Tell us about what you regret most about not doing in college.

I regret not studying at every location in the Engineering Hall.

The most regrettable thing is going to college.

What I regret most about not finding what I really wanted to do when I went to college. At that time, I didn't think about the future, I didn't know what industry and what major I wanted to engage in in the future, and I wanted to find my professional counterpart, but then I found out that what you learned really has nothing to do with the work you want to do in the future. It took me a few times to find out what I really liked, but compared to many students who have a clear goal as soon as they graduated, I was obviously confused and didn't know what I wanted to do.

Many students find relevant internships or do some related studies during their university years. I, on the other hand, have done nothing.

I regret that I didn't accumulate well. The university time is about the best time I will never have in my life, with enough freedom, enough energy, and a very rare big platform and backing from my alma mater. It's a pity that I spend too much time sleeping.

I didn't read more books in Asia's largest library, I didn't really concentrate on club activities and student work, and I didn't accumulate what I should have accumulated. Looking back, it's a shame.

I didn't travel well, I didn't try my sister and brother relationship, I didn't take the 6th grade, I didn't **. In the past four years, I have not done a single thing with all my might.

I didn't exercise well, and I was too crazy to play games in my freshman and sophomore years, which caused my body to be very weak, and I didn't start exercising until my junior year to make up for a little. I didn't seriously exercise my thinking, eloquence and communication skills, and I was supposed to join the student council and the debate team at that time, but I was lazy and didn't go. I didn't make good use of the library to enrich myself.

The thing I regret the most is that I have never seriously studied my professional knowledge. In the four years of college, I knew that I was crazy about playing and crazy, and I never knew how to study hard, and when it came time to find a job, I began to regret and make difficulties. ‍

When I was in college, I was always playing silly, and I never made any plans for myself, and I didn't find out what I liked, what I would do, and what I could do, so I actually regret that I didn't do these preparations in the first place.

I regret spending my time meeting friends and creating a so-called luxury circle of friends. I also regret going to participate in some messy competitions, and I didn't study the real basic knowledge seriously.

Failure to manage time well. I didn't take the initiative to communicate with my seniors more. Participating in too few club activities has led to the campus experience in the current resume being too pale. I haven't changed my introverted personality.

When I was a freshman, I followed the junior and sophomore years to do activities, and when I was a sophomore or a junior, I took my younger brothers and sisters to organize activities, and I never studied seriously. It wasn't until my senior year that I was about to take the graduate school entrance examination, so I seriously went to review. When I think about it now, I really regret it, not that I regret that the university organized a lot of activities or anything like that, but that I didn't focus on my studies.

If I were to go back to college, I would definitely do the following three things.

1. Learn self-discipline.

From primary school to university graduation, we have to go to school for more than ten years, what is the meaning?

I used to think that it was about learning knowledge, but in the last two years, I realized that it is more important to learn self-discipline.

If you learn self-discipline, you will be able to self-lead and educate yourself, and you will definitely be able to learn whatever you want to learn, buy a book, find some information, and you will definitely be able to learn.

This kind of life has infinite possibilities.

Many people are confused, anxious, and have a messy life, not because they are not smart, not because they are incapable, not because they lack opportunities, but because they are not self-disciplined.

Those who are self-disciplined are outstanding, and those who are lazy are out.

2. Develop a core competency.

Should I join a club when I go to college? Do you want to run for class committee? Do you want to participate in various competitions? The answer is: yes.

In the freshman year, I did addition, and I participated as much as I could, but after the sophomore year, I had to do subtraction, and if I could, I would retreat.

To do addition is to try more, gain knowledge, and at the same time find what you are good at and like.

Doing subtraction is to focus on improving one of your abilities and doing the most cost-effective thing, because your time is the most scarce.

3. Reading and writing.

The thing I regret most when I go to college is that I didn't read a lot of books. Therefore, my personality is not sound and my outlook is unstable, which leads to a bad life for a long time.

Reading is the most convenient and cost-effective way to shape the three views.

To see the world, you have to spend money to travel; When you see a cow man, a cow man may not want to see you.

And reading can break through the limitations of time and space, allowing you to see a larger world; Reading is also a dialogue with cattle people and making friends with great people; That's a lot of value.

If you insist on reading three or four hundred books in four years of college, your cognitive breadth and depth will greatly jump, and you will surpass most people.

Moreover, university is also the best place to study.

