I don t know the bottom of my heart after the first blind date, and the doubts after the blind date?

Updated on society 2024-05-08
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I've also been on a blind date, and if he doesn't take the initiative to contact you, or if you contact him, he doesn't reply, then I have to give up.

    Usually, if you meet once and feel good, you will continue to associate with each other. If it's not good, you won't be in touch soon.

    There is another way, you ask the introducer to help you ask, what is the attitude of the other party, if the introducer asks, you will not be embarrassed, and you can also get a satisfactory answer.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think there's any need to continue! First of all: the girl has no interest in this boy, otherwise she would not be so cold; Secondly, I think this girl has tried to be with the boy, otherwise I wouldn't have gone out again, just pass it and it's OK, isn't it, but the market makes the result look away or not; So in summary, it seems that there is no need for you to continue!

    Once a girl likes a boy, her temper will get better, and this girl's temper seems to be less like this boy! I hope my words don't hurt the boy, in fact, the blind date is like this, it's very realistic, it's cruel, and I'm also churning in this sea of suffering, and at the same time, the end of the world is falling into people! But I believe in love, I believe that there is always someone waiting for us, don't be discouraged by the landlord!

    Finally, I wish the landlord happiness and find the person who belongs to you as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, the key to the problem is to see whether you like the other person or not. If you like the other person, I advise you not to give up. Get to know each other before you plan for the next step.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Take it easy! Men like you'll hit ** for you! You understand if you didn't hit it! So there is no such thing as low or low!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't change people, this cloudy and sunny person is too tired!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you meet for the first time on a blind date, it's actually just the first impression of each other, and you can't be 100% sure whether you like each other, if you only rely on your appearance to find a partner, I'm afraid there will be more single people in this world, I personally think you can suggest that the other party know more times, it doesn't have to be two people together, you can also start from ordinary friends.

    From a girl's point of view, it is difficult for her to call when she sees you for the first time, probably because he doesn't like your appearance very much, he may not like you very much, so he wants to reject you.

    I remember that my cousin was arranged by his parents to meet a boy, the boy he didn't like at first, and only met once, he didn't contact the boy again, I didn't expect the boy to like him very much, has been pursuing him, and communicating with him, slowly he found that there are many places still attracted to boys, after trying to understand deeply, the two chose to get married after more than two years of love.

    If you don't take the initiative, the two people don't feel it after they meet, and there will be no chance slowly, but the blind date must be running to get married, so since you are the one you prefer, you should take the initiative to pursue her, after all, he built once does not mean that he understands all of you, at least you can suggest that he has more contact with you, communicate more, and it is most appropriate for two people to start from ordinary friends.

    I remember that I had a male friend, because I hadn't been in love much, and I was more introverted, and I only had a relationship at the age of 30, and he chose a blind date under the advice of his parents to go on a blind date for a total of three paragraphs, the first two paragraphs because the girl didn't call him, and she was also more introverted, so she chose to accept, but slowly found that if you accept the other party's views every time, you can't find a partner, and the third blind date girl still doesn't like him very much, but he didn't choose to give up this time, but contacted for a while, Although he is indeed not as handsome as Xiao Xianrou in terms of appearance, some of his advantages are slowly revealed, for example, he is a very real person, more secure, and can give people a stable life, and slowly the girl feels that she can know more about him, and as a result, the two of them really got married after knowing each other for a year and a half.

    As the saying goes, a thousand miles of marriage is a thread, and there will be a result if there is fate, so we must insist on many things, of course, then again, if you insist on going to the opposite sex a few more times he still doesn't like you, and then you choose to give up is not a good result, or you go back and forth a few more times and find that the two of you are not suitable for the place, including yourself, slowly do not like him so much, you can also choose a new object blind date, and finally wish you a successful blind date, come on!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The first side is often important, especially when you go on a blind date, if you don't feel good about leakage, you can see from other aspects what are the advantages of this boy's friendship, you can contact it more, after all, people start to get along with friends and slowly find out.

    Sometimes you can't just look at the appearance, or other things you should pay more attention to some of the boy's character or his comparison, some humorous places, some stronger things, you should observe more, give each other more opportunities!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Maybe the woman has been through a lot and is down-looking at emotional things, and mainly wants to know about your qualities. Don't take the initiative too much, give the two of you a period of contact and break up if you can't do it, which is not as good as going to school. If you really like her, you might as well find her good friends to get to know her.

    Women are like this, and I never took the initiative to contact him once when I went on a blind date, not that I didn't like him, but I just wanted to find someone who loved me and was willing to pay for me. You may be in too much of a hurry, and pushing too hard will not work well. Let's get to know her first, by any means but herself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The woman's meaning is that she tactfully rejected you, just taking into account the pressure at home, you also mentioned that her family is very enthusiastic about you, my last object was, the family introduced, but she didn't want to, but her family, there was pressure on her, so she made do with me lukewarmly, and I saw it, so I took the initiative to break up, and I later met my current wife. It's been good to me, I'm happy, I'm content. You should find someone who loves you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're not tough enough, you know? You look at her attitude, of course, chasing her is a piece of cake for you, you are just tentatively connected, afraid that it is not suitable, you can't do this anymore, you have to use the way of pursuit, and then slowly distance yourself if it is not suitable, look at your ability! Don't die, you have to save face!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you like her, you should take the initiative to contact her more, and she should be quite indifferent.

    That's why no one else wants to soak in this kind of woman, and when she falls in love, she will have passion.

    Being a man sometimes picks up girls, don't have too much self-esteem, be like a leper dog, haha.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Working in a different place is a bit difficult, and the building near the water will get the moon first! Body language does play a big role! You have to hold hands to have a chance, it seems that you don't have a lot of experience.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    She obviously doesn't like you, give up, there is no grass at the end of the world

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Look for opportunities to do physical contact.

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