I m honest, how can I become a spiritual person? 30

I don't know if you are a ** person, there is a celebrity Zhou Libo in the Shanghai burlesque industry, Shanghai style Qingkou, a person can speak for more than 120 minutes, "Thirty Years of Reform and Opening-up", "Laughing in Shanghai" CD is now selling very hot, Zhou Libo is shrewd and flexible, you can feel it first.

Study hard and keep exercising. If you are better than others in terms of knowledge and physique, it is natural that someone will talk to you.

The situation of the two of us is too similar, the most depressed thing for me, I feel that no one else listens to me now, so I talk less and less, I am also 20 years old, I only took a drag 4 years ago, and I didn't dare to talk to girls after that. Now I'm still single, and I'm bored. Would love to change!!

Talking will be forced out of the door.

Speak with a sense of interactivity.

Don't talk to yourself (a sign of lack of self-confidence, others will also be annoyed) what you think is right for it, and don't care about what others think.

Joke with them once in a while, so they will joke with you in the future, and there are people who deliberately make things difficult for you, so I can't do it this time. Use your brain.

This requires self-restraint, which is to keep talking.

Brother, how do you say that? Communicating with people mainly depends on your own psychology, your attitude towards people, think about it, everyone is human, everyone is equal, the more you think that you are not as good as others, the attitude of others towards you will slowly change, you are really inferior to others. In fact, many of us have a feeling of fear in the face of strangers, then it depends on your dating skills, some people can quickly deal with their emotions, into communication, they naturally have something to say, something to talk about, everything is natural, what others can do you can also do.

Have faith in yourself and everything will be fine! Bless you!

I'm just like you, I've been like this since I was a kid. Now it's better to come out and work for four or five years. I am absolutely pessimistic about myself, and I have to be confident in myself. You'll be good if you figured it out for yourself!

Eat a trench, grow a wisdom. But human beings are inherently inherent.

Hehe, you can only understand, but you can't speak.

There is such a story: I got married 5 years ago, my wife is 9 years younger than me, she is a Shanghai girl, very beautiful, I have to run around the market in other places almost more than 100 days a year, in order to compensate, I buy gifts for her almost everywhere I go.

When I went home that year, I took out the beautiful clothes and jewelry I bought for her in Beijing, but unexpectedly, she hugged those high-end clothes and cried: let's get a divorce, I got ...... with a young man in our unitI was stunned, why did I do this? Am I not good enough for you?

But she shouted, "Do you think I'm a bad woman?" Do you think you're good for me if you let me have no worries about food and clothing? When I came back late at night from overtime, trembling on the road, were you a**?

When I had a high fever late at night and was going to the hospital, what you wanted was a flesh-and-blood husband, not a machine that only knew how to make money!

I feel wronged! My pressure is immoral for ordinary people, and the hardship is unimaginable to outsiders, and I am working so hard not for her! So the women according to me are really troublesome animals, they don't look down on men who don't have money, and the rich are just money-making machines, and they take care of themselves too little, which man has three heads and six arms!

When I was a child, when I watched a play, the big field in the open air was densely packed with people, who were small, and wanted to see it, picking up people's sewings, looking for bricks, tiptoeing, doing their best, and unyielding to ensure that they saw ......But that day, my mother also came to see the play, and there was someone in front of me, but I didn't want to find any way out, so I just cried and ......The situation has not changed, the mood has changed, thinking of having a support, you will be weak, if you have a support in your bag, you will be weak in your bones, and the difficulty of your walking is not because others have not given you support, but because you have lost your strength.

Personality plays a big role! If you're a bird-like person, find a broad shoulder that you can lean on. Don't try to change yourself for the sake of men.

A man's love and love is only a momentary feeling, in other words, he only loves you for that moment, and it is useless for you to make more changes. A wise woman will do anything to prolong or hold that moment ...

I also think that you have less experience, and being strong is not something you are born with, but something that you have constantly exercised. It is that you can rely on others, so you have lost the opportunity to exercise, so you should seize the opportunity to exercise yourself in the future, and don't be afraid of pain, because pain is a record of your growth! I wish you success!

First of all, have your own job and income; Then there are responsibilities and obligations of their own; In the end, I found that as a strong woman, men are superfluous.

Hehe, character is very important, everyone has everyone's blessings, you don't have to fall to death on a tree, you don't have to be angry, hehe.

There is no way, the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, and the environmental impact is difficult to change your own dependence.

As a woman, you should have your own opinions in everything you do

Sometimes it can be soft or firm

Good luck!!!

Maybe it's because you're immature, because you're too inexperienced, and it's hard to say that you need to understand this thing yourself, and it's different what other people teach.

You've had too little experience you know.

Women need to be loved by men, but they can't do everything.

Whoever has to have his own thoughts, don't want him to do what you want, this is your own opinion.

This kind of thing is something that needs to be honed ...

I suggest you take a look at the books on this subject.

Why do he like that.

But reading too much is for you.

I don't think honesty is stupid, honesty just says a person's character, but it doesn't represent a person's IQ, in fact, why do you want to look at others like this, people live for themselves, not for others to live, otherwise what's the point, don't care too much about what others say.

Not really. Honesty, it means that a person is more introverted, shy, nothing bad, what's wrong with being honest, everyone has their own character, I am born to be useful, why do I care about other people's opinions, they themselves are not the same, so there is no need to care about these.

That's basically it, don't be a good person, no one is stupid, you count as the green onion.

Stay away from the complicated life and choose your own comfortable and simple life. There will definitely be people who smell like you in life and be friends with you, so don't worry. You can choose some simpler and simpler types in your career.,Go to the countryside to be a village official teacher.。。

Travel abroad once and come back to work and study well.

It's better not to live in a first-tier city anymore It's better to live in a city where the pace of life is not so fast.

Break the time in half every day, live to the fullest, don't think about those things that are not there, men stand at thirty, and women want too.

A confident woman can be independent...

Let go of your mood and set your mind right.

Honest people need to improve 3 places so that they will not be treated as "soft persimmons" by others

It is true that you need to change, first of all, don't be introverted, talk to your friends more, if you don't have friends, find someone who is usually kind to you and will not bully you, take the initiative to talk to others, don't be afraid. There are good people in the world, you have to learn to smile, you don't care what others say, keep smiling, go your own way and let others say it (naturally, except if it threatens your own reputation or interests).

Then, it is your own improvement, and if you have achievements or advantages, others will naturally not underestimate you, and will talk to you more and deal with you more. Gradually, your vision will be widened and you will know how to speak.

In the end, according to the above, there should be no problem, if the introvert will not deal with people is solved, there will be no more honesty (that is, being bullied)! Well, if you really can't do it, don't be discouraged, give up, and continue to change at the same time, but also dig more into your strengths, remember: when God closes a window for you, he will definitely open another door for you, come on!

Here's a little advice from me.

First of all, let him become rich or powerful, and think that he is a character, so that he will be greedy and the weakness of human nature will be exposed.

Do something to him to kill him and leave him with no way out.

The ancient sages were honest people, honest people in the society will hit a wall, suffer losses, but can achieve great causes, for future generations to praise this kind of people are honest people, Confucianism in the integrity of these people called the gentleman, but now China has lost the original culture, the social atmosphere has deteriorated, so the title of gentleman has also evolved with the times into a derogatory term, honest people have become its substitute.