I m a freshman in high school and I hope you can help me

I'm also a freshman in high school. When I was in junior high school, I was also outstanding, and I was also top-notch, but what was the use? I will be like you when I first enter high school, but I want to tell you that high school and junior high school are different, and even unrelated, when you can't adapt to the new environment, this state is inevitable, you just need to adjust your mindset and believe that you are the best.

Don't compare with others, as long as you compare with yourself, no one says how much better people in a good class will be better than people in an ordinary class, this is just a preliminary judgment of others. No one says that people in the ordinary class are not better than people in the good class, tell yourself, I can do what others can!

Forget how good you were in junior high school, a chance to start over in high school, others are others, you are you, adjust your mentality, change your thinking, increase your self-confidence, and believe that you are the best!

Your so-called decline in grades is just a vicious circle caused by your own mentality, stop going on like this, and everything will be fine!

LZ: I really look like you.

But I'm at peace now.

After too many failures.

I thought about giving up.

Of course, there are countless self-blames.

But I've changed. I'm motivated.

I became more and more courageous.

Just find your motivation.

You can keep overcoming.

Send you a little poem I wrote:

God knows. The direction of my intersection.

God knows. Whether my ending is rippling or not.

God knows. Where can I look up to my dreams?

God knows. Where will my heat wave be?

God knows. How long did I hold out.

God knows. How tolerant I am with you.

God knows. What does my future hold.

God knows. And I don't know 、、、

We're working together.

I'm not asking this question for the sake of sharing.

Regain your faith. Get that back you!

I've always been a midstream type student myself, and there's no good way to learn.

But, remember, the lower you are, the worse your grades will be! What's wrong with those people around laughing at you?! You have to hold back the energy in your heart and tell yourself that one day you will let them all come back!!

Also, don't be discouraged from writing homework just because your grades have dropped, and treat every assignment as if it were an exam!

In your words, I can still see your dissatisfaction with the original class assignment, but it is useless to complain, you only have to work your own and use your efforts to fill these injustices! Don't think it's unfair! This is still true!

As long as you don't despair, there will be a way out of everything! Don't give up on yourself!

Hehe little brother, don't be discouraged, keep working hard, I believe you are a smart person, you also have a high emotional intelligence, and your foundation is very good. Maybe the current approach is a bit inappropriate at the current stage.

My suggestion is to join the tutoring class of the school teacher, and if you have a key point, the teacher will also teach you the method. Point out where you fall short.

And you don't need to be in such a hurry, it's only a freshman in high school, as long as you work hard, you will definitely be admitted to a good university. I've got your back.

High school is not a 100-meter race, it should be a marathon. Grasp the present and leave it alone, after all, the college entrance examination is compared with classmates in a province, not just a school.

When I was in high school, I was in the experimental class, and I felt that the experimental class was indeed better than the ordinary class, not because the teacher was good or anything else, I felt that the most important thing was the atmosphere of learning and competition, as well as everyone's good attitude (or a small sense of superiority). However, these are not available in the experimental class at this time, and self-motivated students like you should be more able to feel the pressure in the ordinary class, so as to get enough motivation. But hopefully you'll be clear about what you want.

For example, if you want to enter Tsinghua University, then you don't need to care about others, just work hard.

Remember this sentence: I thought it would be enough to spend two and a half years preparing for a set of exam questions. Come on, junior brother (I can see that you are a classmate with a lot of ideas, I didn't think about the student union at all in high school, hehe)!

Are you depressed all day?

High school life is not just about learning.

You can participate in more club activities to open up your brain and be more happy and aerobic, my classmates around me also have this, you have to have confidence in yourself, everyone has a low period, as for the learning method, the best way is to listen attentively to every word the teacher says during class, and then keep up with every step of the teacher, you can react immediately when he asks questions, after class, as long as you complete your homework seriously instead of being lazy, I think it will improve soon.

And the most important thing is that you have to have a happy study life, which is your biggest motivation.

