How can you be sure that someone will stay with you for the rest of your life?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't think that's true, you shouldn't ask that! What you should ask is, would you like to stay with her [him] for the rest of your life?

    Because, do you know what is the reason why you can't stay together for the rest of your life? It's just not enough to love each other, or a phenomenon of fake love!

    Therefore, if you love him [her], you will redeem it, you will do the love you give, and you will always invisibly pull each other! Then you don't have to think about such an unreal question at all, because of his love, whether he can stay for life, you have a lot of initiative, you have a lot of responsibility.

    People in the West don't ask this kind of question--- do you love me? "- Such a question. Will only take the initiative to say "You know I love you so much". Keep an eye out for it.

    So, you should know that the big problem is in your place!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There is no way to know for sure.

    I can't even determine my future path.

    It is not only necessary to look at the beliefs of both parties, but also factors such as family, environment, etc.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on the trust between each other. As long as trust reaches this level, it is not difficult to stay for life.

    The difficulty is that this realm is too high.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Even if you get married, you won't be sure who will stay with you for the rest of your life

    Get along well, don't think so much, meet the right person, you can grow old together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can't be sure, I can only fight for !! If it's true love).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The love that accompanies you to old age, I think this is what everyone yearns for. When we choose a marriage partner, we just want to live with each other wholeheartedly for the rest of our lives, grow old together, and never think about divorce.

    I remember that there was a song written very well at that time, I will definitely love you to the earth to the end of the world, I hope you can accompany me to the cape to the end of the world, even if everything is repeated, I will not change the decision, you chose me, I chose you I will love you to the earth for a long time, I will definitely accompany you to the sea to the dry to the rock, even if I go back to the past, this is still my only decision, I chose you, you chose me, this is our best choice.

    If you want to have a love that accompanies you to old age, you must be very careful when choosing a love partner. Be sure to choose a marriage partner who has a common language with you, has common interests and hobbies, has the same three views, and can respect each other, tolerate each other, and marry each other.

    If you choose the right marriage partner, even if there are any conflicts after marriage, they can be resolved through mutual communication on an equal footing. It will not intensify the contradictions, and will not let the relationship between the two sides get out of control.

    If you want to be in love with each other for a lifetime, you should treat each other as your own relatives, respect each other in life, understand each other, and when the other party encounters difficulties, you must be his strong backing to help him tide over the difficulties and get out of the predicament.

    It's not terrible to have contradictions and problems, and the contradictions between family members don't hold grudges, and they don't really care about each other. The matter is over, and the travel situation is over, don't carry a stool to entangle, and give each other a step down. This kind of love can love each other for a lifetime, so that love is happy and sweet love.

    I wish everyone to have a love that accompanies us to old age.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's see if he will think about you, whether he can think about the problem from your point of view, whether he will care about you, whether he will take the initiative to send you a message, and whether he will accompany you when you are sad. Return to the front.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can see whether the other party will be considerate of you wholeheartedly, whether he will consider you in every detail, and whether he will respect your decision.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The first is to see if he will work harder and harder, the second is to see if he is a big deal and will discuss with you how to do it, and the third is whether he has you in his future planning.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It has been said that the most important thing between men and women is not to love each other, but to appreciate each other. I also remember saying to a girl that you can meet many people who love you in this life, but maybe you will never meet someone who appreciates you more than me. Appreciation is a higher level of love.

    Most love is for the purpose of possession. And appreciation, it doesn't matter whether you can possess it or not. As soon as men and women reach the realm of mutual appreciation, that kind of love reaches the extreme of beauty, and they can't bear to spoil it.

    So some people say that you don't marry the person you love the most, which is a hazy feeling after entering this realm, and it is not completely fever and nonsense. And once men and women enter the realm of mutual appreciation, if they want to get closer and combine, they can often create the greatest pleasure of love. Most men and women are also united in the case of mutual affection, but if they insist on entering the realm of mutual appreciation, I am afraid that most of them are just self-deception.

    The man said "no, no, no", and then there was a big truth that the man should pay the bill. The woman went on to write: I would love to tell him that I don't think men have the grace to pay their bills, and that women have no self-esteem when they pay.

    I would love to tell him that sometimes payment is also a pleasure and a free and easy way. But I didn't say anything, I knew that he couldn't appreciate a sense of happiness and ease. Appreciation is a kind of vision that is far from worldly ideas, and does not care whether someone agrees with or resonates.

    A person who knows how to appreciate must be a person with a mood, who can chew something called "taste" from words and deeds that seem boring to others. When the girl approached the counter to pay for their breakfast, he did not think of rushing to pay the bill to show the man's demeanor, but sat quietly and admired the joy in the girl's heart from the girl's light steps; He will listen to his girlfriend's words on the other end of the ** with joy, or make all kinds of strange sounds mischievously, and feel the beautiful concern contained in it; He admired his girlfriend's graffiti works like appreciating the calligraphy and paintings of famous artists, and tasted a kind of warmth and ironing that was not found in famous calligraphy and paintings. As for the kind of man who stuffs his girlfriend's graffiti work in a drawer as if it were a company document, we don't need to be them - the kind of man who doesn't know how to appreciate it at all.

