, no matter how loud the husband and wife quarrel with each other, do not look at the other party with callous violence, and do not sleep in separate rooms. It is important to remember that sometimes when you fall asleep under the quilt together, you can't help but hug each other when you fall asleep, and the anger caused by the quarrel between husband and wife will naturally disappear, and when the anger subsides, it will be more rational to solve the problem of everyone's dispute.

After thinking about it, when you realize your own problems, take the initiative to admit your mistakes and actively get along, so that you can end the dispute earlier. Some people may think that I have done something wrong, I have done something wrong, why do I take the initiative to admit my mistakes, take the initiative to admit my mistakes, whether I take the initiative to admit my mistakes, and directly take the incorrectness on myself.

In fact, this concept is incorrect, and taking the initiative to admit mistakes and reconcile first is to show that you are open-minded and tolerant, which is enough to show that you pay more attention to this relationship than he (her). Regardless of the intricacies, if the important issue in this dispute is yourself, you need to take the initiative to admit your mistakes, and the other party will see that you are firmly admitting your mistakes, and then gradually reflect on your own incorrectness. However, if the key problem exists in the other party, and you take the initiative to admit the mistake and get along, the other party will be more ashamed to accept the incorrect, and at the same time, because of your attitude, cherish and tolerate you more.

In quarrels, they will not use cold violence and actively solve problems.

After a quarrel, they will reflect on themselves, control their emotions to comfort each other, and then communicate with each other and tell each other their thoughts.

Be able to forgive each other, understand the other party, be able to give the other party a step, be able to help the other party, and be able to pay attention to the other party, so that you can make your relationship better and better.

First, never say to break up, second, the man takes the initiative to admit his mistakes, third, he hopes that the other party can correct it, fourth, he doesn't curse the other party, and fifth, he laughs while talking.

It doesn't have to be a breakup. It is quarrels that expose the problem. Quarrels are not terrible, the Cold War will be centrifuged.

If you can quarrel, you can say everything you want to say, if you keep silent, you will only bury a landmine on the road of feelings, because you don't know why the other party is angry, and the thunder is likely to detonate the emotional crisis in the future.

After the quarrel is over, after calming down, you can think about the cause.

If you can't remember, it is likely that the disagreement has been resolved during the quarrel (one party silently accepted the other party's decision), and the subsequent "quarrel" is just to vent emotions (because the problem is solved, the emotional words do not reveal any real content, and if there is no vicious language, you can't remember it at all).

If you can find out what the problem is, analyze the root cause. It can be resolved after both sides have calmed down, and it will be resolved. If you can't solve it but can avoid it, then pay more attention to it in the future.

If you feel that the other party is just looking for trouble, you can chat with the other party about other things after calming down (not asking questions, not discussing, just chatting about life). It's because of other things that have caused you to be emotionally unstable lately, which proves that you haven't cared much about the other person lately; It's because I don't like each other more and more, and even when I hate each other, I think about whether I can get rid of some things that I hate in order to be together.

So, only if you are sure that you are really tired of each other and that you will not feel worth the change in order to be together, can you be worthy of a rational "breakup".

Many people will have such a doubt, that is, when two people are running a marriage, they will often quarrel, in fact, it is very common for such a phenomenon, because two people will have a lot of conflicts together, and quarrels will occur at this time.

When two people are together, their personalities are different, and there will be some friction at this time, if both people don't know how to take a step back, the friction will be magnified, and the two people will quarrel. After a quarrel, it will affect the relationship between both parties, so we try to avoid quarrels so that both parties can become harmonious.

Some couples don't know how to manage their marriages together, so they will often quarrel, but for ordinary people, they don't approve of it, because quarrels will affect the feelings of both parties. So when we are together, try to choose to tolerate each other, so that the feelings of both parties can become harmonious, and if two people often quarrel, it will break the relationship.

Some couples are together, they just don't know how to cherish each other, so they will often quarrel, for such a practice is also not recognized, we must know how to cherish each other, so that we will not quarrel with each other, it is because you do not cherish, two people will quarrel in the process of getting along, so we must understand the importance of cherishing.

Husband and wife together is a very wonderful fate in itself, two people don't know each other, they can form a family, that is the fate of fate, at this time we have to cherish such a fate, so we must choose to tolerate each other, do not quarrel, and only in this way, our relationship can last for a long time.

Especially men, when they manage their marriage, they will tolerate their women, and some men they don't know how to tolerate, so at this time, we must understand the importance of tolerance, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

If two people want their relationship to become long-lasting, they must know how to manage their marriage, so that the marriage can be happy forever.

Because some couples have differences in concepts and can't talk about going together, some couples will often quarrel after being together.

Because when they procrastinate, they don't face so many difficulties, and at the same time, they don't have to get along day and night, but once they get married, these things will happen.

It may be because their personalities are not completely run-in before they get married, and there will be a lot of contradictions between getting along day and night, so they will often quarrel.

Husbands and wives live together every day, and if they live together for a long time, they will inevitably have disagreements on some things, so they will often quarrel, but this is normal.

Husband and wife quarrel in order to better understand each other, although there are disputes, but as long as the two people tolerate each other and solve the problem well, the relationship will be stronger in the future, and there is no need to divorce because of this, unless both people have a bad temper and often quarrel for no reason.

Quarrel is the most emotional thing, so after the quarrel, I will definitely apologize to him first, so that he is not so angry, and then I will discuss with him, in the coming days, I hope the two can understand each other and tolerate each other, after all, everyone will experience the run-in period of marriage, and I hope that they can make concessions for each other.

I think most of the quarrels between husband and wife are communication problems, two people can sit down and communicate well, talk about the reason for the frequent quarrels before, find out the problem and then solve it, and then the two can reach some kind of agreement, and they can't quarrel often in the future, and whoever quarrels first will punish whom, which can also increase the feelings of both parties.

In the case of negotiation and communication between the two parties, first put the mentality of solving the problem to arrange the quarrel factors; changeable changes, running-in and tolerance, and finding solutions to solve them; If it can't be solved, it will be neutralized or intervened in the reconciliation of elders.

I think that if you want to continue this relationship, you need two people to communicate effectively, and if you have any problems, you can solve them in time, and naturally the relationship will get better and better.

First of all, both parties must have the desire and attitude to live in harmony, and then they can think of a solution. If one person wants to live in harmony and the other person doesn't, nothing can be done.

I will try my best to communicate with the other party, find out the root cause of the problem, and solve the contradiction in time, so that the contradiction will not continue to accumulate.