It s been a long time since I ve broken up, why can t I get out! Am I too cowardly!

For your first love, there are many people who can't let go, which doesn't mean that you are cowardly, you can only say that you love with your heart. Now that you've done your best, you know that breaking up is an inevitable consequence, and there's nothing to regret.

In fact, what can't you demonstrate? You said that his performance is often obedient, he is very cold to you, in my opinion, you are not unable to let go of her, but you can't let go of the beautiful feelings you experience in this relationship, and you are reluctant to leave that wonderful feeling.

Besides, the first person to mention the breakup is the other person, not you, which will also make you feel different. If it was the breakup you mentioned, most of your heart would probably be occupied by regret, and you wouldn't be as uncomfortable as you are now.

At this time, all we can do is verbal analysis and encouragement. If you're really uncomfortable, you can offer to keep in touch with the other person and be regular friends until you have a new girlfriend. Maybe you'll feel a lot better this way.

I hope you will experience a true love as soon as possible, to cover this immature relationship, let your wounds fade, let you get out of the darkness as soon as possible, that is when you look at this relationship again, you will smile indifferently...

It's just that the breakup hasn't been long enough, and my first love has been forgotten for a long time. It's been a year now, but I still feel good in retrospect, and although it's unpleasant, I've never thought of the good times.

You don't have to worry so much, because the first love is impossible to forget, it will form a faint scar in your heart, but it is beautiful, beautiful things, then let it exist in the bottom of your heart, why force yourself to forget?

First love is unforgettable....It's human nature....I'm not cold-blooded, but I can see a little bit of a feeling from your question, you give a lot...

Seeing the score of 20, I know you are very hesitant, but in terms of emotional matters, others can't help you too much after all, mainly your own consciousness! I advise you to look at it, that's nonsense, if you can see this kind of thing, you won't take it out and ask....I'm also from the past, I've had my first love, and I've had some other love experiences, and my point of view is: if I reach the age of starting a family, then I'll run my love like running a family, but if I'm still purely in love, this is different...The landlord, you said that you just experienced your first love, hehe, you are still a student, so what, I think you have to have a degree, after all, you are still a student....And then back to the question, I think at your age, love is just an experience, and you can be together for a lifetime after falling in love when you were a student, hehe, it's too rare....So, girlfriends, just friends, you just played a love game, but after the game, you can move on to the next game, or reminisce about the experience of this game, these are all okay...There's really no need to be like you....Well, that's all I have to write and I hope it will be useful to you ......

No, because you haven't found your life goal yet, and when you find your life goal, you'll know what kind of wife you need to find, so that you won't suffer from gains and losses.

Divide it, you guys don't fit it. She doesn't seem to want to talk to you, and you can't see her cuteness. Study hard, and you'll forget it slowly.

First love is always hard to forget, but most first loves are as beautiful and short-lived as fireworks. Time will let it fade, and it's time to start your life all over again.

After all, it's my first love! It's always hard to forget, I'm just like you. Perhaps, time will dilute everything.

Time is the best proof, don't force yourself to forget

No, you've put your heart into it.

It's a matter of time, and slowly you get used to it.

Very few people's emotional path is smooth sailing, we may meet all kinds of people, all kinds of things happen, we will feel happy, but we will also inevitably be hurt. But in any case, please believe that the good feelings are still there. Time will slowly soothe your pain and face your future life happily.

First of all, your world is made up of many pillars, and he or your other half is not all you have, and life has to go on without him.

Secondly, is it possible that you can write and complain here to solve the problem you are facing? Obviously not, there is a lie that is celebrated, it always haunts the person who has misfortune, its name is comfort, are you here to find it? As the saying goes, the poor will be miserable.

Finally, shift your attention to the reality of life, let go of thinking when you think, let go of crying when you want to cry, one of the reasons why people are always in pain is that they always remind themselves to forget something, but this undoubtedly makes people remember it more deeply, because you still want to forget it, accept it calmly, and thank him for his previous general manager to you, he taught you how to face the most vulnerable place in your heart, he taught you how to deal with your wounds, it is right for crying children to have candy, However, the reason for giving sugar is because people are tired of hearing crying.

After a long time, you will forget about it. Take it easy. I'm like that too.

It doesn't matter, time is the best trauma medicine, everything takes time!!

Maybe in a few years, you won't even remember what he or she looks like!!

There is also to make your daily life a little fuller, so that you don't have time to think about him (her) Don't deliberately forget, don't forget, sometimes forgetting a person is more painful than not loving. Because everyone is hurt. In the vast sea of people, there are many people who can love and deserve your love, as long as you grasp the opportunity and pay attention to the information around you, I believe that you will quickly harvest love Everyone has their own journey!!

I hope you can come out soon and welcome the next relationship!!

