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Anonymous users2024-02-11You should communicate calmly with your family, the boy is promoted to undergraduate for you, in fact, he is still aware of his shortcomings in this area, and wants to do his best for you, for you to live a good life in the future, as long as you firmly believe that he loves you, you must insist. As for the opinions of the family, the conditions are not good, there is no house, it is far away, this is only the material, have your family ever asked how this boy is? Love and family affection sometimes conflict, but that is only temporary, you have to believe, it is not that you have your choice, to meet the love, the family relationship will be destroyed, that is only temporary, after a long time your family will naturally accept this reality, so you have to have your own opinions, good luck!!
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Listen to your parents, this is a very realistic society, no money and no power is difficult to gain a foothold, entrepreneurship is a difficult process, not to say that there are feelings, two people can work together, the cruelty of life will easily defeat you, there are many examples around me, the most practical is my own sister, who did not listen to the family at the beginning, and now she is married, two people always quarrel because of money, sometimes they will do it, and have children, want to divorce and reluctant to have children, very tangled things, so I advise you to be realistic.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Then you have to see if he has ideals, fighting spirit, and good character (just look at the friends around him). If you have such conditions, you can consider fighting with him, of course, you need to face pressure from your parents, that is a must. But don't choose to get married without your parents' consent, or you may regret your choice later.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Love and life are two different things many times, if you don't listen to your parents, you won't even be able to find a way out in the future, so you should make a full assessment of marrying her, what it will be like in 5 years, what it will be like in 10 years, is that what you want to live?
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Then make raw rice into mature rice.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Stick to your ideals, like to be together, no money and no house is not a moment, to have ambition is the wealth of a lifetime, maybe sometimes parents want their daughters to marry well, but I don't think so, like to be together is the best, of course, the struggle of the two must be needed, I believe you have your own ideas.
Do you regret missing him? Don't let yourself regret it, there is no regret medicine in the world. Stick to your ideas, I've got your back. Oh, come on, our parents may be for our good, but we are even better for ourselves...
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Anonymous users2024-02-05When we encounter this problem, we can do this, first. Explain your situation to your family, explain why you want to be with your boyfriend, and respect their opinion second. Try to communicate with your family to understand their perspectives and try to make up for their differences.
Third. Respect the opinions of family members and do our best to meet their requests. Fourth, if family members don't agree that you and your boyfriend are together, then you may want to consider waiting until you're independent to think about it.
Your dad has helped you find a good job, if you go out, it will only make your relationship more stiff, I don't approve of you going out, because I am in a similar situation with you now, I also thought about running away from home, but thinking about it will only make the relationship worse and worse, you can now work and wait, wait until your boyfriend graduates, make a decision, then maybe there will be a turnaround, I am like this now.
First of all, you must be able to understand the hard work of your parents who are reluctant to let you suffer, and secondly, they think that you are young and vigorous, and many things do not think about the future, and if you don't separate the two of you now, you will definitely regret it later. Of course, this is just some speculation about the psychology of your parents, I think marriage is a matter of two families, you can't escape, you can't do irrational things like elopement, try to let your boyfriend move them, let your parents feel that he has the ability to give you happiness, and at the same time you must be patient and persuasive, not impulsive... Which parents don't love their children, slowly they will accept it, and parents will not be hard-hearted, they are afraid that you will not have a good life, think about it, even if they ask your boyfriend's family for money, it is not because they are greedy for money, and the money will not be for your little two to support your family in the future! >>>More
Hello lz, you are now facing a choice of family affection and love. In fact, I want to tell you that as a perfect life, family love is indispensable. Family love is love, both have love, and there must be understanding and love in them. >>>More
There is nothing more uncomfortable in love than this, but I think every marriage problem must always face the reality, you can not tell your father about the man's past, but you should take your boyfriend over to show your father. Why do I say that, because parents have always had a very subtle and correct intuition about this kind of thing, and if your father really loves you, you have to refer to his intuition Oh, like me, I will trust my parents' intuition. Of course, this intuition may be yes or no, so I would like to divide it into two cases: >>>More
Friends, fight for it, many people don't fight for it, just let love go by, maybe it will be much better slowly, take my mother to see first, my mother's heart is soft, and I will fight hard.