Life is like this, maybe you are at the low ebb of life now, isn't there such a saying, God wants to achieve whoever he wants to hone first, the devil wants to destroy whoever he wants, he will indulge whoever first, you don't have to suffer, as long as you are willing to work hard, it will definitely be effective, come on! No one can hit you but yourself.

First: I send you a word, all is well! When you encounter any difficulties, please say to yourself in the movie "Three Fools in Bollywood". I suggest you take a look. Remember at all times: never give up and always be optimistic!

Man cannot change the environment, but he can change himself. The learning atmosphere is not good, you have to control yourself, don't follow the crowd. In your own heart, deep in your heart, remember that your own perseverance and hard work are the most important; Stick to your own efforts and don't be disturbed by the outside world!!

Second: It is normal for the grades in junior high school to be so good in high school that they are not so good in high school, because the types of difficulty in the courses are different, so you don't have to worry about yourself. You have to sort out your own thoughts:

Mathematics, English, and Chinese are the three most important subjects, and the others can spend less energy, but these three courses must be given priority, and more energy and time should be invested (because all arts and sciences have to be studied, and the college entrance examination has a high weight) The more you hate the teacher, the more you have to prove yourself, the more you have to learn this subject well, so that you can despise this teacher in your heart! I didn't like my biology teacher in high school, and she didn't like me, but my biology grades were always in the top 10. The results are your own, and they will be useful to yourself in the future!!

Ignore the teacher!!

Third, the problem of learning methods. There is a mathematical method for learning mathematics, and English has an English method.

And the right method must be combined with long-term perseverance to achieve results. It is recommended that you take a look at the two books "Waiting for You at Peking University" and "Waiting for You at Tsinghua University". The book introduces the psychological pressure, study pressure, study methods, etc. in high school!

Highly recommended! Fourth: I've also come from high school, and the pressure is there, everyone has it. Learn to regulate your mood and release stress.

For example, if you go for a run and sweat, you will be very relaxed! It's better to make yourself enjoy a certain sport! There will be pressure after you work, the pressure of buying a house, the pressure of work, and so on.

In modern society, especially in China's impetuous and utilitarian society, we must grasp the peace of our hearts and not lose the serious things in our hearts--- such as persistence and optimism, kindness and sincerity.

Fifth, your post here shows that you're smart enough, because a lot of high school students wouldn't think of such a stress-relieving method. Take off the pressure, believe in yourself, find the right way, get rid of the people and things you hate, and start working hard! fighting！

Finally: You can talk to friends about your inner troubles and academic pressures in high school, but remember not to fall in love. College is the time to fall in love.

In high school, you can have an ambiguous relationship with the opposite sex, talk about your heart, but don't talk about love. Remember, there can be little ambiguity, but don't cross the line! Everyone has had an ambiguous student era.

When you graduate from college, you will find that it is okay to be ambiguous in high school, but it is not appropriate to be in love.

Good mood and good grades! Persistence is victory!

I always feel that I am similar to you, I am a sophomore in high school this year, and when I first entered the school, I was more resistant to the school, I always felt that my strength was not to be admitted there, and it was also a learning atmosphere in the class, everyone made trouble in class every day, and my learning mentality was similar to you, but I was still relatively strong, I entered the class with the first place, and was overtaken by a boy in the midterm exam, and then it has been the second place, I am not reconciled, but I still haven't studied hard, However, my grades did not drop because my classmates often asked me questions, and as a strong person, of course, I couldn't tell them that I wouldn't, so I wasn't nervous but I wasn't slack. It's mostly up to the individual to learn this thing. As for the annoying teachers you said, to be honest, I always hated my Chinese teacher and physics teacher when I was in the third year of junior high school, because they were really strange, they were all new teachers in the third year of junior high school, so most of the Chinese classes I was against the Chinese teacher, and in the physics class I was watching her various performances.

The final result is that the high school entrance examination is smashed. Now I have more or less annoying teachers, I hate them because I think they are too verbose, after all, eat everything to grow a wisdom, generally in the class of the teacher I hate, I basically only look up a few times to listen to the key points, the rest of the time is self-study in class, so the grades are good. There are no stupid people, only people who don't work hard, I believe you can make great progress, come on!