Yes, when you go to college for the first time, you are not familiar with many things, you don't understand, and you make some embarrassing things, have you? Let's take a look! When I was in college, the most humiliating thing I felt was that I was 20 minutes late for a guess test.

In college life, we must develop a good habit of self-discipline, which is of great significance for our entire study and life.

If we college students want to effectively develop good self-discipline habits, we can't do without the guidance and learning practice of professional teachers, so we usually have to ask teachers for advice and communicate with them more modestly and politely. Learn more from the teacher and ask questions if you don't understand, this is the best way to learn knowledge.

The most important point in learning is to ask more questions, so students who can often seek the support of teachers and ask more questions from teachers are characterized by their tendency to like to ask questions, so their learning effect is also obvious. Because professional teachers are close to us, there are teachers who are proficient in various subjects in the daily learning classes of students, which is also the most beneficial condition and must be fully used.

Many students do not know how to actively ask questions with teachers, and always learn by themselves, in fact, this is not right, it is also very important to absorb knowledge, and their own efforts are one aspect, but if they make up for their own shortcomings by using the knowledge of others, it will be more effective.

When some students get out of class, they will run to the teacher and ask the teacher their questions, and the teacher will explain carefully.

In fact, this way is very good, students who are good at asking teachers, they are very positive and optimistic in terms of expression ability and personality, and can get along with teachers and classmates very harmoniously, ask each other questions, dare to ask, dare to speak, understand their own shortcomings from the questions, to acquire knowledge, but the memory will be better.

Secondly, ask questions to the main content, ask questions about your doubts, understand whether you don't understand, which knowledge point has an incomprehensible aspect, and talk about teasing so that the teacher also knows how to help you answer the knowledge.

I regret not reading more!

After arriving at the university, you will find that it is very rare in life to have a lot of time to study quietly, and if you miss it, you will not come back, and after graduation, there are too many work, life, family, interpersonal relationships and other things to deal with, and it is difficult to read a book quietly without being disturbed. Cherish the time that can stay in the campus library, and read more classics, science fiction, eloquence, Chinese studies, etc. What you have now is time, energy, don't hold a mobile phone, the mobile phone is someone else's wonderful, not yours, you can watch, but about 30 minutes a day is enough, and then the time is to read books and set a reading plan.

A person's cultivation and knowledge are vividly displayed when talking, your connotation is enriched, whether you are applying for a job in the future, contact important people, and encounter opportunities, you can grasp it, don't miss the time to accumulate a lot of knowledge in college.

Generally, in every university, there will be a career planning course in the first semester of the freshman year, although some schools have a class once a week, and some schools have a bi-weekly class, but in the end it is still set up for college students. However, many college students do not pay attention to the lectures in class, and the teacher asks them to make their own career plans, and they just do it perfunctory, and it is over after dealing with the teacher for a while. When I was looking for a job four years later, I had no direction at all, and the big stool was like a headless fly, and I lamented the failure of Dang Yunchu.

This regrettable thing is almost every college student will encounter, although you have found a job after graduation, but think about it from the bottom of your heart, is this job you really like?

Someone once said that one of the things I regretted in the last four years of my college studies was not that I didn't study well, but that I didn't dare to be myself. The dormitory friends love to play games, and every time they fight in a team, they have to call him, and the good name is that "brothers work together to break money."

The public confession was rejected, because many students also plucked up the courage to confess when they had someone they liked, and they hoped to get everyone's blessings.

Students who fall into this herd mentality will only follow what the public thinks is right and what they do, without actively thinking about whether it is reasonable and suitable for them. Four years later, although he gained a precious brotherhood, he lost the capital to meet the future, and he flew at a low altitude and achieved nothing.

Loneliness is not terrible, but what is terrible is that we are still living in the abyss of trying to fit in, and some circles are not suitable for ourselves at all, and we are forced to integrate into them, at most we only live for others, and the phenomenon of gains outweighing losses always exists. The world is diverse, but that doesn't mean that accepting everything from others is the best way to fit in.

Many students don't want their classmates around them to think that they are not good at studying, so they will study hard in college, but if you fail in college, everyone should think you are very ashamed at this time.

Many students actually don't want to borrow money when they are in college, but when they have to do it, they can only choose this way, in fact, many people think that borrowing money in society or in school is a very shameful thing.

In the end, I didn't study hard.