Should I leave or hold on? Experienced give some advice。。。。。。。。

Go ahead and do what they think you're the best. Don't give up easily, or you'll be sorry for yourself. There will be no pie in the sky, the pie needs to be made yourself. I'm sure you'll be able to do it, come on!

Let's leave, it's really not a thing, what's wrong with Shanghainese, don't be depressed, even if you barely stay, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, really, really can't live!

Let's go. Think about how isolated life after marriage is, hitting walls everywhere, and having no bright future...

First of all, I want you to be happy. Look a little away.

A situation like yours is common in today's society.

The key is to see if this man is worth his life. He truly loves you. Or your body. Or a pre-product.

So you're going to get a little bit of it from him. Observe him thoroughly. If you get married. What will it turn into.

Allah is also from Shanghai. Many old Shanghainese do have a lot of prejudice against their brothers and sisters in other provinces and cities... But if your boyfriend is a very tough and assertive person ... Then continue to guard him, and he will definitely be willing to die with you.

But if your boyfriend doesn't understand anything, it's better to choose another boy, who is too easily influenced by other people's opinions, and his life after marriage will suffer a lot, and it will not end.

Shanghainese people are not easy to deal with, look down on outsiders, and think twice.

Shanghainese are like that. Look at outsiders with colored eyes, as if the world was made by Shanghainese.

Now I think you should seriously talk to your friend. Ask him what he thinks. Because he is unlikely to be completely detached from his parents.

So you have to get an answer that you can rest assured. If he can't give it, it means that he is incapable. (There are two extremes for boys in Shanghai, one is very mature and responsible, and the other is that they are still drinking milk and listen to their mothers).

If your boyfriend is the latter.

Then you can leave him. Love should be built with a slight surplus of bread and milk.

I think you should first make sure that your boyfriend and your relationship are in good shape, and if you have the confidence to stick with it, don't mind his mom

The most important thing in the future is that you have a good time, and you don't want to marry his mother! As long as you love each other, what to worry about!

If you don't want to leave, stand on your own feet and prove to his mother with your ability and sincerity, but you have to pay a lot; If you can't bear the hardships in the future, just leave, so that it hurts less.

Ask your boyfriend, how are the two of you feeling right now. If you still love each other sincerely. Then you can leave their house, but you don't have to go back. Find a place to live there yourself.

It's not about giving up or clinging, right?

Do you think you can cling around for the rest of your life? Can you promise that you will give up now?

I think that since you are like this now, you should be casual, don't force yourself to make any judgments, at least you haven't even seen her for a long time, since you have good memories, learn to keep them, no one has the right to let you give up

Unrequited love is useless, but I think you still want to have it, because she's still in touch with you, you might as well come out and talk to her.

Giving up, of course ... I am a student like you, in college... It's nothing more than trying to find an emotional sustenance and have fun.

Since you can't catch up, don't force yourself. You can find another target.。。 If you don't succeed, then you're fit to be a college bachelor.

My roommate, I fell in love with a guy, and then he confessed to the guy, and the guy said the same thing, saying that he wouldn't have a girlfriend for a few years in college. But a month later,,,The boy has a girlfriend.。。 Actually, the girl you like just wants to find a reason to reject you.

I'm also a girl. Understand what the girl is thinking.。。

You wouldn't be alive without him ... It's not about giving up. But there is no need to insist for such people ...

If things are slow, they will be round, and they will advance by retreating.

You just have to wait and be friends as she says. Don't always look for her for trouble, maybe ask her out once every two weeks. Don't text her too often.

There are a lot of things that she can't say no, and maybe I'll talk to you when I feel it in the future. I don't know how long it will take, though. If you can't wait, give up.

If he can change for you, it means that he cares about you very much, but change has to have a process, not overnight, like a boy with a good family background, because there is no opportunity to exercise, the time may be longer, in this process, you can not discourage his enthusiasm, to give him more encouragement, men are like children, give a little sweetness, will dance, for a little progress in his change, you have to give praise and affirmation, so that for a long time, you can help him build self-confidence. There is a good saying, I'd rather fight someone who loves me than find someone I love!!

In fact, you have to judge for yourself whether you want to leave or not, this kind of problem is not qualified, we can't get to know a complete person from an introduction, if you think you like him very much, then you stick to it, if you feel that he is like this, you don't like it, then give up, you want to change a person's personality is very rare, because it is basically impossible to change a person's personality because of a small thing.

You just need to know one, that man loves you or not?? If only he loved you very much. It won't make you worry about him all the time, and make it difficult for you to do it with your adder.

