My friend has had her amputated and suffered a love blow, how can I comfort her?

Friend, I can only suggest you watch the 2010-08-08 Chinese Fight Show that there is a little boy with no arms on it, he plays the piano with his feet, he said on the stage, "Either die early, or live wonderfully, no one rules can't play the piano with their feet" Yes, no one wants to lose their hands and feet, but since this unfortunate thing has happened, then we can only face it strongly, because no one has the ability to stop the arrangement that God has given you, but we can be strong Courage and hard work make our lives more worthwhile, and the current prosthetic technology is also advanced, that is, if you are fitted with a prosthesis, you can work, live, travel, etc., I hope your friends will be ** as soon as possible.

Why do you want to push that man away, it's not worth it, now I finally know if that man really loves your friend.

This is also fate, you have to live strong in this life!

If I could, I could persuade her, mine.

01 You should spend more time with your friends.

Sometimes not saying anything, as long as relatives and friends do not leave, it is also able to rekindle the courage of amputees to live. For amputees, the love of relatives and friends is very much needed.

02 You should tell your friends that it's not a big deal. In today's society, technology is so advanced that if conditions permit, you can get a prosthesis, you can walk, and you can pick up chopsticks to eat.

03 You can also tell your friends some examples of amputee patients who strive to improve themselves, and maybe your friends will be reinvigorated after seeing these examples. If possible, you can also invite some amputees to visit your friends.

04 You can also tell your friends that the heavens have descended on the Si people, and this accident may be a test given to him by God. You can keep telling him about his dreams, and once you have a dream, you won't talk about anything else.

Talk less nonsense, spend more time with him/her, work hard with him (her), step by step, let him slowly get used to life, and he will have the courage to face life in the future. Instead of saying a bunch of things that move you. The scariest thing after a major trauma is loneliness and autism.

A person can get back on his feet, but in the end, he still has to rely on himself. If you can't accept yourself and lose hope for the future, it makes sense to commit suicide.

1.It is inevitable to guide the psychological gap for people who are disabled the day after tomorrow, suddenly some things cannot be done, and suddenly life is different from other people and before, this psychological gap is difficult to solve in a short time, which is normal. What we can do is to guide them to do what they can while ensuring their safety, such as guiding them to adapt slowly in the early stages of injury, taking care of themselves in the case of changing living conditions, and giving them positive verbal encouragement.

Don't let them feel like the sky is falling, tell them and make them agree that "disability is just a different way of life, and everything can still be done by themselves".

2.As usual, no matter what the relationship is, I will relate to them as before. Don't let them feel overly cared for and helped, it will cause a lot of psychological stress on them and make them feel that they are different from us.

Focus] Treat them with a normal heart, do not overflow with empathy, and let them feel equal and supported. 3.Help is not the kind of help that the other person can feel exaggeratedly, but is always ready to help.

It is normal that people who have just been injured and disabled may not have time to adapt to the details of life, which requires the help of relatives and friends at some times, and people who have just been disabled may not know much about their physical condition, take paraplegia as an example, it takes a very long time for people in the early stage of paralysis to learn wheelchair transfer, during which there is no professional rehabilitation personnel around, and it is normal to fall when transferring, because they have not yet practiced the "unicorn arm" and cannot support their full weight.

Emphasis is on] needs relatives and friends to quietly help him when he seems to need help, and does not take the initiative to mention this help afterwards, so that he can slowly accept this help imperceptibly.

Motivate him with a more touching true story, I watched the news these days, and there was a little girl who took care of her paralyzed mother at the age of 3! Very encouraged.

Tell her that she is still your beloved mother, and that this is the best comfort we can have for our children.