Don't be depressed, everyone's brain is the same, it's not that you're stupid, you're still in your first year of high school, you still have hope, according to my experience, poor grades may be something else that interferes with your studies or your foundation is not solid or you are too lazy. You hate your teacher, unlike our school, although it is a key high school, but the teacher is really incapable, like our math teacher, listening to his lecture is a waste of time, only talking about the topics that we can understand by self-study, and not talking about what we don't understand, or the county famous teacher, my own self-study efficiency is higher, and then to our English teacher, I will only memorize words by rote and will not apply them flexibly, turn a sentence to the bull's head and not the horse's mouth, and the consciousness of my own knowledge should be directly put up, and his translation I have received so funny. You are better than me in the city, the teacher is stronger than ours, you are happy enough compared to us, your grades are not good, you can do it again in the first year of high school, and you will wait until the second year of high school.

It's too late for the third year of high school. There is still hope, let's work hard. Your task now is to not only learn the courses that you are required to learn well, but also to make up for the shortcomings, understand the knowledge points in question, work hard, and believe that you can do it.

To be honest, you have to like this teacher to like this subject, I used to like English teachers, and then my English was super good, and you tried to communicate with the teachers more, and after getting acquainted, you found that every teacher was actually very cute, and you didn't study well, did you not adapt to the environment? High school math is actually very simple, don't you just ask, you have to have confidence in yourself, how can you study seriously without confidence? You have to face learning with a good attitude!

As long as you have the heart, there is nothing that you can't learn, as long as you put in the effort, there will always be a reward.

Together, brother.

I entered Henan Huaiyang Middle School from a rural junior high school, similar to you. Lower. After three years, he actually entered the 10th place in the grade.

Today, as a teacher, as a parent with a high school student at home, I would like to say a few words:

1. Winter vacation is the best time to check and fill in the gaps. You must understand your own shortcomings, and "be ashamed and courageous".

2. How to make up for it, there must be a clear motivation and method.

3. More than 6 hours a day, insist on studying, don't work hard today, and work hard to find a job tomorrow. That's what it means.

Methodological issues. When there's no good way, rote memorization is the best way. After understanding and then memorizing, you go beyond the so-called rote memorization. Back to memor, think about it, practice it, know why it's like this, and not like that?

Most of the students in high school are confused, and few are sober. If you can understand, you can understand, if you can't understand, you can memorize, what are you hesitating about? God can't look for it with a telescope, and faith can't be counted with a computer, it's all on his own.

The so-called one glance and ten lines, people who can understand it once they read it, don't have it at all. It's all fought to the death.

Timing. 3 hours in the morning, Chinese and English, focusing on checking and filling in the gaps, and making up for what is missing. Don't be ambiguous.

2 hours in the afternoon, understand the definition of formulas and theorems, practice some questions, and it is best to find a reference book for general review.

1-2 hours in the evening to summarize what you have learned for the day. Check the omissions of the day and make up for the shortcomings of the day.

For people who are addicted to learning, it is difficult to learn well. Those who are interested in learning, can learn. ***************

Follow the teacher. This sentence looks easy, but it is not easy, today's things are more listening, asking more questions, and practicing more, don't be lazy.

While admiring your courage, I really can't think of any magic tricks. I am a sophomore experimental student in a so-called key high school in Zhejiang. Studying science, my feeling is that after entering the second year of high school, it will be more difficult, and I can't find the north all of a sudden.

I can't talk about any method of learning on my own, just look at the textbook, combine it with the class, find out the key points, and then do some homework appropriately, not all of it. This "appropriate" is difficult to grasp, and you have to find out for yourself. For example, math problems that can be seen through at a glance, or problems that purely examine calculations, I personally recommend skipping them.

However, you must understand that the price of not doing this kind of question is one less opportunity to exercise. Again, I stress that this degree should be grasped by ourselves.

Don't dare to say that these words are useful to you, just nonsense. Also, while studying, reflect on your exam strategy and what mistakes or areas you can improve on the exam.

That's all I can think of for now. You can talk to me again later.