Why I don t have anything in career and love

Generally speaking, there is a career before thinking about love, but because of love, you pursue a career, if you love her, you must give him happiness, you must struggle in your career, work hard, and take the reality seriously.

It seems that you should think about this problem, is it that you don't like to talk, it seems that the problem is in you, take a good look at yourself! When you meet someone you like, be brave enough to chase it. As for the career, have you paid for it? No one will succeed casually! Come on!

How to love and have a good career? Should this be the necessary connection? There are many successful people in their careers, and there are many who are happily married, haha But Liu Xiang seems to have said that he regretted not having a girlfriend before winning the Olympic championship, probably because he was afraid that other people's motives for loving him were not pure.

When your career is successful, it means that your love is successful." Love needs to be happy with each other, if the other party loves you, she doesn't need you to succeed in your career, she also loves you, career success is just the icing on the cake in your life; On the contrary, the other party does not love you, there may be various reasons, if it is because she originally thinks that you are not a career-oriented person, then you can change her view when you are successful in your career, so as to accept you, then your love can also be successful; If the other party just doesn't call you and doesn't love you, then what does your career success have to do with her? No call or no call.

Love should be able to contribute to the success of your career to a certain extent. A man's sense of responsibility should be responsible for his family, and the same is true for his own career. With the nourishment of love and the encouragement of your lover, you also have the motivation to do your career, and someone in the rear helps you take care of it, so is it easier to devote yourself to the front charge?

The so-called "every successful man" has a virtuous woman behind it, and this is the truth. That's how I understand the relationship between love and career :)

Career is to rely on one's own struggle, and love is about fate.

I don't know, because I'm the same haha

1. Don't judge a person casually.

In a relationship, everyone will have their own different opinions and perceptions, so don't judge other people's lives lightly. If you haven't experienced the life of someone else, don't judge easily, because you never know what the other person has gone through, and don't deny a person's efforts because of your own subjective assumptions, which will only hurt the other party.

2. Love is not the whole of life.

Many people think that falling in love is all that is in life, but in fact, this idea is wrong, in addition to love, we also have work, friends and so on. If there is only love in life, a lot is lost.

3. When two people are together, the most important thing is trust.

The most important thing in a relationship is not to love each other, but to trust each other. If you don't have even the most basic trust, then the relationship won't last long.

4. A good relationship needs to be maintained by both parties.

A good relationship needs two people to maintain together. Only when two people give together can this love be maintained. Don't feel that as long as you pay, you will definitely be able to get the other party's sincerity, which is unrealistic and undesirable.

All in all, don't give up your job for love, because when you don't have an economic core and infiltrate independence, you will be envious, love is not all you have, and it will even make you lose yourself.

Love is the temple of mankind, the desire for love in life, and the destination of life. A living person, without love in life, life becomes meaningless.

Love is the crystallization of love, and love is the fate of past and present lives. For the sake of love, people may give up their lives and fall in love with each other in different worlds.

In the face of love, life trajectory can be flexible. People can have love because of their careers, and they can also build careers because of love.

Love is sacred and full of responsibility, but human love is a social responsibility that goes beyond love. When you come to the world, you have to take responsibility for your parents, family and social obligations that gave birth to you, and have love in real life to find a complete life. Young people do have a dilemma.

If there is a happy outcome for love, you will have to face giving up your career for many years, and you will be unwilling to give up your career. It seems that what Old Master Meng said about the incompatibility of fish and bear's paws has been verified again.

However, from the postscript, I learned that the person who raised this question is still young, and since he is faced with a dilemma in the choice between love and career, he still has to rely on his personal knowledge and ability to analyze things, compare the two, weigh them repeatedly, and choose which is more important. Do not be emotional, not calm, not calm, and make quick troubles that make you regret for life.

The poem written by the Hungarian poet Pei Duofei is estimated to have been read by the subject, namely: life is precious, and love is more valuable. In this, the poet puts love and human life in the same important position, if young people really find someone who really loves you, don't give up easily.

As for the career, you can continue to work hard. Connections can also be re-established. As long as individuals do not give up their work efforts, it is not impossible to find a breakthrough in a new career in Anhui's hometown and the Yangtze River Delta.

Life in the world is decades of time. And youth is even shorter, fleeting, and never returned. It's easy to find a job, but it's hard to find a soulmate.

Therefore, with personal ingenuity and several years of practical work experience, it is not impossible for young people to create a brilliant career as long as their wife supports you after marriage.

Don't hesitate, as long as love comes to a stage where the flowers bloom and blossom, give up work for the time being, solve personal life events, and then think about others.

Life is like this, you have to accept what you choose, no matter how much you regret it later, you can only carry your regrets all the way forward.

The above is only the opinion of passers-by on this issue, as a party, you still need to make a decision based on your specific circumstances.