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Although this society is very realistic, you have your ideas, but after all, you are immature, because you have experienced too little, you still have to consider the advice of your parents, discuss your thoughts with your parents, I don't know if you have watched a TV series "New Marriage Era", the male protagonist is also from the countryside, but he is a door-to-door son-in-law. You can take a look at the comparison. There is a saying called:
Knowing that blessings are always there, come with fate!
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As long as two people feel happy together, it's okay, there will always be a house in the future, even if you find a rich and good condition, you like it to be fine, if you don't like it? It's not a lifetime of ruined. After all, there are not many men in this society who can find good men for themselves.
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Buy a house and be a house slave? If you are self-motivated, it doesn't mean that he can't afford it in the future, you should support him and encourage him, my parents' words want me to say that I can only be a reference, according to the natural law of birth, old age, sickness and death, one day they will leave you, and only your other half will accompany you through life!
Haha, little brother, I'm 21 years old this year, and your boyfriend is in a similar situation, I'm working hard now, although I lost money twice, but my daughter-in-law supports me very much, you should also support and encourage your boyfriend! Come on, bless you and bless us
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Do you think you're a good fit?
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Of course you have to continue, if you love him, you have to continue, as long as two people are truly in love, there are hardships and blessings to enjoy together, I am also very conflicted, my boyfriend owes nearly 500,000 yuan for building a house, I want to repay the money with him, I am not afraid of hardship, as long as the two of them are happy together, but now because of the marriage, our family and his family are a little unhappy, his family wants him to find a local, my family also wants me to find a local, he is from Yiwu and I am from Anhui, so love is very fragile, As long as two people love each other, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. Bless you! Lovers eventually become married.
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Women can't be snobbish, otherwise it's hard to find good men
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Material life is indeed very important, and the trivial daily problems after marriage will feel very troublesome and tiring. But if you find someone to love each other, it's really not easy. If you really love him, you are willing to endure hardships with him, you are willing to struggle together, and you can work together, then you can be with him.
If you are not willing to give anything, just blindly ask him to love you, have a house and a car, it is too difficult. And it's not good for you to do this, now you are still young and can struggle, but you are thinking about a lazy life. If you really find a good rich man, but he doesn't love you, ignores you, and you can do nothing at home every day, will you be happy and happy?
So, don't always ask for perfection, society is very realistic and cruel. You have to think about it, he may be very promising, but you have to accompany him to endure hardships first, can you do it? And how long can it last?
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Do you want to have a house, a car, and a wife?
Why does buying a car and a house have to be done by a man alone?
It's the two of you who live your life, and you didn't marry his mom and dad; He didn't marry your mom and dad either.
If your parents don't have a son, only you have a daughter, will they have to live in a nursing home in the future? Girls don't have to care for the elderly.
In the future, they are basically only children, and the burden of life needs to be carried by two people, and the elderly on both sides need to be supported together.
After marriage, the property belongs to both spouses.
As long as the character is not bad and not lazy, why not?
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This question should be seriously considered, love is not a mess but a life.
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It depends on what you think, if you want to live a rich life in the future, then divide it up and find a rich one, if you want to live a dull life then the problem of affording the house with your boyfriend, or if you are optimistic that he thinks he is a phoenix man, then you can also persevere!
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Use your heart to make decisions.
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You need to give him a little time, and he needs to give you a promise that you're still young, and don't give up for these things.
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The most important thing for two people is to be happy, this society is really tired of having no money, choose what you think, there are many things that are difficult to say.
I can't continue, as a girl, I tell you very clearly.
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Maybe you are the so-called happy enemies, there is no love that does not eat the fireworks of the world, love is originally to be dull, two people have been together for a long time, they will naturally find some shortcomings of each other, but as long as you both try to accommodate each other, and then change your shortcomings a little, maybe you are too young now, your personality is very stubborn, you can communicate with it, you can talk to her, I hope you can get along in the shortest possible time. Bless you all
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