Different people forget different times, like I broke up but still think of him, maybe it will take me three years to forget him.

It can't be said to be cowardice, the person who invests in the emotion first pays more, and the person who comes out later suffers a lot, and it will slowly fade into oblivion after a long time.

Normal. That's because you're not mature enough. I'm sure you'll come out....

It has nothing to do with cowardice. Don't think about it, don't avoid it, don't imply that you're sad, try to be indifferent every time you think about it, and consciously self-regulate will help you.

You care too much about them, go to socialize with friends more, and it will slowly fade away, if you can, go clubbing, or find something to do, or you can find another girlfriend to date, so it's easy to forget.

It should just be a little uncomfortable, not cowardly, if you are cowardly, you don't dare to face the fact that you can't get out, isn't it? So all you have to do now is adjust your mindset. I really can't adjust it, so let's just cry!

No, this shows that you have her in your heart, you should give yourself a chance, and give him a chance to start all over again, you will know how to cherish it more.

It's okay after a long time, don't rush.

Are you a little introverted and lack of self-confidence Don't be a boyfriend and girlfriend Can you be friends Naturally she doesn't want you to be her loss Think more about yourself A little happier.

Normal, don't think too much! After a long time, you will naturally let go, and if you let go, you will not be afraid to see it.

Yours is not cowardly, everyone is so afraid of being embarrassed by each other. It's good to have a normal heart and a normal heart

Nope! It's all right with you. So don't be weak.

This man is very selfish.

First of all, if he really loves you, he will break up first.

You promise him now, what are you, the junior that everyone shouts and beats?

From this point of view, he is simply selfish.

Secondly, how well do you know him, are you sure he is not a wolf in sheep's clothing, give him a choice, either break up with his girlfriend and come to you, or stay away from you, the road of life is still long, and look at it, the better person for you is still to come.

I ask you a question. If you're his current girlfriend. You'll know what to choose. He's being nice to you now, and he's obedient. What about later?

He's going to get a certificate, he just wants to have an affair with you, if he really loves you, he will definitely break up with his girlfriend and be with you again!!

Is it good to have a man who falls on both sides like this? Is it persuasive to pay lip service to building a better future? Is it good to have a girlfriend who doesn't break up first and then continue another relationship, but starts a new relationship first and then breaks up? Don't you understand everything, there will be many men who are good to you, and you can't ask for this.

When he was with his girlfriend, he chased you and kept the spare tire of his ex-girlfriend to get the certificate, and he regretted it and didn't break up, and he gave you back the stairs He reversed his role In short, I wouldn't want this kind of man who can't give a sense of security.

Why are you so stupid? Since he has a girlfriend, he's still with you! I'll be with you in the future, and I'll do it with other people! He chases you and gives up! It only shows that he just wants to play!

Such a person is not worthy of your love.

It's normal to not be able to walk out for a few days, go out with friends more, relax, and calm down in a few days.

Time is the medicine. Be strong.

Distract yourself and don't think about it. I used to be too, and I felt like I was getting cheap, but it's better after a long time.

Maybe that's the case, it's playing with you ... He actually already has other goals, but that goal makes him injured and can't catch up, so he will come to you to keep warm... Hope it helps.

It's hard to break up now, and if you get married and have children, he won't be better than now, do you choose to break up before marriage or after marriage. Decide for yourself, it's easy to see the overall situation clearly, there is no banquet in the world, don't look back when it's time to break up.

Agree! When he is injured, he will find someone to comfort him, and when he has the opportunity, he will leave again, if he does not redeem it at the beginning, it means that he doesn't care! Men are different from women, and they are never as dedicated to loving men as women!

I'm in the same situation as you, sometimes I still see his messages on the Internet, and I try not to think about it, and my friend told me that the person who really loves you will not disappear for a long time, so that you can't find it, but if you don't see you for a day, I will call ** to ask.

Understand whether you love him or not before you make a decision, in fact, love is built on the basis of trust, and you should look at the level of trust between you.

There is your reluctance to her in it, maybe you are not very decisive when you separate, maybe she has left hope, maybe it is psychological induction, if you feel that it is a pity to give up, why not try to greet it, see if there is a chance, save the crankiness.

Normal, people are emotional animals, that is your attachment to her, if you start a new relationship may be better, but it is not excluded that you will still think of her, in fact, you can't forget it at all.

If you want to come out of the complex, it will take a while to slowly forget her, why don't you do something other interesting or have a good time with your best friend, and gradually overcome the longing for her in your heart, I think time will dilute everything!

You still have a trace of nostalgia for her in your heart, it's just your wishful thinking, she won't come back, you let it go.

Ten thousand flowers have passed, and the leaves do not stick to the body.

No, it's just reluctant!

Towels are used, thrown away and want to pick them up as rags, men are like this.