Children are the flowers of the motherland, don t let children be exposed to anything too early?

Every parent wants their child to win at the starting line and get ahead in the future. Therefore, I often want my child to grow up faster, but sometimes it is not better than others. It is best to let the child do the right things at the right age and not put too much pressure on the child, otherwise there is a high chance that it will affect the child's growth and development.

1. Take off the diaper too early.

I believe that there are many parents who will have the idea of the older generation, thinking that children can pee from an early age, so they do not wear diapers for their children or do not use diapers for their children too early. The first is to reduce the burden on the family, after all, diapers are also a lot of expenses, and the second is to cultivate the habit of children to go to the toilet independently in advance.

However, holding the child to a convenient posture can easily affect the development of the child's spine and cervical spine, and will also lead to a decrease in the child's sleep quality, so for the baby's physical and mental health, parents should not let the child not use diapers too early, and it is best to let the child use it until the age of 2 to 3 years before removal.

2. Learn to walk too early.

Some parents believe that the child's ability to walk is one of the manifestations of the child's big movements, which means that the baby's brain is well developed and smart, so it is not yet time for the child to learn to walk, and the child begins to gradually exercise the child to learn to walk. In order to let their children learn to walk earlier, some parents even continue to exercise their children in advance. Although it looks quite imposing, in fact, such behavior can bring a lot of harm to the child.

Because a child's bones are not yet fully developed, walking too early can deform their bones, and in some cases, they may even stop developing.

3. Exposure to musical instruments too early.

Children are too young, their learning ability is not strong, and their physical and mental development is not complete. On the other hand, before the age of 5, children's bones and joints are not yet mature, so if they practice musical instruments for a long time, they will affect the growth and development of bones, joints and ligaments of the hands.

4. Study too early.

In order to let their children win at the starting line, many parents have enrolled them in various study classes and interest classes since they were young, and instilled in their children the concept that "learning early will lead others others", in fact, this idea is very wrong.

Children are small enough to have a relatively poor comprehension ability, and if they are forced to learn, they are only learning by memory, which means that they can only rely on memory to remember, but they do not understand, and it is impossible to draw inferences.

Every parent wants their children to become the dragon and phoenix among people, but in the process of educating children, we still need to pay attention to ways and means, don't rush to "help children grow up", for children, going with the flow is the best. Don't be too anxious to help the seedlings, it will not do any good to the child, and it will also cause the child great harm. For the sake of children, parents should pay more attention.

Don't let your child get in touch with money too early, and don't let your child get too early into things that hurt their self-esteem, so that they can grow up better.

Don't let your child learn to sketch too early. Drawing is something that many children love to do, but sketching is not the same as scribbling. Sketching focuses on lines, light and shade, layout, perspective, etc., and children learn these things too early, which will limit their imagination and only do things in a step-by-step manner, hindering the development of creativity.

Bad habits such as smoking, drinking, and video games, which are not well exposed to too early and are easily addicted, make children easily go astray.

Don't let your child get in touch with the world too early, let alone know the cruelty of society too early, which will help him grow up to be an optimistic child.

Homeschooling is certainly important. There is also the amount of education in the school.

It's not a decision. It is important to create a good environment for children.

Of course, the family education factor is crucial, but it is not.

is the only one. First of all, it is recommended to communicate more, help him solve problems appropriately, and improve his confidence in learning, this right should be the most important!

Secondly, now is a good habit to cultivate slowly, don't worry, interest is the best teacher!

Finally, believe that we and our children can succeed!

It can't be said that the decision is very important, but it is a very important influence.