If it were me, I'd rather be sad for a while, and then believe that I could meet someone better than him... So my advice is not to be together!!

It mainly depends on what kind of life you want, what kind of man? His family background is more restrained, how can he give you a better life than your family, no matter whether he does it or not, it depends on whether he has the heart to do it for you, as long as he does his best, I think it is enough!

It's better to separate, it can be said that you are not on the same line, the problems of your life together are not on the same level, and such a man, do you think there is anything else that attracts you, you want to find a person to rely on, but he is not ready for you to rely on. I think it's better for you to separate for the sake of the future ...

Leaving, and maybe leaving is a good choice for both you and him.

From my personal concept, I think it's better for you to break up, from your words it is obvious that you like your boyfriend, not that he likes you, he is not taking action now, I believe he will not in the future, if you walk together, maybe you will not be very happy, so I still hope to think twice. With all due respect, forget to understand.

It depends on the personality of the boyfriend. If he is introverted and can't withstand a little frustration and do bad things, then you need to have a good conversation with him.

I advise you to persevere and change him with actions.

The two also met by fate...

Feminine hurt, persuade you to divide, there are good and bad, there are gains and losses, the person you love is a selfish person, he treats you as a pet, you just listen to him, obey him in everything, don't speak, when he is annoyed, if you annoy him, he will be very angry, if you get married, maybe he will beat you, this kind of person is still divided, love is a circle, see if you can jump out.

If you are truly in love, don't give up easily! These days, it's not easy to meet someone you really like! You have to let him understand your heart, and you must also know how to endure, if it goes on for a long time, he is still not good to you, then you don't want to continue!

But before you give up, be sure to be nice to him! Love is unconditional giving, without expecting anything in return!

He told you to get out, so don't grab him with a dead face. You leave him and let him regret it.

You can divide and combine 6 times, so forget it. Bad fate!

The temper is not good, and I won't love you very much, there should still be a little bit....

Tell me something I hope it can help you. Ay. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future.

Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss. The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and I always feel that I have lost the meaning of life.

However, my friend told me that you have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks?

Both are important.

But I'm more of a camarader.

I'm not talking about friendship, but the kind of good friend relationship.

It's the kind of person who can help you share when you're sad and frustrated.

Silently support your friendship.

When your love is not satisfactory, friendship can help you get out of the predicament, and when your friendship is not satisfactory, love can also comfort you.

Therefore, love and friendship must be grasped, and neither can be ignored.

Be kind to everyone around you.

There's a movie called "Waiting Alone", and it's good.

This video is written for everyone who slips away from you

I'm also a woman of your boyfriend's type. Hehe. But I really love my boyfriend, and sometimes he really gives up the opportunity to go on a date with his boyfriend and hang out with his school friends. But my boyfriend understands me very well. Say I know I'll never be as good as your friend, but I know when.

I'll always be there for you when you're unhappy.

So you love your boyfriend very much, then that? It's better not to divide it.

Sometimes falling in love with someone is not only about loving his flaws, but also about his flaws.

Leave, if you are not afraid to live alone in the future, you can stay, there will be love and responsibility, and no one will make the other half of your heart feel your existence.

Men are like this, and it is more important to be friends. It depends on how you deal with this situation, and if you love him deeply, you can sacrifice it and dissolve into his circle of friends. Then he will not be captured by you.

Most men are just like your boyfriend!!

Don't you worry!! After getting married, I should go back to the !!

Because I'm just that man!!

Do you feel happy? If not. Then please leave him.

Give up, I put the person I like first, and it is my wise saying that I value color and light friends.

Friends are more important than you, then you don't have to hesitate.

It's too brief. So much so that some can't understand it.

Leave, and he'll be fine. He just wants to see you happy.

Hold on, and a rainbow will appear after the storm.

Of course left! He may not have any feelings for you now...The stone may still be hot after covering it for a long time, but the feelings are not necessarily! It's not that you treat him well every day, and you can exchange his heart by forbearing him!

Men are more ruthless than women, as long as he is cold to you and doesn't want to be with you anymore, it's not that you cry and say soft words can change it! So you better leave him as soon as possible, so as not to suffer more in the future!

Sadness flows through the blood to the heart like a healing wound, deeply engraved in the cells of the heart wall, so that whenever you think of the past is a faint tear, if it is worth loving, there is a common pursuit, a common bright future, then persevere. If being together is a tragedy for two people, then you have to make a new choice!

So let's separate, there's no time left to spend like this.