    A woman can not be beautiful enough, a man can be so poor that no girl wants to marry him, but he must not be admired, or never admired—because, as a woman once said, "As long as you can appreciate half of the world, you will embrace a whole world without reservation." If you really want to stay together, then please learn to appreciate it, and then even her little faults will be interesting to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The most important thing is to protect her, think of her in everything, care for her, love her, be considerate of him, tolerate her, and trust him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's hard to say, it's not hard to say, it's not hard to say, China alone has a population of more than 1.3 billion, excluding some married children, old people, and women, at least 500 million or 600 million, so it's not easy to find a belching person in the vast sea of people, but once you get it easily, remember not to lose it, because it's going to take a long time to look for it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It may be as difficult for some people as finding an et, or for some it may be as easy as eating.

    The key is how to find out that you are truly worthy of love, and then how to grasp the opportunity.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It is normal for everyone to encounter some difficult trade-offs and difficult decisions in life, and they will be very hesitant. However, if you hesitate in the face of some small, inconsequential things, you will suffer from gains and losses, which will make you live every day in the worry of decisions and the denial of yourself, physically and mentally exhausted, and less and less confident, and over time will form psychological problems.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not difficult, and those who do it can stick to it for a lifetime.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let it be, I'm also looking forward to it, I'm waiting, normal heart, sometimes I'm confused, slowly go with the flow...

    I guess it's going to be soon, maybe people who really care about it are waiting so seriously and confused, it should be soon.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not hard. After listening to the lecture "How to manage a life without regrets", I understood how to do it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not difficult: among the tens of millions of people, in the wilderness of endless time, there is no one step earlier, no one step later, and it just happens to catch up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I would also like to know this question. Treat every relationship seriously and persistently, but every time it dies halfway. Now I don't know what kind of attitude to use. Discouraged. If you know the answer, remember to let me know, thank you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Know the Tower of Babel?

    Any idea why it poured?

    Wait until the Tower of Babel is connected to God.

    You've found it.

    Let's make do with life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's hard to think about it, as long as you look for someone who will be with you for the rest of your life, fate is not the time has not come.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is not difficult.

    As long as you don't panic.

    I believe that fate will come soon!

    I'm also waiting, just don't wait.

    There's something for everyone!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Seriously, when you meet the right person, it depends on fate, but whether you can get together with each other depends on yourself.

    Of course, you can also increase the "probability" of encountering fate by expanding your social circle.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, it is to experience and feel with your heart, and your surroundings will appear at any time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The difficulty is calculated according to the number of times you fall out of love, and the more times you fall out of love, the harder it will be for you to return. If you want to stick to it for a lifetime, you have to put your heart and soul into it, don't be afraid of getting hurt, the best things are worth waiting for.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The first thing to do is to make sure that the other person really loves you.

    The most romantic thing I can think of is growing old with someone I really love. A truly beautiful emotion should be able to stand the test of time sufficiently. No matter how time flies, you are always hand in hand, heart to heart, heart to heart, and sympathy for each other.

    If your love always falls apart halfway, and you often quarrel over small things, then it means that your relationship foundation is not strong and deep enough.

    When two people are together, the most important thing is to be sincere and dedicated to each other. If you are irresponsible about a relationship, and you are not willing to make the necessary sacrifices or compromises for love, then it will be difficult for you to truly stay with someone for the rest of your life. So, when a person really wants to stay with you for the rest of their lives, what are the abnormal behaviors?

    The so-called true love is selfless dedication. When a person really wants to stay with you for the rest of his life, he will give you the best of everything without reservation. If a person has reservations about your love and dedication, or that his love for you is not generous enough, full of selfishness and narrow-mindedness, then it means that he may not really want to stay with you for the rest of his life, and he is not true love for you.

    The more a person wants to stay with you for the rest of his life, the more he can't help but silently give everything for you. Because he genuinely wants to live with you, he will be more than happy to give you all his savings, and he will give you what he thinks is best.

    If a person really wants to stay with you for the rest of their lives, they can't help but keep an eye on your every move. Love is mutual care and care. When a person is always greeting you with all kinds of cold and warm greetings, and he can always lend a helping hand to you in time when you need help the most, then it means that he has actually fallen in love with you for a long time, and he is sincerely good to you.

    If a person never pays attention to your latest news or news, he knows nothing about your life situation.

    If he is not interested in your past and he is indifferent to your present, then he does not really want to spend his life with you. A very important criterion for judging whether a person really wants to spend the rest of his life with you is whether he really cares about you in his eyes and heart. A person who truly loves you or wants to stay with you for the rest of his life will naturally put you in an extremely important position in his heart, and he will not help but want to keep an eye on your every move and emotional changes.

    When two people are together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be friction or contradictions. When a person is willing to make appropriate changes for you in a relationship, and he can truly understand your feelings and difficulties, then it means that he really wants to stay with you for a lifetime. Judge whether a person really wants to stay with you for the rest of his life depends on how much he changes or concedes for you.

    The greater the changes or sacrifices a person makes for you, the more he loves you.

    Only people who truly love you will want to stay with you for the rest of their lives. If a person is always stubborn in his relationship, he never easily makes any changes or sacrifices for you, he cares about you, he doesn't give an inch, he wants to compete with you for a high or low or win or lose in everything, then it means that he may not really love you, and he has never thought of staying with you for a lifetime.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    First of all, it must be the same three views, the second is that the other party's circle of friends is more harmonious with their own circle of friends, and they can get the blessings of everyone around the other party, and finally, of course, the satisfaction of the parents of both families.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    1. Easy and happy.

    2. There is no major conflict of values.

    3. With him, you can be a better version of yourself.

    4. Give willingly.

    5. Happiness is greater than running-in.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First of all, you have to ask yourself, can this person really stay with you for the rest of your life? Is this person worth entrusting? If your answer is yes, then this person is truly worth your life.

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